Cascades Ballroom

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Our Wedding

The Story of Us

From two coworkers goofing off on the job—Jakob always volunteering to bag when Ashlee was on register—a lighthearted friendship quickly took root. What started with shared laughs and inside jokes soon blossomed into a deep and lasting connection.&nbsp; Their story began at Publix Super Market on Blanding Boulevard, where Ashlee started working shortly after Jakob joined the team in 2020. In the midst of a global pandemic, when masks became a necessity and social distancing was the norm, a strong friendship formed between Jakob Bryant, Ashlee Erdman, Rebekah Martel, and Eric Buttler. They called themselves the Fantastic Four, experiencing the must-do's of early adulthood together. Over time, Ashlee and Jakob’s connection grew. One chilly night after a bonfire, they ended up skating through the quiet streets of Jacksonville Beach. Jakob offered Ashlee his jacket, and later, as they talked in his car, they both admitted they had feelings for someone. When Ashlee asked who Jakob liked, he stepped out, fogged up the car window, and wrote one word: YOU. From their first late-night Taco Bell run with Sydney Burton and Yaxel Robles to deep, late-night conversations and beachside skate sessions, their bond only grew stronger. Today, Ashlee and Jakob live together with their cats, Kodi and Remi. They’ve been together for five years, sharing a life full of love, laughter, and adventure. Jakob works in engineering, and Ashlee in advertising. In their free time, they love playing pickleball, painting, and playing video games together. Every day, they continue to grow as a couple, building a relationship filled with joy, understanding, and support.

December 2020

Our Story

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Taylor is Ashlee's cousin and currently lives in Arizona, where she graduated from ASU with her BA in Psychology and is now about to finish her MA in Clinical Mental Health Counseling through University of the Cumberlands. She’s passionate about supporting children as they navigate life’s toughest challenges. A former competitive dancer, Taylor trained in multiple styles, including ballet, hip-hop, and jazz. She and Ashlee share matching pineapple tattoos on their ankles. It was Ashlee’s very first tattoo, which she got during a family visit to Arizona.

Taylor Wexler

Sean is Jakob’s dad, and the two share a strong and meaningful father-son bond. Jakob has learned countless valuable lessons and gained much of his wisdom through his dad’s guidance. Sean loves riding motorcycles with his wife, Tara, and together they've explored many scenic routes—including some unforgettable rides along the West Coast. As a professional working in the MEP engineering industry for over 25 years, Sean inspired Jakob from a young age and played a big role in sparking his passion for the field.

Sean Bryant

Sydney and Ashlee have shared a close friendship for over a decade. Originally from Fleming Island, Florida, Sydney spent five years living in Kingman, Arizona, but has since returned to her hometown in Florida. Despite the distance and time apart, their bond has remained strong. Ashlee, Jakob, Sydney, and Charles often team up for Fortnite sessions and get lost in group phone calls. A talented writer, Sydney has written numerous poems over the years and currently works at Baptist Medical Center, where she cares for newborns.

Sydney Burton

Matti and Ashlee have been close friends for over a decade. Their friendship began back in high school at Fleming Island, sparked by the discovery that they lived in the same neighborhood. Matti is a devoted mother to her adorable son, Waylon, and is currently pursuing her RN at FSCJ. On top of caring for her child and going to school, she also works at a hospice center, gaining valuable experience for her future career in nursing. She's incredibly knowledgeable, compassionate, and has a true passion for helping others.

Matti Richardson

Rebekah and Ashlee first became friends while working at Publix, where their bond quickly grew. They've now been close friends for over five years. A true adventurer at heart, Rebekah loves to travel—and she and Ashlee have shared fun trips together to places like Orlando, Atlanta, and Nashville. She was also part of the iconic "Fantastic Four" friend group, which included Ashlee, Jakob, Eric, and herself. Rebekah now works at Fidelity Investments, where she helps clients take charge of their financial futures.

Rebekah Martel

Becca and Ashlee first became roommates in college, and their friendship quickly grew from there. Their bond was especially meaningful during that pivotal time, as they were learning how to live on their own. They went through the highs and lows of young adulthood together, sharing lots of memorable moments along the way. Becca now works as a surgical tech at St. Vincent’s and loves the medical field. She’s also a great photographer with a big heart and loves helping others. She lives with her fiancé, JB, and their sweet dog.

Becca Massey

Trinity is Ashlee's cousin and a bright, ambitious student at Orange Park High School. A talented french horn player, she’s an active member of the school band and absolutely kills it during marching band performances. She’s also enrolled in a specialized medical program that will allow her to graduate with her CNA certification—an impressive step toward her dream of working in the medical field. Trinity’s really into forensic pathology and hopes to become a medical examiner, performing autopsies.

Trinity Bledsoe

Eric and Jakob first crossed paths while working at Publix, where their shared sense of humor quickly sparked a lively friendship. Anytime the two were in the same room, laughter was guaranteed. Eric was also a key part of the "Fantastic Four" friend group, a tight-knit crew that tackled many of the classic adventures of early adulthood together. Today, Eric serves proudly in the United States Navy, spending most of his time nearly 800 feet beneath the ocean’s surface.

Eric Butler

Charles and Jakob share a strong, easygoing friendship built on their many shared interests. Whether they’re out fishing, hitting the gym, or teaming up in video games, they’re always finding ways to have fun together. Charles is also a talented baker—his cheesecake is legendary among friends. When he’s not working as a meat manager at Publix, he enjoys solo traveling around the world. He’s already visited incredible places like Germany, London, and Amsterdam, with many more destinations still on his bucket list.

Charles Walter

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Looking for Accommodations Near the Venue?

World Golf Village Renaissance St. Augustine Resort

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Holiday Inn St Augustine - World Golf, an IHG Hotel

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Best Western Plus St. Augustine I-95

Hampton Inn St. Augustine - I-95

La Quinta Inn & Suites by Wyndham St. Augustine

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Things to Do

If you’re interested in joining the line dances at the reception, you can learn the steps from the video lessons below. The songs are arranged by difficulty, so you can choose to learn one, all, or none. All the dances are nationally known, so if these instructors don’t match your learning style, feel free to find others—the steps will be the same!

'A Bar Song' By: Shaboozey

<a href="https://youtu.be/CLkqWNXJNQM?si=Grg2BsW7CqUwrusx" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Video Lesson</a>

<a href="https://youtu.be/C8syXIES6Yg?si=cSG3P9EW-RQdK8PX" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Video Demo (Full Song)</a>

'Miles on it' By: Marshmallo and Kane Brown

<a href="https://youtu.be/sjZSbD76AQs?si=mTNEwrA8AsmosV5M" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Video Lesson</a>

<a href="https://youtu.be/3ELBDK7TiF8?si=lFdg1SVhrmDpsJcj" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Video Demo (Full Song)</a>

'High class' by: Eric Paslay

<a href="https://youtu.be/EDbC8liAq0E?si=2x0SA1f8L2KGPxWa" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Video Lesson</a>

<a href="https://youtu.be/fDsF8hqJjQE?si=49VfdCYVg-pE_m5N" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Video Demo (Full Song)</a>

Ashlee & Jakob