The Olde Mill Inn & Grain House Restaurant

Rehearsal Dinner

Ceremony & Reception

Fall

Welcome to our wedding website! Please check back here for all the latest updates and details as we count down to our special day. We're so excited to celebrate with you!

Our Wedding

We tell people we met twice. 

The first time was the summer of 2020, when we were both working at a camp in Randolph, NJ. We noticed each other right away. Ben thought Becky was beautiful, and Becky thought Ben was cute, funny, and amazing with the kids. The only problem? Becky was technically Ben's boss, so making a move wasn't exactly an option. Fast forward five months. Ben had just finished his master's degree, and Becky had completed her student teaching. By pure luck, we both started working at West Morris Mendham High School. On Becky's very first day, we ran into each other in the main office. Even behind masks, we recognized each other instantly and exchanged smiles. Becky's former assistant principal immediately picked up on the spark, pausing on her way out to say, "You two should talk more! You have so much in common!" We couldn't believe our boss was trying to set us up, but she was absolutely right! Not long after, Ben asked Becky out on what turned out to be an accidental Valentine's Day date. Over pierogies at Home Made (which is now Patagonia Coffee House) in Hackettstown, the ease of conversation and instant connection made it clear that something real was beginning. Our second date only confirmed it. Becky had just landed her first full-time teaching job, and when Ben asked how she wanted to celebrate, she mentioned that the Met was her favorite place. His response? A text saying he'd already bought the tickets. What a guy! Since then, our story has only grown...traveling abroad, moving in together, starting new jobs, celebrating milestones, supporting each other through tough days, cooking (or ordering in), hosting game nights, and spending time with loved ones. Friends often say we seem like we were meant to find each other, and we feel the same. We're both a little nerdy, endlessly curious, and care deeply about the people in our lives. Now, we're getting married, and we can't wait to spend forever together.

Our Story

Photos

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Ubers are readily available from the airport to our venue.

Newark Liberty International Airport

For those who would prefer an alternate airport to Newark, Allegiant airlines may offer inexpensive flights from your area to Allentown, PA, which is about an hour drive from Basking Ridge, NJ.

Lehigh Valley International Airport

A room block has been reserved. When you call, please mention the Monaghan-Montross wedding when booking for a special rate.

The Olde Mill Inn

A room block has been reserved. When you call the provided phone number, please mention the code MWMS and ask for the Montross-Monaghan Wedding Room Block. The rate includes transportation to and from the venue. You can also use the link below to make reservations for the room block.

Courtyard by Marriott Basking Ridge

Travel

Jack Monaghan

Evan Fuller

Vincent Ho

Cooper Filhaber

Nicole Stanton

Bethany Frankel

Katerina Britain

Samantha Johnson

Wedding Party

Saturday, November 7th, 2026

Ceremony4:00pm at the Grain House Gazebo Cocktail Hour5:00pm-6:00pm at the Fox &amp; Hounds Room Reception6:00pm-10:00pm at the Hunt Room &amp; patio After Party10:00pm at the Coppertop Pub

Schedule of Events

For those who are history buffs like Ben, this spot is a must see! History and nature meet at Jockey Hollow, part of Morristown National Historical Park. Known as the winter encampment site for George Washington’s Continental Army, the park offers miles of scenic hiking trails, historic landmarks, and peaceful picnic spots. It’s a perfect place to stretch your legs, take in the beauty of New Jersey’s countryside, and connect with a little Revolutionary War history along the way.

Jockey Hollow

If you want to skip the chaotic, tourist-trap mega-farms, you have to check out Hacklebarney Cider Mill. It's a laid-back, historic family farm that makes the absolute best cider donuts you'll ever eat, along with fresh wood-pressed apple cider. This is Becky's favorite autumnal farm stop, so grab a sweet treat and soak up the cozy fall vibes while you're in town!

Hacklebarney Cider Mill

The Morris Museum right in Morristown is a great place to wander. Browse through their mix of art, history, and quirky antique exhibits at your own pace. This museum is a Smithsonian affiliate.

Morris Museum

A favorite if the bride and groom! Burnt Mills Cider Company, located in Bedminster, NJ, specializes in crafting premium hard ciders using locally sourced ingredients. Their tasting room offers a cozy indoor space and outdoor picnic tables around a fire pit. Check their website to see what food trucks are popping by, and don't miss their cider flights!

Burnt Mills Cider

Revolution in Morristown, NJ is a modern American restaurant in the heart of downtown. It serves elevated comfort food alongside a full bar and craft cocktails.

Revolution 

Everything they serve is cooked in their wood-fire ovens. Absolutely delicious meals with a full bar and good drink selection.

Redwoods Grill & Bar

Fresh, upscale American food with a cute atmosphere, located in downtown Morristown. Bring a bottle of wine with you, it’s BYOB! A favorite of the bride!

Becky & Ben

Becky & Ben

Registry

On this page, you will find our honeymoon fund & items on our Amazon registry. We are also registered at Williams Sonoma & Ballard Designs. Links to those two registries can be found below this message.