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In the throes of my delirious joy, I exclaimed: O Jesus, my Love, I have found my vocation at last. My vocation is love! (St. Thérèse of Lisieux)

Anika & John Paul

Anika & John Paul

September 28, 2024 • Kelowna, British Columbia, Canada

In the throes of my delirious joy, I exclaimed: O Jesus, my Love, I have found my vocation at last. My vocation is love! (St. Thérèse of Lisieux)

Anika & John Paul

Anika & John Paul

September 28, 2024 • Kelowna, British Columbia, Canada

A&J

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September 28, 2024
Kelowna
British Columbia

*Monday, September 30 is a statutory holiday

We are building a home and family to last the ages. We invite you to join us.

Wedding

September 28, 2024
2:00 PM–9:00 PM
Immaculate Conception Church
839 Sutherland Avenue, Kelowna, BC

2:00 PM–3:45 PM

2:00 PM–3:45 PM

Ceremony

We are honoured to have you join us for our wedding ceremony. We kindly request a quiet and respectful atmosphere in the church, without talking or applause. However, we warmly encourage everyone to sing and participate in the prayers and hymns during the service. Confessions will be available starting at 1:30 PM for those who wish to receive the Sacrament before Mass. Attire: As this is a sacred occasion, please dress in a way that reflects the reverence of the day. For Men: A dark suit (gray or navy) is preferred, with a white or light blue shirt and black dress shoes. While black oxfords are ideal, subtle alternatives are acceptable. Please avoid casual or light-coloured attire such as khakis, sports jackets, or loafers. For Ladies: We ask that you wear an afternoon or cocktail dress or a long skirt and top. Ladies should cover their shoulders, and hemlines should fall below the knee, even when seated. Following church tradition, we kindly require that women cover their heads with a hat, veil, or scarf during the ceremony (1 Corinthians 11:2-16). Cultural attire that follows these guidelines is most welcome. We hope these dress guidelines help ensure that our attire reflects the dignity of the setting. Everyone’s wardrobe may differ, so feel free to come as close to this guideline as possible. Those who wish to change for the reception are welcome to do so, as it will not be held inside the church. Reception of the Eucharist: Please note that only baptized Catholics who have received their First Communion, are practicing the faith, and are in a state of grace (having confessed any mortal sins) may receive the Eucharist. If you do not wish to receive, we ask that you remain seated and join us in prayer.

3:45 PM–9:00 PM

3:45 PM–9:00 PM

Reception

Following the ceremony, we invite you to continue the celebration at the Parish Centre, located next to the church. Join us for dinner, dancing, and an evening filled with joy, laughter, and celebration.

Building Something Beautiful For God –

To Last A Thousand Years

Marriage is crucial to the life of the Church and the world. The primary foundation of human society is the married couple, not the individual.

Our purpose is evangelical.

Receiving the sacrament of matrimony signifies more than expressing romantic feelings; it signifies the couple's belief that God has called them to this love and entrusted it to them as their primary mission.

A sign of God's love

A beacon of hope

"Follow your heart" has ended more marriages, caused more addictions, mutilated more bodies, destroyed more souls, and ended more lives than Satan could have imagined. It's one of Hell's most effective slogans. Don't follow your heart. Follow the One who created it.

Love is the light, and in the end, the only light that can always illuminate a world grown dim and give us the courage to keep living and working. We can practice love because we are created in the image of God (Pope Benedict XVI).

Just as of old God encountered his people with a covenant of love and fidelity, so our Savior, the spouse of the Church, now encounters Christian spouses through the sacrament of Matrimony. Christ dwells with them, gives them the strength to take up their crosses and so follow him, to rise again after they have fallen, to forgive one another, to bear one another’s burdens, to “be subject to one another out of reverence for Christ,” and to love one another with supernatural, tender, and fruitful love. In the joys of their love and family life he gives them here on earth a foretaste of the wedding feast of the Lamb. (CCC 148-150)

Grace has the power to make straight the paths of human love. (St. John Paul II)


How can I adequately convey the joy of a marriage sanctified by the Church, fortified by an offering, consecrated by a blessing, heralded by angels, and sanctioned by the Father? The bond between two believers is remarkable—one in hope, one in desire, one in discipline, and united in service. They are children of the same Father and servants of the same Master, indivisible in spirit and flesh, truly becoming one in body and spirit. Where the flesh is unified, so too is the spirit. (Tertullian)

St. Gregory of Nazianzus reflects on his parents' marriage:

They inspire us toward virtue...he has been her guiding shepherd, for whom she has prayed and led along his path; from her, he has learned the example of being a good shepherd. Both share equal dignity, unity of mind, and harmony of soul, not only in their virtuous partnership and closeness to God but also in their physical unity. They vie equally in the longevity of their lives and the wisdom of their years, their prudence shining brightly...they are only slightly hindered by their physical bodies, yet far advanced in spirit. The world neither possesses them nor do they possess it—disregarding one world while greatly valuing the other. They have relinquished their earthly riches and have grown rich through the pursuit of holiness, forsaking one form of wealth to attain the world to come's treasures.

We dedicate everything we are and have to Mary: our marriage, work, family, and life. Mary leads us to salvation. She is the one who crushes all heresies; she is the Mystical City of God, the Paradise prepared for us, the Mediatrix of All Grace, Wisdom, our Protector, Consoler, Advocate, and Mother. She is the Immaculate Conception, the Queen of Heaven and Earth. May Our Lady's will be done in all things; may God help us refrain from interference.