Wedding Day

Le Masion Frank Devita

Ceremony

Reception

Our Wedding

In the annals of time, some love stories are written in the stars, some in the sands of the desert, and some in the quiet strength of human hearts. Rachel and Ben's tale is one such epic, etched in the fortitude of endurance and the tender strokes of unwavering affection. Four years before love found its way into their hearts, Ben returned from another harrowing deployment to Iraq, his body battered, his spirit bruised yet unbroken. Seeking solace and healing, he reached out to an old friend, who spoke of a remarkable woman named Rachel. Rachel, with her kind heart and skilled hands, owned a neuromuscular massage therapy business that mended more than just physical wounds it heals hearts. Despite her busy schedule, her compassion led her to see Ben on her day off, an act of kindness she never revealed to him. From that serendipitous meeting, a friendship blossomed. Ben, with tales of his perilous adventures and worldly travels, found in Rachel a confidante. Rachel, a devoted mother to her three boys—Caleb, Jameson, and Griffin—and an avid runner, shared her joys and challenges. Their bond grew stronger with each passing day, forged in the fires of shared stories and mutual respect. For four years, their relationship was a sanctuary amidst the chaos of Ben's deployments. Rachel became the healer of his body, and together, they healed each other's hearts. In their unspoken agreement to remain friends, they discovered a depth of connection that transcended the ordinary. Ben spoke of his experiences with World War II veterans, especially after the 75th anniversary of D-Day, and they wept together, honoring the bravery of those men. As life's twists and turns would have it, Rachel found herself single, and Ben, permanently injured, was home for good. It was Rachel's courageous heart that bridged the gap from friendship to love. She asked Ben out, and he agreed, beginning a two-year journey of hesitant hearts and undeniable love. Meeting Rachel's children was a dance of love and patience. Ben, with thoughtful care, engaged each boy—Jameson with history, Griffin with Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu, and Caleb with life lessons drawn from his own experiences. Though it was not smooth at first—Jameson famously remarked to his mother that he didn't know she liked hanging out with idiots—Ben's persistence and genuine care won them over. Griffin's innocent inquiry during dinner, wondering if Ben would make a good stepdad, solidified the bond. Through two spinal surgeries and many battles with PTSD, Rachel stood by Ben, her love unwavering. Their lives intertwined, they met each other's families and found solace in each other's presence. When Ben returned from PTSD treatments, he knew the time had come. During Rachel's favorite game, Drawful, he proposed. They eloped on September 22, 2022, at the bottom of Luray Caverns, a place that held the memory of one of their first dates. Yet, their journey did not end there. Their love, always generous, sought to include friends and family in their union. After two years of volunteering with the D-Day Leadership Academy in Sainte-Mère-Église, France, the founder offered them the charity's residence for their ceremony. The house, named after WWII D-Day Survivor Frank Devita, provided a perfect venue, filled with history, love, and celebration. And so, dear guest, you are invited to witness this chapter of Rachel and Ben's love story. Join us in Normandy, in a house that breathes history, where love has found its perfect day. Come, not just to celebrate with them, but to be part of a story that promises to be the event of the century—a story where every moment is a testament to the enduring power of love.

The Journey of Rachel and Ben: A Love Story

Our Story

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In the chronicles of my life, few companions have demonstrated the stalwart loyalty and unwavering camaraderie of Jeff Gooch. Our paths first converged during the rigorous and exacting vetting process for a CIA contract abroad, where we endured three grueling weeks of training and skill assessment. It was in those arduous days that the foundations of our enduring friendship were laid.

Jeff, with characteristic humor and humility, often remarks that my back injury was the result of carrying him through the trials we faced. Yet, it was his indomitable spirit and steadfast presence that truly sustained us both.

Years later, after a deployment that tested the very limits of our resolve, Jeff's concern for my well-being transcended mere words. In an act of profound friendship, he arrived unannounced in Norfolk, a gesture that cemented our bond for life. It was a moment of clarity, a recognition that here was a man of unshakeable loyalty and unyielding support.

Our friendship, forged in the crucible of shared adversity, was further solidified when I had the honor of officiating his wedding. It was only fitting, and poetically just, that he stood by my side to officiate mine. Jeff, though rough around the edges, embodies a loyalty that is as rare as it is precious.

In Jeff Gooch, I found not merely a friend, but a brother-in-arms, a confidant, and a steadfast ally. His loyalty, resilience, and unwavering dedication have been a beacon of strength and a source of enduring inspiration. To call him a friend is to pay him the highest compliment, for he is, without doubt, a friend until the very end.

Jeff Gooch

In the grand tapestry of my life, few threads have woven themselves as deeply and enduringly as that of my friendship with Sean Olmstead. Our journey began in the sixth grade, a time of youthful innocence and boundless dreams. We walked the halls of high school together, forging a bond that would withstand the test of time and the trials of life.

After graduation, our paths diverged as Sean, guided by his Mormon faith, embarked on his college education and mission. I, driven by a different calling, joined the military and pursued the arduous path of a Navy SEAL. Though the world pulled us in separate directions, the bond of our friendship remained unbroken.

Over the years, our lives have taken us across the globe, from the sun-soaked beaches of Mexico to the historic streets of Portugal and the romantic vistas of France. These adventures, shared and cherished, have aged us, but they have also deepened our friendship and the brotherly love we hold for one another.

We are not bound by blood, but by choice—a testament to the family we have built, not by the hand of fate, but by our own hearts. For 35 years, our friendship has been a constant, a cornerstone in the ever-changing landscape of our lives. This occasion is not an end, but merely another chapter in a lifelong adventure, a story of brotherhood that continues to unfold.

Sean Olmstead, my best man, is a brother in every sense of the word. Our friendship is a beacon of unwavering loyalty and mutual respect, a testament to the enduring power of chosen family. As we stand here today, we celebrate not just a moment, but a legacy of friendship that will carry us forward into the future.

Sean Olmstead

In the annals of my life and career, few men stand as tall and true as Kaegan McInturff. Our paths converged in the crucible of Baghdad, Iraq, where I had the distinct privilege of serving as his team lead and site lead. In the searing heat and relentless pressure of the battlefield, we forged a bond that would transcend the trials of war and the passage of time.

Kaegan and I spent countless months on the cutting edge of the battlefield, our shared experiences shaping not just a formidable team but an enduring friendship. This camaraderie saw me invited to his wedding, a testament to the depth of our bond, and carried us through many subsequent deployments and shared moments over drinks, solidifying our partnership both in life and in business.

Together, Kaegan and I have embarked on a mission beyond the battlefield: to change the world for the better through our shared vision, inventions, and unyielding heart. It is a journey driven by a profound sense of purpose and a desire to make a lasting impact.

Our shared walk through the shadows of PTSD and the light of spirituality has been a testament to Kaegan's resilience and strength. He is, without doubt, one of the world's finest hunters and an exemplar of what it means to be a man of honor.

Today, I am deeply honored to have Kaegan McInturff by my side on this hallowed ground, sharing in this special moment of my life. His presence is a reminder of the enduring bonds of brotherhood and the unshakeable foundation of friendship that has carried us through the fiercest of battles and the most profound of life's journeys.

Kaegan McInturff

Wedding Party

Q + A

Built in the 17th and 19th centuryThe hotel with 19 rooms of different category&nbsp;has well maintained the spirit of a family home. The decoration is punctuated with Norman furniture of yesteryear, creations of our own, works of art and unique objects. Le Grand Hard offers double rooms, family rooms and also the restaurant of Domaine Utah Beach: Chez Arsène. The team of Domaine Utah Beachpampers its guests with discretion and care. You will want to extend this moment in our lounge by the fire place, with or without a good calvados, to enjoy with family and friends the games proposed by Elsa. Or maybe you prefer a walk to the stables to admire the beauty of the sport horses and to the barn to appreciate the tranquility of our limousine cattle.&nbsp;Hilde and her team warmly welcome you in 4 different languages with a big smile. The rooms have been prepared with great care for your arrival. Pets are not allowed&nbsp;at Hotel Le Grand Hard, but they are welcome at the gites.

Domaine Utah Beach - Hotel le Grand Hard

Near Airborne MuseumStay in one of 8 guestrooms featuring flat-screen televisions. Complimentary wireless internet access is available to keep you connected. Bathrooms have showers and hair dryers. Conveniences include phones, housekeeping is provided daily, and you can request irons/ironing boards.With a stay at Hôtel du 6 Juin in Sainte-Mere-Eglise, you'll be just steps from Cotentin and Bessin 

Hôtel du 6 Juin

Near Airborne MuseumStay in one of 41 guestrooms featuring flat-screen televisions. Complimentary wireless internet access keeps you connected, and satellite programming is available for your entertainment. Private bathrooms with bathtubs or showers feature complimentary toiletries and hair dryers. Conveniences include desks and blackout drapes/curtains, and housekeeping is provided daily.When you

Hotel Le Sainte Mere

Near La Fiere Bridge and Iron Mike MonumentMake yourself at home in one of the 3 individually decorated guestrooms. Your pillowtop bed comes with down comforters and Egyptian cotton sheets. Rooms have private furnished balconies or patios. Complimentary wireless internet access is available to keep you connected. Private bathrooms have hair dryers and bathrobes.With a stay at The Old Farm of Amfre

The Old Farm of Amfreville

Near Azeville Gun BatteryMake yourself at home in one of the 2 individually decorated guestrooms, featuring kitchens with full-sized refrigerators/freezers and ovens. Complimentary wireless internet access keeps you connected, and flat-screen televisions are provided for your entertainment. Conveniences include separate sitting areas and microwaves, and housekeeping is provided once per stay.With 

Le Domaine de Ravenoville

Everyone needs a place to lay their weary head. For travelers visiting Sainte-Mere-Eglise, B&amp;B La Haule is an excellent choice for rest and rejuvenation. Well-known for its proximity to great restaurants and attractions, B&amp;B La Haule makes it easy to enjoy the best of Sainte-Mere-Eglise.The bed and breakfast offers a picnic area, a sun terrace, and outdoor furniture, to make your visit even more pleasant.La Fiere Bridge and Iron Mike Monument (2.1 mi), located nearby, makes B&amp;B La Haule a great place to stay for those interested in visiting this popular Sainte-Mere-Eglise landmark.While in Sainte-Mere-Eglise be sure to experience local fish and chips favorites at Un Monde sans Faim.If you’re looking for something to do, Airborne Museum (0.1 mi), Sainte Mere Eglise (0.0 mi), and Sainte-Mere-Eglise Church (0.2 mi) are a nice way to spend some time, and they are all within walking distance of B&amp;B La Haule.B&amp;B La Haule is sure to make your visit to Sainte-Mere-Eglise one worth remembering.

Bed and Breakfast La Haule Ste Mere Eglise

Travel

Day Trip to Mont Saint Michel As part of the pre-wedding celebrations, we have organized a special day trip to the historic Mont Saint Michel, a site renowned for its breathtaking beauty and rich history. This trip offers a unique opportunity to explore one of France’s most iconic landmarks and create unforgettable memories with fellow guests. Trip Details:- Date: August 6, 2025- Departure Time: Departing 9:00AM Arriving at 10:30AM- Return Time: Departing 3:30PM Arriving at 5PM- Meeting Point: Town Square, Sainte Mere Eglise Transportation:A comfortable bus will be arranged to transport guests from Sainte Mere Eglise to Mont Saint Michel and back. To secure a seat on the bus, guests will need to pay a per-person rate. Please note that there is a minimum number of guests required to make the trip viable, and there is also a maximum capacity for seats on the bus. A sign-up sheet will be available to ensure that everyone interested can reserve their spot. Cost:- Per Person Rate: [Insert Amount]- Includes: Round-trip transportation Meals:While at Mont Saint Michel, guests are encouraged to enjoy a meal at one of the many charming restaurants and cafes. The island offers a variety of dining options, from casual eateries to fine dining establishments, where you can savor the local cuisine and enjoy the scenic views. Historical Significance:Mont Saint Michel is a marvel of medieval architecture, rising dramatically from the tidal waters of the Normandy coast. This UNESCO World Heritage site boasts a rich history dating back to the 8th century when it was first established as a small church by Aubert, Bishop of Avranches. Over the centuries, it evolved into a magnificent abbey, a place of pilgrimage, and a strategic fortification. The abbey's stunning Gothic spires, medieval walls, and narrow winding streets are a testament to the ingenuity and devotion of its builders. As you wander through its storied halls and climb its ancient steps, you will be transported back in time, witnessing the convergence of faith, art, and history. Exploration:Guests are encouraged to venture out and explore the island at their own pace. Whether it’s visiting the Abbey, strolling through the quaint village, or taking in the panoramic views from the ramparts, Mont Saint Michel promises an experience that has captivated visitors for centuries.&nbsp; We have visited Mont Saint Michel many times, and it has never failed to impress us with its timeless beauty and profound sense of history. We are confident that you will find it equally enchanting. Sign-Up Information:To ensure your participation, please sign up on the sheet provided and submit your payment by [Insert Deadline]. Let us come together to explore this magnificent site and share in the wonder of its history and splendor. We look forward to this adventure with you!

Mont Saint-Michel

Full Day D-Day Utah Beach Historical Bus Tour We are thrilled to invite you to a full-day bus tour led by our dear friends and esteemed guides, Flavie and Thomas. Their unparalleled knowledge and passion for the history of D-Day and the Normandy region will make this an unforgettable experience. This is a unique opportunity to delve into the pivotal moments of World War II and explore the significant sites of the Normandy landings. Tour Details:- Date: August 7, 2025- Departure Time: 9:00 AM- Return Time: 5:00 PM- Meeting Point: Town Square, Sainte Mere Eglise Transportation:A bus will be arranged to transport guests to and from the various historical sites. Similar to the Mont Saint Michel trip, there will be a per-person rate to secure a seat on the bus. The trip requires a minimum number of guests to proceed, and there is also a maximum capacity for seats. A sign-up sheet will be available to ensure that everyone interested can reserve their spot. Cost:- Per Person Rate: [Insert Amount]- Includes: Round-trip transportation and guided tour Itinerary:1. Thomas Meehan's Crash Site: Visit the site where Lieutenant Thomas Meehan and his crew crashed on D-Day, paying tribute to their bravery and sacrifice.2. Batterie d'Azeville: Explore this formidable German coastal defense battery, which played a significant role during the invasion.3. Utah Beach: Walk the sands of Utah Beach, one of the primary landing sites for American forces on D-Day, and reflect on the monumental events that took place here.4. Saint Marie Du Mont Church: Discover the history of this church, which served as a crucial landmark during the invasion.5. Angoville du Plain Church: Learn about the remarkable story of this church, where two medics treated soldiers and civilians amidst the chaos of battle. Historical Significance:Normandy's historical heritage is among the most significant in France, encompassing eras from the Vikings and William the Conqueror to the D-Day landings. Operation Overlord, the largest military operation in history, left indelible marks on the Norman coasts and lands. Flavie and Thomas will guide you through these sites, sharing personal and human anecdotes that bring history to life, allowing you to relive the experiences of the liberators who changed the course of history. About the Guides:Flavie and Thomas are passionate historians based in Sainte-Mère-Eglise and Carentan. They specialize in the history of the Normandy landings and offer tours in a WWII Jeep for VIP visits and in a van for larger groups. Their expertise spans from the Viking era to World War II, and their engaging storytelling will transport you back in time, offering a unique and immersive experience. Sign-Up Information:To ensure your participation, please sign up on the sheet provided and submit your payment by [Insert Deadline]. This is a once-in-a-lifetime experience that we strongly encourage you to take part in. The knowledge and passion of our guides, coupled with the awe-inspiring history, promise an unforgettable day. Join us as we explore the historical sites of D-Day and honor the bravery of those who fought for our freedom. We look forward to sharing this extraordinary journey with you.

Full Day D-Day Utah Beach Historical Bus Tour

Full Day Tour: German Cemetery, American Cemetery at Colleville-sur-Mer, and Isigny-sur-Mer We are delighted to invite you to a full-day tour on August 8th, guided by the incomparable Flavie and Thomas. This tour will take you to some of the most poignant and historically significant sites of World War II in Normandy, culminating in a delightful stop for the best ice cream in the world in Isigny-sur-Mer. Tour Details:- Date: August 8th- Departure Time: 9:00 AM- Return Time: 5:00 PM- Meeting Point: Town Square, Sainte Mere Eglise Transportation:A bus will be arranged to transport guests to and from the tour sites. There will be a per-person rate to secure a seat on the bus. This trip requires a minimum number of guests to proceed and has a maximum capacity for seats. A sign-up sheet will be available to ensure that everyone interested can reserve their spot. Cost:- Per Person Rate: [Insert Amount]- Includes: Round-trip transportation and guided tour Itinerary:1. German Cemetery: Our first stop will be the German cemetery, a solemn and reflective site where we will pay our respects to the fallen soldiers. This cemetery offers a profound perspective on the war, emphasizing the shared human cost of conflict. 2. American Cemetery at Colleville-sur-Mer: Next, we will visit the American Cemetery, where rows of white crosses stand as a testament to the bravery and sacrifice of American soldiers who fought and died during the Normandy landings. This site, overlooking Omaha Beach, is one of the most revered memorials in France. 3. Isigny-sur-Mer: On our way back to Sainte Mere Eglise, we will stop in Isigny-sur-Mer, renowned for producing the best ice cream in the world. Enjoy a sweet treat and some leisure time before we return. About the Guides:Flavie and Thomas, our esteemed guides, are passionate historians based in Sainte-Mère-Eglise and Carentan. Their deep knowledge of the Normandy region and its pivotal role in World War II makes them the perfect companions for this journey. Their storytelling will bring history to life, providing personal and human anecdotes that offer a unique and immersive experience. Historical Significance:Normandy's cemeteries are powerful reminders of the sacrifices made during World War II. The German cemetery offers insight into the losses on both sides of the conflict, while the American cemetery at Colleville-sur-Mer honors the American soldiers who played a critical role in the liberation of Europe. This tour provides a balanced and respectful exploration of these significant sites. Sign-Up Information:To ensure your participation, please sign up on the sheet provided and submit your payment by [Insert Deadline]. This tour promises a day of reflection, learning, and enjoyment, making it an unforgettable experience. Join us on August 8th for a journey through history, guided by the expertise of Flavie and Thomas, as we honor the past and enjoy the simple pleasures of the present. We look forward to sharing this extraordinary day with you.

Full Day Tour: German Cemetery, American Cemetery at Colleville-sur-Mer, and Isigny-sur-Mer

Private Tours with Flavie and Thomas: Experience the History of Normandy For those looking to delve deeper into the rich history of Normandy, we highly recommend the incredible private tours offered by our dear friends, Flavie and Thomas. Their unparalleled knowledge and passion for the history of our native region make them exceptional guides. Whether you’re a history buff or simply curious, their tours provide an immersive and unforgettable experience. About Flavie and Thomas:Based in Sainte-Mère-Eglise and Carentan, Flavie and Thomas are passionate historians who specialize in the history of the Normandy landings. They offer unique and personalized tours that take you through the villages, country roads, and beaches that played pivotal roles in 1944. Their storytelling, filled with personal and human anecdotes, brings history to life and allows you to relive the experiences of our liberators. Tour Options: 1. Jeep Experience in the Normandy Hedges:&nbsp;&nbsp;- Description: There is nothing like the sound of a WWII Jeep engine to transport you back in time. Drive along the steep roads of the Normandy countryside in an authentic 1944 Willy Jeep. This tour immerses you in the history of 1944 through many historical anecdotes, giving you a unique perspective on the battles that took place in the Normandy hedgerows.&nbsp;&nbsp;- Experience: Steep roads, historical anecdotes, and an authentic WWII Jeep.&nbsp;&nbsp;- Discover More: [Jeep Tour Offers](#) 2. D-Day Van Tour:&nbsp;&nbsp;- Description: Combining comfort and discovery, the D-Day Van Tour allows you to explore the landing beaches in a 1 to 8 seaters van. This tour can be booked for a half-day or a full day, taking you to many major historical sites of D-Day, even those further afield.&nbsp;&nbsp;- Experience: Comfortable van, major D-Day historical sites, half-day or full-day options. 3. Premium D-Day Experience Tour:&nbsp;&nbsp;- Description: This premium tour combines the comfort of a 9-seater van for the day with a one-hour Jeep experience in the heart of the Normandy bocage and the airborne zones of the 101st Division. It’s the perfect package for a comprehensive day exploring the American landing beaches.&nbsp;&nbsp;- Experience: Full-day van tour, one-hour Jeep experience, exploration of the 101st Division airborne zones. Why Choose Flavie and Thomas:Their deep-rooted passion for Normandy’s history, combined with their engaging storytelling, makes Flavie and Thomas the ideal guides for exploring this historic region. Whether you trace the footsteps of the Vikings, the legacy of William the Conqueror, or the monumental events of D-Day, their tours offer a rich and educational experience that you won’t find anywhere else. For an unforgettable journey through history, we strongly encourage you to take part in one of these tours. Discover the profound stories of the past and gain a deeper appreciation for the sacrifices made during one of the most pivotal moments in history. Join Flavie and Thomas for an extraordinary adventure through the historical heart of Normandy.

Normandy Discovery Tours - Jeep et Van Tours

EXPERIENCE THE HISTORY OF D-DAY AT THE AIRBORNE MUSEUMIn the heart of Sainte-Mère-Église, in front of the bell tower on which the parachutist John Steele was hung, the Airborne Museum will make you live and understand the events of the D-Day since the preparation in England, until the conquest of the freedom!

Benjamin & Rachel

Benjamin & Rachel

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