Bachelor/Bachelorette

Rehearsal Dinner

Arrow Park

Wedding Day

Fall

Our Wedding

Our story began with a simple match on a dating application called Coffee Meets Bagel that changed everything. What was supposed to be a casual first date at Dhaba quickly turned into hours of talking, sharing Indian food, and realizing how easy it felt to be together. We wandered to La Lanterna di Vittorio for a bottle of wine, tucked into a cozy corner while the city hummed around us, and somewhere between laughs and candlelight, we felt the spark of something unmistakable.From that night on, our lives began to entwine in the most natural way. We explored the world together one neighborhood, one restaurant, and one adventure at a time. We became regulars in Astoria, hunted down soups, sushi, pizza, and tacos in just about every borough. Our love grew through many international adventures to Lake Como, Transylvania, Cartagena, Quebec, Charleston, Napa, and wherever else our curiosity carried us. But no matter how far we traveled, we always found our way back to each other and to the little routines that make life sweet: cooking together, reading side by side, hiking, singing, playing video games, dreaming big dreams, and taking long walks for no reason at all.The proposal took place on a day that felt like a little piece of magic. On December 21, 2024, James’s birthday and the shortest day of the year, New York received its first snowfall in ages. He asked Anda to take a walk through Astoria Park, a place filled with memories and meaning. Under drifting snowflakes, at our favorite bench, James pulled out a ring he had designed himself and began reciting a love poem he had memorized in Romanian. Anda said yes through tears and laughter as snow softened the whole world around us.We describe each other in ways that still make us smile. Anda says James is kind, spirited, and funny, the person who brings joy and steadiness to every moment. James says Anda is sassy, warm, and bright, the person who brings color and light to every corner of his life. Together we are playful and curious and endlessly excited about the world. We love food, travel, music, art, time with family, long massages, kayaking, dancing, and discovering new things side by side. Above all, we love building a life that feels full, joyful, and uniquely ours.As we look forward to our wedding, we imagine a celebration wrapped in nature, filled with trees and twinkling lights, touches of Romanian, French, and Californian influence, wildflowers everywhere, music that makes everyone dance, and food that brings people together. We want the day to feel warm and welcoming, beautiful and fun, elegant but never stuffy, a gathering where laughter rings bright and everyone feels part of the story.Thank you for being part of our lives and our journey. We cannot wait to celebrate with you and begin the next chapter, hand in hand, heart to heart, ready for all the adventures still to come.

Love, Laughter, and a Little Bit of Magic

Our Story

Photos

Latchmi Gopal

George Totoreanu 

Leslie Hamilton

Melissa "Mel" Drennan

Anthony "Ant" Giralo

Stephanie "Steph" Erwin

Alex Totoreanu

Teri Talbot

Doug Tucker

Karen Sierra

Rachel Worthy

Patrick "Pat" Murphy

Emily McGonigle

Michael "Mike" Murphy

Deborah "Debbie" Wong

Samantha "Sam" Chasse

Dan Sullivan

Heather Gilbert

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Q + A

The Hampton Inn is our primary hotel! We’ve reserved a block of rooms to make your stay comfortable and convenient. You can use the link or call the hotel directly and mention the Erwin/Totoreanu wedding to receive the group rate. The block is reserved for both Friday and Saturday night, however you are not required to book both nights. We recommend booking early, as rooms are limited. We will also be providing a shuttle service from this hotel the day of the wedding, please check back for more shuttle info as we get closer. If you have any questions, please feel free to reach out. We can’t wait to celebrate with you!

Hampton Inn Harriman Woodbury

We’ve reserved a block of rooms at this hotel also! Please use the link provided or call the hotel directly to make a reservation and mention the Erwin/Totoreanu wedding to receive the discounted rate. We will be providing transportation from this hotel as well. Again, please book your accommodations as soon as possible to ensure you have a place to stay. We can’t wait to celebrate with you!

Sleep Inn & Suites Monroe - Woodbury

Transportation Info

Please continue to check here for transportation timing and information for our wedding day

Travel

If you have a couple of hours to wander, this outdoor sculpture park is gorgeous. You can walk, picnic, take photos, and enjoy huge art pieces surrounded by rolling hills.

Storm King Art Center

Great if you want to get outside. There are easy walks, more serious hikes, pretty lake views, and spots to just sit and relax. A perfect little nature break.

Bear Mountain State Park

If you love quiet trails and peaceful scenery, this is the place. Lots of woods, lakes, and space to explore at your own pace.

Harriman State Park

A cozy farm-to-table restaurant and market where everything tastes fresh and seasonal. Great for brunch, lunch, or a relaxed meal with beautiful views.

Blooming Hill Farm

Perfect for anyone bringing kids — rides, shows, LEGO everything, and a full day of fun. It’s upbeat, colorful, and super family-friendly.

LEGOLAND® New York Resort

A fun hangout spot with craft beer, pizza, live music on some weekends, and plenty of indoor–outdoor seating. Easy place to spend an afternoon.

Tin Barn Brewing

A casual, tasty spot for burgers, tacos, and drinks. Good for a low-key lunch or dinner if you want something easy and close by.

Anda & James

Anda & James

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