Game Night & Gathering

Brunch

Amelia Grove

Wedding

Ceremony

Social Hour

Reception

Our Wedding

It all began in August of 2023, at a cozy Bible study hosted by our friends. We had settled onto the couch after study wrapped up when Ben turned and asked a simple question about the bag I was carrying. It was a souvenir tote from Red Rocks — a gift from a friend — and that little conversation sparked something unexpected. We started chatting about the bag, then about travel, and then about life. That night marked the beginning of something we couldn’t yet put into words. Over the next few months, we became friends. We spent time together in community, talked about everything and nothing, and slowly got to know one another on a deeper level. Then, in December 2023, we officially started dating. We fell in love quickly — not in a rush, but with intention. Our relationship became a place of honesty, joy, and deep conversation. We discovered how closely our values aligned, especially in our shared desire to serve others and do short-term mission work. In July of 2025, on a quiet rooftop in downtown Raleigh, Ben asked me to marry him — and I said yes. Now, as we prepare to step into the next chapter together, we’re filled with gratitude. For that Bible study night. For that Red Rocks tote. For every moment that led us here.This is just the beginning of our story — and we can't wait to see where God leads us next.

Our Story

Photos

Adam Cochran

Cassilyn Shires

Zach Brown

Lauren McCarthy

Eric Alspaugh

Anna Cochran

Christian Swanger

McKenna Hilton

Mark Alspaugh

Meghan Cochran

Andrew Smyers

Keelyn Oakes

Wedding Party

Q + A

Aerie Bed & Breakfast

DoubleTree by Hilton Hotel New Bern Riverfront

On our day-date to New Bern, Tryon Palace was our first stop! New Bern is steeped in North Carolina history and Tryon Palace serves as the cornerstone for North Carolina's colonial government. It truly is the perfect introduction to the town!

Tryon Palace 

As the birthplace of Pepsi-Cola, visiting the store on Middle Street is a must-do! Regardless if you are on Team Coca-Cola or not, when you step through the doors of the Pepsi Store you will be transported to a vintage drugstore soda fountain. Make sure to take a look at the museum before splitting a Pepsi float!

Birthplace of Pepsi Cola

One of our favorite restaurants is nestled right in the heart of downtown New Bern! On our first trip to New Bern, Ben and I had lunch here. We shared a pizza and salad. We have since returned on several occasions!

Cypress Hall

After you have dined at Cypress Hall, stroll across the street to our favorite dessert shop! There you will find tasty ice creams, homemade chocolate treats, and more! You must try the double dipped dark chocolate peanuts. Yes - they are as good as they sound.

Ben & Lauralynn

Ben & Lauralynn

Wedding Party