Bahia Hotel & Beach House

Welcome Party

SUR Beach House

Wedding Ceremony

Ceremony

Reception

Our Wedding

A Love that Began in La Quinta It was the fall of 2021 when the desert evening air felt just cool enough to remind Brett that she was finally home. After years of dreaming about life in California, the sun-drenched mornings and the crisp evenings of La Quinta were a perfect fit. She’d moved here in 2020, after finally taking the leap from the fast-paced streets of Chicago, and now, it was time to unwind with a drink at her favorite local bar, The RDRNNR. But as she walked in, she was surprised to find the place almost empty—save for one person sitting alone at the bar. His name was Joel, and though Brett had lived in the valley for some time, she’d never seen him before. It wasn’t often that Brett felt this bold, but on that night, she did. Without a second thought, she slid onto the stool next to him and ordered her favorite: a glass of Kim Crawford. When Joel turned to look at her, something flickered in the air between them—something electric, undeniable. There was an instant connection, the kind of spark that’s impossible to ignore. They began talking, and the hours flew by like minutes. The conversation was easy, effortless—an exchange of laughter, stories, and shared interests. Joel, with his laid-back California charm and worldliness, and Brett, with her sharp mind and adventurous spirit, found in each other a kindred soul. By the end of the night, they’d exchanged numbers, and though neither of them could’ve known it yet, that simple gesture would set the course for everything to come. The very next morning, they met for breakfast at Louise’s, their first official date, and the connection only deepened. Brett learned that Joel had a passion for golf—he’d been playing since he was four, spending his summers in San Diego learning the game from his grandparents. He also loved the culinary world, a passion that had taken him across the globe, shaking martinis and creating unforgettable meals. For Brett, a self-described novice golfer but avid fan of the game, hearing about Joel’s travels was a dream come true. Their love story unfolded like a beautiful melody. Over time, they found their rhythm, and it wasn’t long before they were inseparable. Together, they built a life in La Quinta, with their Frenchton puppy, Birdie, always by their side. Joel transitioned into real estate, discovering a new calling that filled him with excitement, while Brett, with her career at Cisco, traveled the world but always came home to him. Between rounds of golf, trips to their favorite restaurants—Arnold Palmer’s and Casa Mendoza—and sharing the simple pleasures of everyday life, they grew closer with each passing day. Joel’s adventurous spirit and Brett’s determination formed a perfect balance. They’d found something rare: a love grounded in mutual respect, laughter, and shared dreams. As they look ahead to the future, ready to take the next step and make things official, they know the world still has plenty of adventures in store for them. Together, Brett and Joel are ready for whatever comes next—because with each other, everything just feels right.&nbsp;

Our Story

Photos

Jessica Owings 

Annie McGarey 

Nicole Wagner

Amy Cacace

Jennifer Le

Ian Tang

Craig Cavin

Paul Bregg

Dylan Jones

Kevin Bligh

Wedding Party

Do I need a valid passport? Yes - we are going to Mexico! This requires your passport to be valid for at least six months beyond the intended departure date. If your passport is expired, we highly recommend renewing it 6 months in advance to avoid any delays due to high-demand. Should I pay with pesos or USD dollars? Both currencies are accepted in Cabo, you can pay with a credit card in most of the shops, VISA and MasterCard. AMEX is not accepted everywhere.&nbsp; What airport should I fly into? SJD San José del Cabo International Airport,&nbsp;which is about a 1 hr drive to the Hotel Bahia and Sur. How do I get from the airport to the hotel? We’ve partnered with a transportation service to coordinate all guest transfers to and from the resort. They&nbsp;created a link to make if easy and safe for you to book transportation round trip, you can pay online.&nbsp; Copy and paste this link into your browser:https://bit.ly/4mv4CMY What you will see inside the website: You will see the company’s information, phone numbers and emails in case somebody needs to reach them, and the transportation prices. To insert your reservation, guests must follow these steps:Click: “Guest List”Click: “Add your information”Click: “submit” It is very important for guests to be specific in the number of passengers arriving and departing, as well as the type of service desired (private or shared shuttle). If for some reason assistance is needed during the reservation process, please feel free to contact us on the chat section (located on the bottom right side of the page), or by email transportation_services@impalacabo.net&nbsp; What will the weather be like in October in Cabo? Range from a high of 95F to a low of 70F Is there a recommended packing list for the trip? For your trip to Cabo San Lucas, we recommend packing the following: Formal attire for the wedding, Casual chic attire for the welcome party, Comfortable beachwear, Sunscreen and sunglasses, Light jacket for cooler evenings, Travel documents (passport, ID), and Any personal medications. Do we have to book through the wedding block link? Yes, please book under the wedding block link at Travel information if you plan to stay at the Bahia. We would love to spend the entire weekend together to celebrate and make this wedding trip an unforgettable vacation. The hotel is greatly located in the heart of Cabo San Lucas, walking distance to all the attractions, beach, restaurants and the wedding venue. If you want to book a different accommodation it's no problem, just please let us know to have that in our notes.&nbsp; Do I need a rental car? No, a car is not needed. The SUR is a 2-3 minute walk from the Bahia. San Jose del Cabo &amp; Cabo San Lucas have Uber services that are reliable and cost-effective, Uber is the cheapest and quickest option. How will I get to the wedding? We will have golf carts transporting guests to and from SUR, picking up at Hotel Bahia. If you're staying at another hotel or Airbnb, you can take an Uber or taxi to our pick-up location or the wedding venue. Where is the ceremony and reception taking place? We will share our vows and say "I Do's" at SUR, a beautiful beachfront venue. There will be a cocktail hour at the same place with dinner and dancing under the stars to follow, all at the same location. Shuttles will be provided at no cost to guests to and from Hotel Bahia. Please note Sur and Bahia are about 10 minutes walking distance.&nbsp; What is the dress code? Welcome Party:&nbsp;Casual chicWedding Day:&nbsp;Beach formal What should I do if I have dietary restrictions? Please let us know about any dietary restrictions when you RSVP. We will make sure to accommodate your needs during the wedding events. Do&nbsp;you have a gift registry? We want to stress that your presence in Cabo for our wedding is the greatest gift you could give us. Please feel NO obligation to contribute any gifts. However, for those who have expressed interest, instead of traditional gifts, we’d appreciate contributions towards our honeymoon. Details can be found on our "Registry" page. How can I contribute to the honeymoon fund? You can&nbsp;contribute through our wedding website under the "Registry" section. Choose the experience or fund you’d like to support, and follow the instructions to complete your gift. Are kids invited? No, kids are no invited to attend the wedding.&nbsp;If you have questions, please reach out to the bride or groom! Can I bring a date? No, unless specified in your invitation. We have a limited amount of space at our venue. If you have any questions, please feel free to contact us. Thank you for understanding!&nbsp; For any questions we have not answered above, and the question(s) are not related to specifics of travel and room bookings, feel free to contact us here or directly. We will be more than happy to clear up any confusions or questions.

Q + A

We encourage you to use the link below to get special rates with our room block at the Bahia Hotel. This is where the wedding party will be staying during the week. <a href="https://reservations.bahiacabo.com/?_gl=1*18ih2k0*_gcl_au*MzYyODg5MTQ5LjE3MzczOTM2NzI.*_ga*MTg%203MDg3OTA2MC4xNzIxNjkzNDEw*_ga_TH4QPVVLZP*MTc0MzAzNDU0Mi4xODUuMC4xNzQzMDM0NTQyLjYwLj%20AuMTI5MTEzNjcwNg..&amp;adult=1&amp;arrive=2025-10-24&amp;chain=10237&amp;child=0&amp;currency=USD&amp;depart=2025-10-26&amp;group=2510BRETT%26&amp;hotel=41186&amp;level=hotel&amp;locale=en-US&amp;productcurrency=USD&amp;rooms=1" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Reservations Link</a>

We do not have a room block at this hotel but entrance is across the street from the Bahia Hotel. If you are looking for beachfront this is a good option!

Casa Dorada Resort & Spa

Location of the wedding for those staying offsite at another resort or accommodation.

SUR Beach Club

Travel

On land, in the air, and underwater, Los Cabos brims with the activities and excursions on every traveler's bucket list. Visitors can immerse themselves in the crystal-clear Sea of Cortes with exhilarating&nbsp;<a href="https://www.visitloscabos.travel/things-to-do/tours-and-activities/jet-ski/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">jet skiing</a>,&nbsp;<a href="https://www.visitloscabos.travel/things-to-do/fishing-and-charters/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">sport fishing</a>, and&nbsp;<a href="https://www.visitloscabos.travel/things-to-do/tours-and-activities/scuba-diving/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">scuba diving</a>&nbsp;tours, or take in the majestic beauty of the Pacific Ocean with&nbsp;<a href="https://www.visitloscabos.travel/things-to-do/tours-and-activities/whale-watching/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">whale-watching</a>&nbsp;excursions and&nbsp;<a href="https://www.visitloscabos.travel/things-to-do/tours-and-activities/catamaran-and-boat-tours/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">sunset sailings</a>. Those seeking cultural enrichment can explore the region's&nbsp;<a href="https://www.visitloscabos.travel/things-to-do/arts-and-culture/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">rich history and art scene</a>&nbsp;with visits to museums, art galleries, and historic landmarks. Our&nbsp;<a href="https://www.visitloscabos.travel/golf/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">world-class golf courses</a>,<a href="https://www.visitloscabos.travel/things-to-do/spas-and-wellness/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">&nbsp;indulgent spas</a>, and&nbsp;<a href="https://www.visitloscabos.travel/blog/post/the-michelin-guide-to-los-cabos/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Michelin-starred chefs and restaurants</a>&nbsp;beckon to luxury travelers while the&nbsp;<a href="https://www.visitloscabos.travel/things-to-do/nightlife-and-clubs/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">clubs and entertainment venues</a>&nbsp;lining our cobblestone streets attract partygoers looking to dance until dawn. For travelers seeking thrills, cultural immersion, or tranquil rejuvenation, Los Cabos presents an unforgettable spectrum of experiences that will leave them invigorated and inspired.For more details reach out to the concierge at the Bahia hotel

Things to Do

Registry

Brett & Joel

Brett & Joel

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