Yes, but there are some strict rules! • No alcohol may be consumed anywhere on the property (inside or outside) until the bartender arrives. • BYOB is allowed, but it cannot be opened or consumed until the bartender is present. • Once the bartender leaves, any remaining alcohol must be taken immediately to your vehicle (or someone else’s), and security must witness it. • No drinking in the parking lot at any time. • IDs will be checked for everyone — don’t forget yours! • No premade shots and no shots at all, even from the bar. • No alcohol may be brought into the bar area after bar service starts. • Liquor is allowed, but mixed drinks can only be made by the bartender unless they are prepackaged. • Doubles cannot be served by the bar. violations result in a $1,000 fine to the bride and groom.

There will be more than enough room!

No charge at all for parking!

Absolutely!

Up to 12!

Yes! If anyone needs to Uber they may leave their vehicle at the venue for up to 24hrs. (It is to be noted that Uber will need to be called 45 minutes before the ride is needed.) If someone cannot afford an Uber then security will provide a ride for them to a local hotel.

Absolutely! We encourage plus ones and assumed everyone would have at least one plus one.

All that we ask is that you RSVP three weeks after getting your Save The Date. If you don’t, we will unfortunately have to assume that you are not coming and cannot accommodate you.

Absolutely! Double doors to open and very spacious rooms.

Indoors! It’ll be December 31st! May even snow a little if we’re lucky. The ceremony will be held in the chapel.

Right next door! Guests can walk on a paved pathway to get to the next building.

We encourage out of town guests to arrange their own accommodations. We have information on our website under “Local Hotels” for hotels that are near the venue, if you are needing one. We will not be making a hotel block due to the amount of guests and everyone’s budget being different. Although we cannot accommodate everyone’s hotel and each must pay at their own expense, we ask that if you are drinking that you do not drive home. You may leave your car at the venue for up to 24 hours.

Our dress code is all black attire! Not only will this create a cohesive and striking visual for our photos, but it will also foster a sense of unity and togetherness, making everyone feel like an integral part of something truly special.

Not exactly. We’re going to be unplugged.. partially. There will be a designated time for you to snap your pics, don’t worry, but until that happens? We request that you please let the photographers and videographers do their jobs. No cameras, No phones.

Yes! Our wedding hashtag is #CountDownToSchwartz

I can answer any questions you may have! Just shoot me a text (918)991-4475 Aubrey-The bride to be!

We hope to start the ceremony on time. We recommend getting there by 4:00-4:15

Don’t worry! We will have plenty of signage up to make sure everyone knows where to go.

The ceremony will be held in the chapel, while the reception will be held in the dining hall. They are right next to each other, no need to travel to the next.

Please respect our privacy and don't share photos of our wedding on social media until after the wedding.

Registry is officially back up! You should be able to find by clicking ‘Registry’ or by going to https://theknot.com/us/tristanaubrey/registry

And we completely agree. We plan on having as much fun as possible to keep everyone happy and engaged. So what can you expect? Games! Cornhole, wedding shoe game, and lots of dancing. This will hopefully be not your average wedding. There will be a countdown to bring everyone into New Years with us so that we don’t lose track of time as well.