Wedding Day

Todd Lake Trail Loop

Ceremony

Worthy Brewing

Reception

Fall

Our Wedding

Leo and I have been in each others' orbit all of our lives. We may have been at sixth grade camp together, he was at my graduation, and my mom was down the street from his home weekly for years doing restorative justice work. Our love story all started with a swipe of a finger to the right and we knew then we were a match!   Somehow we found love during a pandemic AND on Tinder. A feat. Our first date was on Instagram video because I still had an Android (nearly a dealbreaker for Leo). And our first in person date was at Kate Sessions Park, where we talked for hours about everything from embarrassing stories of childhood to the qualities we wanted in a partner. We took a road trip within a few weeks of meeting each other, much to our loved ones' concern, but we each knew that this was it. To be fair - the hotel did not accommodate a 3AM check-in after our drive from San Diego. So we did have to sleep in the car, or attempt to because we were slightly concerned about safety and the cold. But everything turned out fine. We are very much alive and not murdered.   We are so different on paper, but it only serves to balance each other. Leo is such a grounding force, while I (literally) have my head in the clouds doing reiki. Leo does WWE with our dogs, while I am the one they come to (much of the time) to cuddle. The through line that makes this relationship make sense is that we are each other's person. It can't really be explained other than it is unexplainable. As love is.   In the time we have known each other, so much has shifted in both of our lives and in the world. To be able to plan a wedding during these trying times feels like a blessing. In 2022 both of us will turn thirty, we will be moving to Oregon, and we'll be able to share a super important day with the people we love! We are so excited for this wedding and to *officially* be family.

Our Story

Photos

Molly Fitz

Alexa Dodd

Saney Morn

Diamond Ngiam

PJ Ngiam

Wedding Party

In light of COVID trends, and for the safety of our loved ones and vendors, our current protocol is to have all guests attending be fully vaccinated and boosted. We will keep this page updated, especially as the wedding draws closer, with Oregon state and federal regulations. Thank you for your understanding and for looking out for the safety of yourself and our loved ones.

COVID Protocol

Travel

Things to Do

Registry

Please know that the colors are in the photos OR black is okay too! If you’re unsure - text us :)

Dress Code

- There are Ubers in Bend. Please, if you are planning on drinking, plan to take an Uber or otherwise plan your travel after the reception! - There is a $5 day pass fee you can either bring $5 cash to pay in person that day OR pay online (see picture). - There is not a ton of parking at Todd Lake, please carpool if you can! - The ceremony will be held directly to the right of the parking lot in the open field.

Day of Logistics

Ashley & Leo

Ashley & Leo

Day of Logistics