Callan & Jake

Saturday, October 5, 2024 • Marion, OH

Callan & Jake

Saturday, October 5, 2024 • Marion, OH

Our Story

Growing as we go

Picture of Growing as we go

Like everything these days, our love story began online.


Callan moved to Upper Sandusky in February 2019 following a job at the local newspaper. Jake, meanwhile, was moving into his second home in Upper Sandusky, after moving from his childhood home in Sycamore a few years before.


We encountered each other before we actually met. In fact, Callan took Jake's picture during the Home For The Holidays 5K event, though she didn't realize at the time. She also recalls a very sweaty guy coming in to the pancake breakfast that followed. It's assumed that this was our "first sight" moment, though it wasn't yet love.


When we met online, we connected by discussing our mutual interest in visiting the Mothman, our favorite movies, and more. While Callan was covering the Hannah's House fundraiser at the Elks, Jake invited her to an impromptu drink at the Elk's bar downstairs after the event. We spent the rest of the evening discussing a number of things that some people wouldn't deign to bring up on a first meeting. But, it was surprisingly comfortable.


Our first "official" date was at the Corner Inn in Upper Sandusky for brunch in February 2020. An argument about Jason Bourne vs. John Wick led to a second date that evening. Jake introduced Callan to his cats and his cousin/roommate Zach. All six of them watched John Wick with the volume at max (to test out their new speaker system) while eating burned popcorn and sitting on half-dead bean bag chairs. This date was, not surprisingly, uncomfortable. However, after the ringing in the ears went away, it turned in to many more dates.


During the pandemic we decided we'd include each other in our bubbles. We spent hours watching the Harry Potter movies, and then discussing the books when Jake bought his own set.


We slowly met each others' families in small and outside gatherings, and we threw our inaugural Margarita Party on Jake's porch that summer along with numerous campfires. We also met the Mothman in all his steely-bunned greatness, and have made the trip two times now! We love going to see the Mothman in West Virginia and have made a habit of singing Country Roads as we cross the bridge into the state (which for our first trip was daily because we stayed at an Ohio hotel across the river!).


One Margarita Party turned into two, and then three, with Halloween parties and a Shrek party along the way. The fourth Margarita Party, in 2023, was where Jake popped the question after a very nervous rendition of karaoke Country Roads sung together in Hawaiian shirts.


What we each found that night we first met at the Elks was a partner to laugh with, a partner to cry with, a partner to sing (off-key) and dance with, a partner to game with, and above all a partner to grow with.


Below you'll find more fun dates and life events that we have enjoyed together. We hope you enjoy reading about these moments as much as we enjoyed living them!


Love,

Callan & Jake

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Daily Chief-Union/Callan Pugh

See Jake run

Unfortunately, this particular photo of Jake running didn't make the cut in the paper, though he was still in the background of the photo that did run in the Tuesday, Dec. 10, 2019 edition of the Daily Chief-Union. When we first met, it was a fun talking point for Jake. Later we also figured out that he was the poor schmuck dressed as Elroy the Elk during the Elks Open House that Callan took photos of for the Monday, May 13, 2019 edition of the Daily Chief-Union.

During the pandemic a lot of our "dates" were spent out catching Pokemon around Upper Sandusky. We also worked our way through the entire Harry Potter movie franchise. Jake bought and read the book series too!

June 07, 2020

During the pandemic a lot of our "dates" were spent out catching Pokemon around Upper Sandusky. We also worked our way through the entire Harry Potter movie franchise. Jake bought and read the book series too!
Having lived through several months of COVID, this first night of our trip to see the Mothman, we were able to get a pizza and sit out on the river listening to live music while still social distancing. It was the first time since March we felt somewhat normal. It was so fun experiencing it together.  COVID taught us that it is actually possible to miss watching drunk quinquagenarians dancing like they just don't care at concerts. Who knew?

June 12, 2020

Having lived through several months of COVID, this first night of our trip to see the Mothman, we were able to get a pizza and sit out on the river listening to live music while still social distancing. It was the first time since March we felt somewhat normal. It was so fun experiencing it together. COVID taught us that it is actually possible to miss watching drunk quinquagenarians dancing like they just don't care at concerts. Who knew?
Our first trip together was to Point Pleasant, WV to visit Mothman and his buns of steel. We've gone to Point Pleasant together twice now and plan to go again for the Mothman Festival when life slows down a bit!

June 12, 2020

Our first trip together was to Point Pleasant, WV to visit Mothman and his buns of steel. We've gone to Point Pleasant together twice now and plan to go again for the Mothman Festival when life slows down a bit!
Hi from the Mothman Statue! Our moms watched the livestream on YouTube to see us.

June 13, 2020

Hi from the Mothman Statue! Our moms watched the livestream on YouTube to see us.
Our first time meeting up was for a drink at the Elks in Upper Sandusky, but this photo comes from our visit to the Legends Bar in Point Pleasant. A disagreement that all light beers taste the same led Jake to try all three at once! We also tried the Mothman IPA which turned Jake into an IPA man.

June 13, 2020

Our first time meeting up was for a drink at the Elks in Upper Sandusky, but this photo comes from our visit to the Legends Bar in Point Pleasant. A disagreement that all light beers taste the same led Jake to try all three at once! We also tried the Mothman IPA which turned Jake into an IPA man.
Our first picture together at Tu-Endie-Wei state park in Point Pleasant, WV

June 13, 2020

Our first picture together at Tu-Endie-Wei state park in Point Pleasant, WV
This was our first date at the movies because of the pandemic. It was at the drive-in theater in Kenton. We saw Harry Potter and the Sorcerer's Stone. Everyone looked at us a little funny, because we both wore robes and ate lots of homemade magical treats including chocolate frogs and licorice wands.

July 18, 2020

This was our first date at the movies because of the pandemic. It was at the drive-in theater in Kenton. We saw Harry Potter and the Sorcerer's Stone. Everyone looked at us a little funny, because we both wore robes and ate lots of homemade magical treats including chocolate frogs and licorice wands.
We built a snowman at Jake's house and Jake welcomed him to the kingdom with the honor of knighthood.

January 31, 2021

We built a snowman at Jake's house and Jake welcomed him to the kingdom with the honor of knighthood.
We went on a zip lining trip in Punta Cana. We also snorkeled and later almost drowned in the ocean. We had a lot of fun (almost too much) on a party boat too.

February 22, 2021

We went on a zip lining trip in Punta Cana. We also snorkeled and later almost drowned in the ocean. We had a lot of fun (almost too much) on a party boat too.
When Jake worked security at the hospital, Callan would visit him for meals. We spent many 1 a.m. "lunch breaks" together on Fridays after Callan finished up at the paper, usually in the ER parking lot. We even celebrated Christmas in the car. Later when Jake switched to day shift we could head to the cafeteria lunches on weekends. Now the cafeteria has been completely renovated. We still get to grab a bite there together from time to time, even as Jake has traded in his badge for Excel spreadsheets.

May 23, 2021

When Jake worked security at the hospital, Callan would visit him for meals. We spent many 1 a.m. "lunch breaks" together on Fridays after Callan finished up at the paper, usually in the ER parking lot. We even celebrated Christmas in the car. Later when Jake switched to day shift we could head to the cafeteria lunches on weekends. Now the cafeteria has been completely renovated. We still get to grab a bite there together from time to time, even as Jake has traded in his badge for Excel spreadsheets.
We kicked the 2021 Margarita Party off with the Upper Pedal Company on a whirlwind trip around town to the local bars in Upper Sandusky with some great friends!

June 26, 2021

We kicked the 2021 Margarita Party off with the Upper Pedal Company on a whirlwind trip around town to the local bars in Upper Sandusky with some great friends!
One of our favorite date night spots is Don Tomasso's. On this particular date we enjoyed the loaded french fries.

July 14, 2021

One of our favorite date night spots is Don Tomasso's. On this particular date we enjoyed the loaded french fries.
Jake enjoyed his first Tomato Show parade and later the bathtub races and tomato toss.

September 11, 2021

Jake enjoyed his first Tomato Show parade and later the bathtub races and tomato toss.
This time the gang went out for a spooky ride around town with Upper Pedal Company before the start of our Halloween Party.

October 23, 2021

This time the gang went out for a spooky ride around town with Upper Pedal Company before the start of our Halloween Party.
The Upper Sandusky Elks Halloween Walk Through theme for 2021 was Harry Potter. We got to dress up yet again in our Hogwarts finest and are joined here by Ron Weasley (Mark Droll) and his better half (Misty).

October 30, 2021

The Upper Sandusky Elks Halloween Walk Through theme for 2021 was Harry Potter. We got to dress up yet again in our Hogwarts finest and are joined here by Ron Weasley (Mark Droll) and his better half (Misty).
Here we are freezing during the 2021 walk through for Upper's Winter Fantasy of Lights.

November 29, 2021

Here we are freezing during the 2021 walk through for Upper's Winter Fantasy of Lights.
A work conference in Chicago for Callan meant that Callan and Jake (and Sabrina for a few days) got to explore the city. We took a boat ride on the freshly dyed green river. We also hit up the American Girl store, the Sears Tower, and several of the museums. We saw Blue Man Group and mourned the closing of Rainforest Cafe. Callan and Jake had a lot of fun using the bike system around Chicago. One time, all the normal bikes were gone so Callan got an e-bike (without realizing). Jake was out of breath trying to keep up as Callan zoomed ahead and up hills with ease.

March 16, 2022

A work conference in Chicago for Callan meant that Callan and Jake (and Sabrina for a few days) got to explore the city. We took a boat ride on the freshly dyed green river. We also hit up the American Girl store, the Sears Tower, and several of the museums. We saw Blue Man Group and mourned the closing of Rainforest Cafe. Callan and Jake had a lot of fun using the bike system around Chicago. One time, all the normal bikes were gone so Callan got an e-bike (without realizing). Jake was out of breath trying to keep up as Callan zoomed ahead and up hills with ease.
We celebrated the wedding of Callan's college roommate Haley and her husband Alex. Before the wedding, Jake spent the day with Bridesman John and his husband Matthew enjoying lunch at Bobbie Evantes, and shopping for a whole new outfit so Jake could be dressed to the nines.

July 04, 2022

We celebrated the wedding of Callan's college roommate Haley and her husband Alex. Before the wedding, Jake spent the day with Bridesman John and his husband Matthew enjoying lunch at Bobbie Evantes, and shopping for a whole new outfit so Jake could be dressed to the nines.
We celebrated the union of Callan's cousin Meg and her husband Matthew!

August 06, 2022

We celebrated the union of Callan's cousin Meg and her husband Matthew!
After the wedding of Jake's childhood pal Radar (aka Trevor), Jordan, Abby, Jake and Callan visited the local waffle house!

October 01, 2022

After the wedding of Jake's childhood pal Radar (aka Trevor), Jordan, Abby, Jake and Callan visited the local waffle house!
Big rollercoasters meant specifically to terrify aren't really Jake's thing. However, Halloweekends at Cedar Point offers more thrills than just rollercoasters! On this trip we enjoyed the shows including the Tell Tale Heart dramatic retelling and we also had a lot of fun going through the haunted houses and haunt zones! Jake did try out the Millennium Force and nearly passed out before we even crested the first hill.  The very best part of Halloweekends are the fun Halloween decorations, which always yield new ideas for our next Halloween party.

October 08, 2022

Big rollercoasters meant specifically to terrify aren't really Jake's thing. However, Halloweekends at Cedar Point offers more thrills than just rollercoasters! On this trip we enjoyed the shows including the Tell Tale Heart dramatic retelling and we also had a lot of fun going through the haunted houses and haunt zones! Jake did try out the Millennium Force and nearly passed out before we even crested the first hill. The very best part of Halloweekends are the fun Halloween decorations, which always yield new ideas for our next Halloween party.
In celebration of Jake's birthday, Daleane, Keven, Callan and Jake saw Upper's Winter Fantasy of Lights from a horse-drawn carriage. These rides sell out quickly, so we were lucky we grabbed a spot. It was a really fun way to see the lights which we typically walk through and drive through at least a few times each year. If you haven't made it to see the lights, we recommend that you do!

December 13, 2022

In celebration of Jake's birthday, Daleane, Keven, Callan and Jake saw Upper's Winter Fantasy of Lights from a horse-drawn carriage. These rides sell out quickly, so we were lucky we grabbed a spot. It was a really fun way to see the lights which we typically walk through and drive through at least a few times each year. If you haven't made it to see the lights, we recommend that you do!
For our birthdays, we got to see the Columbus Orchestra perform the music from Harry Potter and the Half-blood Prince (which includes Callan's favorite character Potions Master Horace Slughorn). We ate at Condado Tacos before the show and of course wore our robes again!

February 24, 2023

For our birthdays, we got to see the Columbus Orchestra perform the music from Harry Potter and the Half-blood Prince (which includes Callan's favorite character Potions Master Horace Slughorn). We ate at Condado Tacos before the show and of course wore our robes again!
Typically we're on the same page for party planning, but a debate over Shrek as a Halloween party theme went a little oger the top. Instead Shrek was used as the theme for a birthday party for Callan! Pictured is Jake as Merlin, Zach as Thelonious, and Callan as the Ugly Step Sister. The creativity of the costumes that people wore was unmatched.

March 12, 2023

Typically we're on the same page for party planning, but a debate over Shrek as a Halloween party theme went a little oger the top. Instead Shrek was used as the theme for a birthday party for Callan! Pictured is Jake as Merlin, Zach as Thelonious, and Callan as the Ugly Step Sister. The creativity of the costumes that people wore was unmatched.
Then we got to meet Shrek and Fiona (power couple) on our trip to Universal.

April 30, 2023

Then we got to meet Shrek and Fiona (power couple) on our trip to Universal.
This was also the day that Jake tried his first butterbeer at Harry Potter world. We rode Hagrid's Motorbike Adventure (TM) at least once every day we were in Florida.

April 30, 2023

This was also the day that Jake tried his first butterbeer at Harry Potter world. We rode Hagrid's Motorbike Adventure (TM) at least once every day we were in Florida.
The day we finally made it official (on Facebook).

June 24, 2023

The day we finally made it official (on Facebook).
Margarita Party turned marriage proposal. Jake set up karaoke as a guise to ask Callan to marry him. We sang Country Roads which had become a favorite tradition for us to sing in the car on the bridge in to West Virginia when visiting Point Pleasant. Despite guessing much of the proposal, Callan was still completely surprised.

June 24, 2023

Margarita Party turned marriage proposal. Jake set up karaoke as a guise to ask Callan to marry him. We sang Country Roads which had become a favorite tradition for us to sing in the car on the bridge in to West Virginia when visiting Point Pleasant. Despite guessing much of the proposal, Callan was still completely surprised.
Before popping the question, Daleane, Jake, and Callan got their nails done. The nail game was fierce for the engagement photos.

June 24, 2023

Before popping the question, Daleane, Jake, and Callan got their nails done. The nail game was fierce for the engagement photos.
And Jake was pretty fierce while sipping his coffee at the nail salon too.

June 24, 2023

And Jake was pretty fierce while sipping his coffee at the nail salon too.
Callan and Jake celebrated their engagement by returning to the Corner Inn in Upper Sandusky for brunch. This was the location of our official first date!

June 25, 2023

Callan and Jake celebrated their engagement by returning to the Corner Inn in Upper Sandusky for brunch. This was the location of our official first date!
For a week after the engagement (maybe two) Callan tortured Jake with photos of her engagement ring. At least he knows she likes it!

June 28, 2023

For a week after the engagement (maybe two) Callan tortured Jake with photos of her engagement ring. At least he knows she likes it!
"Look Jake, I'm at a stoplight and I need to get some gas!"

June 29, 2023

"Look Jake, I'm at a stoplight and I need to get some gas!"
We visited the Brickyard on Main in Marion and knew it was the place we wanted to say "I Do!" We can't wait to celebrate with all of you!

July 05, 2023

We visited the Brickyard on Main in Marion and knew it was the place we wanted to say "I Do!" We can't wait to celebrate with all of you!
We celebrated the marriage of Jake and Jocelyn Smith with Jake's best friends from high school.

September 23, 2023

We celebrated the marriage of Jake and Jocelyn Smith with Jake's best friends from high school.
Did someone say Beetlejuice (three times)? We had lots of fun at the 2023 Halloween party, pictured here with our pirate neighbors Matt and Yajaira.

October 21, 2023

Did someone say Beetlejuice (three times)? We had lots of fun at the 2023 Halloween party, pictured here with our pirate neighbors Matt and Yajaira.
On October 30, just as the weather started to turn truly chilly for the season we captured the last few days of beautiful leaves for our engagement photos. We spent time at the Upper Sandusky reservoir where we've previously spent time being terrible fishermen, paddle boarding, and of course hunting Pokemon.

October 30, 2023

On October 30, just as the weather started to turn truly chilly for the season we captured the last few days of beautiful leaves for our engagement photos. We spent time at the Upper Sandusky reservoir where we've previously spent time being terrible fishermen, paddle boarding, and of course hunting Pokemon.
We also visited the Wyandot County Museum, at which we have enjoyed several evenings learning about the unique history of the town (and which we feel perfectly captures the practical magic, Owens family home vibes).

October 30, 2023

We also visited the Wyandot County Museum, at which we have enjoyed several evenings learning about the unique history of the town (and which we feel perfectly captures the practical magic, Owens family home vibes).
We wrapped up our first month living under the same roof with decorating the Christmas Tree with Zach, Mom (Daleane), and Keven.

November 24, 2023

We wrapped up our first month living under the same roof with decorating the Christmas Tree with Zach, Mom (Daleane), and Keven.
As the newest member of the annual Christmas Tree chop brigade, Jake had the honor of cutting the tree while everyone else watched.

December 02, 2023

As the newest member of the annual Christmas Tree chop brigade, Jake had the honor of cutting the tree while everyone else watched.
Jake has become an honorary Health Department employee. He has attended every after hours community event we've held since Callan took the position. He also joined Callan and the crew for money collection at Upper's Winter Fantasy of Lights.

December 07, 2023

Jake has become an honorary Health Department employee. He has attended every after hours community event we've held since Callan took the position. He also joined Callan and the crew for money collection at Upper's Winter Fantasy of Lights.
We have bonded over Nintendo Games. Jake bought his first Switch specifically to play with Callan (because she was dragging him down on Call of Duty). For the third year in a row we celebrated Jake's birthday with Mario Kartmas.

December 16, 2023

We have bonded over Nintendo Games. Jake bought his first Switch specifically to play with Callan (because she was dragging him down on Call of Duty). For the third year in a row we celebrated Jake's birthday with Mario Kartmas.
We enjoyed totality during the Total Solar Eclipse in Upper Sandusky. Everyone was in awe, but Jake's face here really says it all.

April 08, 2024

We enjoyed totality during the Total Solar Eclipse in Upper Sandusky. Everyone was in awe, but Jake's face here really says it all.
Jake finished his Bachelor's Degree. After the wedding he's considering getting a master's degree. In the meantime, we'll also be attending a graduation ceremony for Jake post wedding too!

April 20, 2024

Jake finished his Bachelor's Degree. After the wedding he's considering getting a master's degree. In the meantime, we'll also be attending a graduation ceremony for Jake post wedding too!
Callan officially graduated with her master's degree. While many people were excited, none were happier than Jake who knew this meant the end of Callan spending her weekends going back and forth between procrastinating, writing papers, and crying.

May 04, 2024

Callan officially graduated with her master's degree. While many people were excited, none were happier than Jake who knew this meant the end of Callan spending her weekends going back and forth between procrastinating, writing papers, and crying.
Celebratory surgery after finishing the degree. We promise it's healed just fine in plenty of time for the wedding. Now if Callan has the sniffles it will be due to tears not the nasties that were hanging out in her sinuses. Jake spent the whole week after surgery caring for his patient.

May 14, 2024

Celebratory surgery after finishing the degree. We promise it's healed just fine in plenty of time for the wedding. Now if Callan has the sniffles it will be due to tears not the nasties that were hanging out in her sinuses. Jake spent the whole week after surgery caring for his patient.
We felt the love during our wedding shower at the beautiful KnoxView Winery. The day was rounded out with the Tomato Show Parade and bathtub races!

September 07, 2024

We felt the love during our wedding shower at the beautiful KnoxView Winery. The day was rounded out with the Tomato Show Parade and bathtub races!
We used the annual Upper Sandusky Autumn Cruise Car Show as an excuse to visit the Corner Inn one more time before the wedding. Of course we got Brad's Breakfast Bowl. One week away!

September 28, 2024

We used the annual Upper Sandusky Autumn Cruise Car Show as an excuse to visit the Corner Inn one more time before the wedding. Of course we got Brad's Breakfast Bowl. One week away!