Stone House at Stirling Ridge

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The Stone House at Stirling Ridge Lodge

Our Wedding

The StartOn August 10, 2018, on the streets of South Philadelphia, Anthony and Ashley met for the first time. It was a hot summer morning, and Ashley, Anthony, and ten of their mutual friends had organized a trip to Ocean City, Maryland, for their friend's birthday. They would spend a whole weekend together, across which they would each fall deeply smitten with the other. Anthony and Ashley, as mentioned, had many mutual friends. They went to an incredibly small college, knew the same people, went to the same parties, and likely passed each other in the halls a thousand times before. Anthony's teammate had been dating Ashley's roommate for nearly a year. His roommate actually was one of Ashley's roommate's high school best friends and had spent many days at Ashley's apartment. By all accounts, their paths should have crossed much earlier. Yet, they had never met. Although quiet at first, Ant warmed up very fast. Ashley quickly learned that Ant was insanely funny. His friends, who so affectionately referred to him as Vlad, were all excited to see him. His humor was infectious, making everyone around him, including her, laugh. The entire weekend, Ashley and Anthony grew closer, bonding over their similar interests, talking about their life goals, and realizing that they were extremely compatible. Ashley remembers thinking to herself at one point during the trip how calm Anthony made her, and how she had never felt so connected to someone so quickly. But there was one problem: Anthony was moving over 600 miles away in two weeks. They were undoubtedly going to have to go their separate ways. Ashley was moving to New York for graduate school, and Anthony had decided to transfer to a school in Indianapolis for his final two years of college. The weekend, and their connection, would have to be fleeting, as they were going to be hundreds of miles apart. A tragic fact that they both acknowledged, hoping that they would be able to meet back up when they were in the same area of the country again. The Long-Distance EraSadly, Anthony and Ashley went their separate ways at the end of the trip, unsure whether they would see each other again. After a few days of radio silence, Anthony finally texted Ashley, wishing her good luck on her move to New York that day. On this day they started texting and simply never stopped. A few days later, flowers appeared on the doorstep of Ashley's new apartment. It was at this moment, happy tears flowing, that Ashley realized maybe this would be more than a weekend-long connection. They continued to bond, Facetiming each other nearly every night. They would talk for hours about TV shows, Soulja Boy, sports, school, and everything in between. Within a few weeks, Anthony invited Ashley to come out and visit him in Indiana. Ashley had never flown by herself before, but nothing was going to keep her from visiting this boy who brought her so much unexpected joy. So they planned for a weekend visit. Ashley began counting down the days until she would fly out to see Anthony on her whiteboard, a tradition that continued on for many years. After hours of LaGuardia airport flight delays that steadily decreased morale, at 1:00 am on Saturday, October 13th, 2018, Ashley made it to Anthony in Indiana. By that night, they were boyfriend and girlfriend. This pattern continued for nearly two years. Ashley would fly out to Indiana in the middle of each semester, and Anthony would come to her in Philly during his breaks from school. They would Facetime nearly nightly on the days and weeks in between, counting down until they'd see each other next. In these in-between periods, Ash and Ant continued planning their post-long-distance life. They decided to move in together when he graduated in May. Ash (rather spontaneously) adopted their dog/son Percy. Even from a distance, things were falling into place. The End of the Long-Distance EraFinally, in the Spring of 2020, Ashley made her final trip out to see Anthony in Indiana. A week after she returned, the world shut down due to the pandemic. And without even realizing it at the time, their long-distance journey had come to an end (or so they thought). Anthony moved back home and spent every possible minute with Ashley (and their new puppy). They would wake up early, do their online classes together, and spend the rest of the day watching movies and making dinner together. It was a period of so much peace and joy. They essentially began living together, which was the smoothest process they could have imagined. They formally moved in together in July of 2020. They finally had their own space, and the addition of their dog and cat made them a family. Within a week of moving in together, tragedy struck, and Ashley temporarily moved out to take care of her sick father. Just when long-distance seemed to be over, the universe threw another curveball their way. Anthony supported Ashley through this difficult time, driving the three hours upstate to visit her at her parent's home on weekends and taking care of their animals at home during the week. This went on for four months, up until the point when Ashley's father tragically passed away. Ashley returned home, devastated and heartbroken. It felt like her whole life had fallen apart. Anthony became Ashley's biggest support and was her emotional rock. This period of time only helped them grow closer and illuminated to both of them how important it was to prioritize their relationship and goals. As they settled back into life at home, things grew calmer. The Long-Distance Era Pt. 2Throughout this time, Anthony continued to work toward his goal of playing professional baseball. Ashley would come with him to the field in the morning, holding up the radar gun while he threw and built his strength back up after Tommy John Surgery. In the afternoons, he worked full-time to contribute to rent and bills. And eventually, all of his hard work paid off. Anthony was offered an opportunity of a lifetime: to play professional baseball. The only downside was that the team was located in Hamburg, Germany. Ashley, a year and a half into her doctorate program, would have to stay back in the States. Anthony, finally reaching his life goal, would be leaving to live in another country in a matter of months. Anthony's departure was something to celebrate, as he was finally reaching the goal he had worked so hard for. But it also meant another round of long-distance, this time with added factors like a pandemic-related travel ban and time zone difference. His farewell brought immense sadness, many tears, but also so much pride in all he was able to accomplish. Ashley flew out to spend Easter of that year with Anthony, which remains her favorite trip that they have taken together. They mosied, meandered, and explored a city in a country where they didn't speak the language. They ate lots of food, drank lots of wine, and saw lots of historical buildings. They spent their days discussing marriage and how excited they were to start their next chapter together. The PresentAfter an injury would send Anthony home early, things were back to normal. Anthony and Ashley settled back into their routine. They traveled to Italy, transitioned careers, and relaxed back into the comfort of cohabitation. Then, after nearly five years together, Anthony finally asked Ashley to be his wife. On a typical October day in Newport, Rhode Island, Anthony got down on one knee and asked Ashley to marry him. It was the easiest yes she would ever say. So, just like that, their little family would become legitimate, and the rest of their lives would officially begin!

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Bridesmaids

Bridget and Ashley have been friends for many years. After living together for two years during college they became incredibly close, and have only grown closer with the passage of time. A fellow Swiftie, Bridget and Ash have shared concerts, road trips, and countless dinner dates. Bridget is one of Ash and Ant's closest friends, and is always down for dinner, drinks, and a game night. They are beyond excited to have Bridget be a part of their special day.

Bridget Foley

Melissa and Ashley have been friends since the first day of CHC. A Fontbonne hall friendship birthed out of SatC and way too much takeout food. Mel is always down for a spontaneous night, and is Ash's favorite person to go to Emo Nite with. From trips to Miami to comedy shows in Philly and beach days in between, Mel is one of Ash's closest friends. Ash cannot wait to have Mel stand by her side during her big day.

Melissa Cannarozzo

Annie and Ashley have been friends throughout their CHC journey. From hallmates to housemates, Ash loves how Annie is always ready to have a good time. Annie loves a good last-minute dinner, drinks, and dancing night, and can put a smile on everyone's face. Ash is really excited to get to celebrate her big day with Annie.

Annie Abbot

Anna was Ashley's first friend at CHC, and the best freshman year roommate she could have asked for. Ash and Anna have had many adventures together, from Miami days to chaotic emo nites, Ash can attest that Anna was integral in helping her open up and become the person she is today. Anna is one of Ashley's most adventurous friends, traveling here there and everywhere in between. Ash and Ant are really excited to have Anna be a part of their day.

Anna Gotsiridze 

Cynthia and Ashley have been friends since the first days of CHC. After living across the hall from each other during their freshman year, they grew incredibly close. Cynthia and Ashley have gone to festivals, concerts, rallies, museums, and so much more together. Cynthia is a world-class traveler, living in various other countries and continents, but she and Ash have stayed friends throughout it all. Ash is so excited to have Cynthia back home in the states, and cannot wait to have her by her side during her big day.

Cynthia Brain

Sabrina is Ant's little sister and Ash's future sister-in-law. Since the start of Ant and Ash's relationship, Sabrina has always been a kind, funny, and welcoming member of the family. Sabrina and Ash have traveled to Italy together, which is a trip they both cherish tremendously. Ash is extremely excited to become a formal member of Sabrina's family, and cannot wait to celebrate the occasion with her by their side.

Sabrina Vlahovic

Groomsmen

Ever since they met on the bus to St. Martin's in first grade, Ant has considered Pat like a brother to him. From playing every sport together to dressing up as school girls for Halloween, the duo has done it all together. Even with life taking them both all over the globe at different times, they have always remained like brothers and Ant has been planning to have Pat as his Best Man at his wedding since they were wreaking havoc at Catholic School.

Pat Gimpel

Dan is Ant's oldest friend, whom he met in Kindergarten. Despite Dan moving schools when they were still young, they remained super close and always seemed to be over at each other's houses. Ant knows he can always rely on Dan no matter what. Ant is extremely excited to have Dan by his side during his big day.

Dan Martin

One-third of the infamous Eagle 201 trio, Ant met Kyle on move-in day of his freshman year at Eastern University. Even with Ant knowing he would transfer at the end of the year, he knew he would also be friends with Kyle for life. They made a lot of great memories that year and have continued to since then, and Ant is excited to have Kyle up with him on his wedding day, just like he was at Kyle's. 

Kyle Daddario

Another third of the Eagle 201 trio, Shane and Ant hit it off immediately. Whenever Ant needed a laugh Freshman year, Shane was there to provide it, even when he didn't intend to be funny. Much like he did with Kyle, Andrew, and Jordan, Shane and Ant continued to grow closer even after Ant transferred schools. Ant is excited to have Shane be a part of his special day.

Shane Albertson

Although they didn't live together, Ant and Andrew met on the first day of Freshman year and became friends immediately. Since then, they have talked almost every day and have always supported each other's big goals and aspirations, even when it has taken them to separate parts of the country or world. Ant is honored to have Andrew be one of his groomsmen during such a big life moment.

Andrew Behnam

Jordan wasn't supposed to be one of Ant's roommates freshman year, but they ended up spending almost every day together. The two of them bonded over their distaste for the baseball program they were playing in, as well as their love for Vine (RIP), which has led to countless jokes over the years. Ant is thrilled to have Jordan be a part of such a major life event.

Jordan Laboy

Mikey is Ash's younger brother, former roommate, and occasional dogsitter. Ash and Mikey were a notorious duo, always bickering and causing trouble, which Ant quickly learned about upon meeting Ash. Over the years, Ant has spent a lot of time with Mikey and is excited to have him by his side during Ash and Ant's big day. 

Mikey Grant

Children of the Couple

P, Bean, Weenus, David Berkowitz/Son of Sam when he's being bad, Mr. P, however you address him he made our little family whole. Little man loves a good sweater and finds joy in feeling fancy. He is the babiest of all babies and brings happy tears to his parents eyes on the daily. He may not be there in-person on the big day, but he will surely be patiently (and anxiously) waiting to celebrate with us when we get home.

Percy

Ez predated this relationship, but took no time at all warming up to Ant and deciding he was his father. The cuddliest (and largest) boy, he finds joy in biting at our ankles, swatting at his brother, and most importantly, warming up our hearts. He may not be present at the actual ceremony, but he will certainly be waiting not-so-patiently at home for his parents to arrive back married and feed him his treats.

Ezra

Wedding Party

Q + A

The room block is CLOSED at this time. For those who booked through the room block, please see below for details. All individuals who book through the room block will have access to a free shuttle to and from the hotel at two pre-determined times throughout the night. This shuttle is first come first serve and will fit 38 people total. The shuttle will make the following trips. To the venue from the hotel:Trip 1: Leaving promptly at 4:00 pmTrip 2: Leaving promptly at 4:50 pm To the hotel from the venue:Trip 1: Leaving promptly at 11:05 pm (pre-after party)Trip 2: Leaving promptly at 12:05 am (post-after party) In the event the shuttle reaches capacity for the evening and guests who booked through the room block are unable to get on, the bride and groom will provide a $10 voucher toward Uber rides back to the hotel. We love you all. Please do not drink and drive.

Ashley & Anthony

Ashley & Anthony

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