Our First Encounter: In a grand display of devotion, the gallant Conner embarked on a journey of 2.5 hours from the misty, verdant peaks of Southwest Virginia to the glittering lights of Charlotte, North Carolina. There, he was to meet the lovely Carol for the very first time, without ever having heard her dulcet tones or beheld her visage. The eve prior, Conner was filled with trepidation, for 24 long hours had passed without a single word from the fair Carol, casting a shadow of doubt upon his heart. Yet, just as he was on the brink of abandoning his quest, a message arrived, and with it, the courage to proceed. Conner, ever the gentleman, orchestrated a most splendid evening in Charlotte. As the night drew to a close, he presented her with a bouquet of delicate pink blossoms and a handwritten note, penned with the utmost care. The evening culminated in a moment of tender joy, as they captured their first memories together in a self-portrait. Carol, her heart light with laughter, delighted in the entire evening—from the savoring of oysters to the merriment of a comedy club. So enamored was she by Conner's company that she graciously accepted his invitation to brunch the very next morn. From that fateful day, not a single day has passed without their voices entwining in conversation. The rest, as they say, is destined for the annals of history.

Our First Sporting Affair: Carol, though never before enticed by the thrill of a sporting event, found herself willing to step into the unfamiliar for the chance to see Conner once more. In a display of his thoughtful nature, Conner presented her with a Charlotte Hornets sweatshirt, a gesture that was accompanied by a handwritten note, tenderly composed. As the game unfolded before them, Carol's attention was far from the spectacle on the court. Instead, she was utterly captivated by the lively conversation and shared laughter with Conner. The evening was filled with such joy that it set the standard for all their future encounters, establishing a rhythm of delight and connection that would endure.

Our 1st Excursion to the Gun Range (Charlotte, North Carolina): In a delightful twist of adventure, Carol proposed their inaugural outing to the gun range, emphasizing the importance of safety as the first order of business. With eager spirits, they embarked on this unique date, where laughter mingled with the thrill of the experience. Conner, ever the sentimentalist, preserved the target sheet as a cherished memento of their time together—a tangible reminder of that memorable day, which they both hold dear to this very day. This outing not only showcased their shared enthusiasm for new experiences, but also deepened the bond they cherished.

Our 1st Valentine's Day together: As the day of romance dawned, Conner found himself utterly breathless, rendered speechless by the breathtaking beauty of Carol. Dressed to enchant, she embodied elegance & grace, and in that moment, he could scarcely believe his fortune in spending this special Valentine’s Day with such a stunning, intelligent, & witty woman. His heart swelled with admiration & joy, for the occasion was a celebration of their love.

Carol's First Journey to Virginia: Carol, who had once declared with certainty that she would never set foot in Virginia, found herself both surprised and bemused as she embarked on a 2.5-hour journey to Conner's homeland—a quaint university town nestled in Blacksburg, Virginia. There, amidst the bustling Virginia Tech students and the gentle presence of cows and sheep, she was introduced to a world vastly different from her own. Despite the chill of winter, the breathtaking mountains and serene natural beauty stirred memories of her beloved Jamaica. Together, they hiked through the crisp air, shared laughter, and visited the renowned Blue Ridge Mountains, capturing a moment of their adventure in a picturesque scene. Their journey also led them to the charming, one-stoplight town of Floyd, a place where time seemed to move at a different pace. This unexpected voyage to Southwest Virginia, filled with joy and discovery, revealed to Carol the wonders of a place she never thought she would explore.

Our First Domestic Excursion—Asheville, NC: Conner, with his usual flair for thoughtful gestures, arranged for a charming stay at a quaint AirB&B nestled in the mountains of Asheville. For Carol, it was her first visit to this enchanting town, and the prospect of exploring new places together stirred their shared passion for travel and discovery. Their days were filled with delightful indulgences—from savoring homemade ice cream and brownies to sampling the local brews. The nights, however, were where the true magic unfolded. Following the wise recommendation of Todd, Conner's esteemed father, they ventured to a lively piano bar, where they danced and sang with abandon. The evening was one of romance and revelry, weaving memories that would linger in their hearts for years to come.

Our First Hike Together: As they embarked on their inaugural hike, Carol found herself grappling with feelings of fitness inadequacy, convinced that she was holding Conner back from his true pace. Yet, with unwavering patience, he stayed by her side, offering gentle encouragement & reassurances to take her time, demonstrating the depth of his support. With each step, the journey became a testament to their teamwork & shared goals. Upon reaching the summit, the breathtaking views before them rendered all challenges worthwhile. This picturesque moment stood as a symbol of their unity, reflecting the strength they drew from one another as they navigated both the trails of nature & the paths of life together.

Our 1st Glamping Trip Together: In a delightful fusion of nature & comfort, Carol & Conner embarked on their inaugural glamping trip, where the rustic charm of camping met the "luxuries" of modernity. Nestled on 2 couches pushed together, they created a cozy nest under the stars, accompanied by the warmth of a crackling fire & the sway of a hammock nearby. While Carol slumbered peacefully in their charming hut, Conner found himself less fortunate in the realm of restful sleep. Nevertheless, their days were filled with exhilarating adventures, from invigorating hikes to thrilling ziplining escapades. This getaway marked the 1st of many glamping adventures to come, as they reveled in their shared interests for the great outdoors & a spirit of adventure.

Our First Leap into a Waterfall Together (Virginia): In a spirited moment of spontaneity, Carol persuaded Conner to embrace adventure, urging him to let his hair down & take a daring plunge into the freezing waters of a river that cascaded toward a stunning waterfall. Although it took some coaxing, Conner ultimately surrendered to the thrill of the experience, marking this unplanned escapade as a testament to Carol’s adventurous spirit. As they plunged into the frigid depths together, laughter echoed around them, & the beauty of the waterfall unfolded in a breathtaking display. This exhilarating leap would stand as a defining moment in their relationship, symbolizing the countless times Carol would inspire Conner to embrace spontaneity & seize the day with a joyful heart.

Conner helping Carol move out Charlotte, NC to Miami, FL! Conner Aiding Carol’s Relocation from Charlotte, NC to Miami, FL: In a grand display of devotion, Conner traversed three hours from Southwest Virginia to lend his assistance as Carol prepared for her move to the vibrant city of Miami, Florida. It was during this endeavor that he discovered the art of packing a car, learning the intricacies of the "Jamaican way" under the guidance of Carol’s mother, who instructed him via FaceTime. "Pack up di car," she directed with enthusiasm, adding with a knowing chuckle, "it have nuff space, man!" The task of moving was fraught with the usual stresses of packing up an entire apartment, along with its furniture and belongings. Yet, as they worked side by side, the experience served as a testament to their burgeoning partnership, revealing to Carol their capacity to function as a true team.

Our First International Sojourn—Cancún, Mexico: Conner and Carol embarked on their first international adventure, finding themselves in the sun-kissed paradise of Cancún. There, they resided in an opulent all-inclusive resort, a retreat that marked the beginning of their shared exploration of the world. Their journey led them to one of the Seven Wonders of the World, the renowned Chichén Itzá, and a mystical cenote, both highly recommended by Racquel, one of Carol's cherished bridesmaids. Ever the devoted food enthusiasts, they embraced their mutual love for culinary exploration and daring adventures, traversing the vibrant streets of Mexico with zeal. In this land of ancient wonders and rich flavors, Conner and Carol's bond deepened as they reveled in the beauty of discovery, leaving an indelible mark on their hearts.

Our First Couples Massage (Conner's First Massage Ever): Nestled beside the sun-kissed shores of Mexico, Conner & Carol indulged in their very 1st couples massage, a moment of tranquility & connection amid the gentle lull of the ocean waves. To Carol's astonishment, she soon discovered that this was not only their inaugural experience as a couple, but also Conner's first massage ever!!!! As they surrendered to the soothing hands of their therapists, this serene experience marked the beginning of a tradition—1 that would see them seek out couples massages on every vacation henceforth, as a delightful ritual.

1st Celebration of Conner's Birthday: In a gesture of affection and surprise, Carol appeared at the Fort Lauderdale Airport, eagerly awaiting Conner’s arrival during one of his many journeys to Florida to be with her. This occasion was marked not only by the joy of reunion but also by Conner's first introduction to Carol's beloved family—her gracious mother, Erica, and her youngest sister, the spirited Monique. Carol’s family welcomed Conner with open arms, their warmth and hospitality evident as they planned a delightful surprise celebration for his 29th birthday. The evening was filled with merriment as they gathered to sing him a joyous rendition of "Happy Birthday," marking this special occasion with a heartfelt and intimate celebration that left Conner feeling truly cherished.

Our 1st Residency Gala Together: This enchanting evening would certainly be one for the history books. As Conner & Carol arrived, having journeyed an hour to the esteemed Rusty Pelican for her medical residency gala, he suddenly realized with a pang of dismay that he had forgotten Carol's heels!!!!!! The shock on her face was palpable! Yet, Conner, ever the resourceful gentleman, swiftly devised a solution! With determination in his heart, he whisked Carol away to procure a brand-NEW pair of heels, ensuring she was perfectly adorned for the occasion. They returned to the gala as they danced the night away, reveling in the delight of mingling with friends & celebrating Carol’s accomplishments. From that unforgettable night forward, Conner never forgot Carol's shoes again, a promise etched in the annals of their shared adventures.

Celebrating Carol's Medical Residency White Coat Ceremony: In a display of unwavering support and admiration, Conner distinguished himself from all other suitors through his steadfast devotion to Carol's ambitious pursuits and tenacious spirit. He stood resolutely by her side throughout her journey to medical residency and beyond, a true partner in her endeavors. On the day of her White Coat Ceremony, Conner's pride in Carol's accomplishments was palpable. He rejoiced in witnessing the fruits of her hard work and resilience, as her dreams began to manifest before their eyes. This moment was not just a celebration of Carol's achievements, but also of the bond they shared—a bond strengthened by mutual respect, admiration, and unwavering support.

Barbie movie! Miami drive through theatre: He loves & support the Barbie movie? GREEN FLAG! (that perfectly sums up Carol's sentiment of Conner)

Our 1st Perfume-Making Class Together (Miami): In a charming display of thoughtfulness, Conner surprised Carol with an invitation to a delightful perfume-making class, an experience that promised to awaken their senses & spark their creativity. Together, they entered a fragrant world where they would craft their own unique scents, each one a reflection of their personalities. They blended delicate notes & experimented with fragrances. This experience not only allowed them to create personalized perfumes, but also marked the beginning of yet another cherished memory in their blossoming romance

1st Celebration of Carol's Birthday (at Giselle Restaurant): Conner, with his customary thoughtfulness, orchestrated an entire weekend of festivities in honor of Carol's birthday—each moment brimming with surprises and heartfelt handwritten cards. It had become a cherished tradition for Conner to present Carol with a handwritten card during every visit, a testament to his deep affection. Their celebration unfolded amidst the luxurious allure of Miami, where they reveled in the city's finest rooftop bars and elegant restaurants, including the exquisite Giselle. Together, they indulged in the pleasures of life, savoring each moment of joy and togetherness. The weekend was a lavish affair, marked by laughter, love, and the unmistakable bond they shared.

Conner's 1st Journey to Jamaica: As Conner embarked on his first voyage to the vibrant island of Jamaica, he found himself anxious at the prospect of meeting Carol's esteemed father, the much-admired Chully. However, his nerves were quickly soothed upon their arrival at Kingston airport, where Chully awaited them with a warm and welcoming presence. During his time in Jamaica, Conner wholeheartedly embraced the richness of Carol's heritage—immersing himself in the island's culture, savoring its cuisine, and reveling in its music. Their travels took them through the bustling heart of Kingston, the capital city, and to the luxurious all-inclusive retreats of Trelawny. With each experience, Conner's appreciation for the culture and history of Jamaica deepened, as he eagerly learned and studied more about the land that held such a special place in Carol's heart.

Our 1st Horseback Riding Adventure Together (Jamaica): As the sun cast its golden glow over the picturesque Jamaican landscape, Carol found herself confronted by her fear of heights, hesitant at the prospect of mounting a horse. Yet, Conner, ever the stalwart protector, offered her unwavering support, instilling in her the courage to embrace this new experience! Together, they horseback rode along the pristine shores & in the crystal-clear waters of the Caribbean Sea. As they traversed both land & sea, Carol's apprehension began to wane, replaced by the thrill of the moment & the shared joy of their exhilarating escapade. A testament to their bond & the adventures that awaited them.

Proposal day!!!!!! In a masterful act of secrecy and romance, Conner orchestrated a surprise proposal to commemorate their one-year journey together. With the invaluable assistance of Carol's family—Ruth, her eldest sister, her mother Erica, and Monique—Conner meticulously planned every detail, even going so far as to enlist the talents of a hidden photographer and videographer to capture the momentous occasion. When the moment arrived, Carol was utterly astonished, her shock evident to all who witnessed the event. For those fortunate enough to view the video of this heartfelt proposal, the surprise and joy on Carol's face stand as undeniable proof of Conner's perfect execution and the deep love they share.

Day After Conner's Surprisal Proposal To Carol: The Day Following Conner’s Surprising Proposal to Carol: In the wake of Conner's heartfelt proposal, the atmosphere was charged with anticipation as Carol Facetimed her immediate family, who awaited news of her answer with bated breath. Eager to celebrate this joyous occasion, Carol's mother, in collaboration with her sister Ruth, swiftly organized an engagement celebration brunch for the very next day. As the gathering commenced, laughter filled the air, accompanied by the clinking of champagne glasses and the delightful spread of delectable food. Together, they reminisced about the enchanting details of the surprise proposal, each moment recounted with fondness. The pièce de résistance was Monique's homebaked personalized cookies, adorned with the initials "Car & Con," which sparked the initiation of the delightful hashtag #C&C.

Our 1st Pottery-Making Class Together (Miami): During Conner's frequent journeys from Virginia to Miami, he consistently curated a delightful itinerary of activities for their time together. This occasion was no different, as he arranged for a private pottery-making class, allowing Carol to indulge in her favorite hobby & showcase her creative flair. Under the guidance of a skilled instructor, they embraced the art of pottery, each shaping & molding their pieces with care & laughter. As the class drew to a close, their final creations stood proudly on display, each piece a testament to their shared interest in exploring new experiences & nurturing their bond through artistic expression.

Engagement party - meeting of the families! In a splendid display of unity & joy, both Carol's & Conner's families came together to orchestrate a delightful engagement party, setting the stage for the beautiful union that lay ahead. This celebration was not merely a festivity- but a heartfelt gathering, symbolizing the merging of 2 families: intercultural & interracial. The evening resonated with the promise of new beginnings & cherished bonds that would forever entwine their lives: Jamaican Island Girl Carol & American Mountain Man Conner!

Conner's Official Moving Date to Miami, Florida, to Be United with His One True Love, Carol: At long last, the day had arrived for Conner to embark on his momentous journey to Miami, where he would be united with his beloved Carol. To facilitate this transition, he meticulously divided his move into 2 arduous trips, each requiring 14 hours of driving from Virginia to Miami—a testament to his unwavering commitment & a man of his word. With purpose & determination, Conner packed up his life into his car, making the journey twice in his quest to be with his future wife. After enduring a year & eight months of long-distance romance, filled with countless flights back & forth to visit Carol, every moment of separation proved worthwhile as he envisioned the life they would build together. Upon his arrival, the trio began a new chapter in their lives—Conner, Carol, and Queso, Conner's beloved cat—joyfully embracing their shared journey as they settled into their new life as a family.