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June 14, 2024 • New York, NY, USA
Carrie & Big

Carrie & Big

June 14, 2024 • New York, NY, USA

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June 14, 2024
New York
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Lachaim!

Sunday, January 14, 2024
6:00 PM–9:00 PM
A celebration and toasts that happen the day of getting engaged

Dress Shopping

Monday, February 5, 2024
12:00 PM
The change experienced by the bride and groom during the wedding transitions them from self-focused individuals to integral parts of a unified entity, symbolized by the husband-wife relationship, where their mutual responsibility is to give to one another. This change in perspective, directed towards the needs of their partner, marks a important transformation in their characters, so validating forgiveness for any past offense. This transformation is indicated by the choice of attire: the bride wears a white dress, while the groom wears a white kittel beneath the chuppah. (Rabbi Beryl Gershenfeld, Ner Le’Elef audio class)

Kabalas Panim

June 14, 2024
5:00 PM
The groom, accompanied by his friends, including his father, future father-in-law, and members of the community, goes to where the bride is seated on a throne-like chair, surrounded by her family and friends. The groom then veils the bride's face. Some authorities suggest that this act is an integral part of the marriage ceremony, the groom himself undertakes this action in the presence of witnesses. Following this, those gathered offer their blessings to the bride, echoing the words spoken to Rebecca in Genesis 24:60, "Our sister, may you become thousands of myriads."

Reception

The Metropolitan Club
One East 60th Street, New York, NY, 10022

תנאים

Breaking the plate symbolizes a strong dedication to the upcoming wedding, or it can represent grief for the BHMK destruction. Additionally, it might hint at the near separation between parents and children as they start their own households with their spouses.

Sheva Brachot

https://www.chabad.org/library/article_cdo/aid/479965/jewish/Text-of-Sheva-Brachot.htm While individuals typically present a certain image or facade, wine possesses the unique ability to unveil the true essence of a person, exposing hidden characterists of their personality. After drinking wine, individuals often reveal their real character traits, whether positive or negative. This serves as a fitting analogy for marriage, where two soulmates commit to embracing each other unconditionally, including both the outwardly and subconscious aspects of their partner. Furthermore, wine is known to bring joy to the heart. However, the process of creating this heartening beverage involves crushing grapes. Similarly, married life presents its share of challenges and difficulties. The key lies in facing these moments together, overcoming obstacles as a team, which ultimately deepens the bond of love and brings about greater happiness. Honorees: Aiden Shaw Aleksandr Petrovsky Richard Wright Harry Goldenblatt Steve Brady Robert Leeds

The Chupa

In the future there will be a canopy for each one, which is a sign of importance and significance for each one in his own right. The chuppah, a canopy used in Jewish weddings, symbolizes the open tent of Abraham, welcoming guests from all sides. By standing under it, the couple symbolically commits to creating a home akin to Abraham's, characterized by openness and hospitality towards others.

The Yichud Room

The yichud room of the bride and groom is a private room and is a significant part of the wedding tradition. The marriage isn't fully complete until the couple has had a chance to be alone together. Therefore, the couple is only considered married only after being in the yichud room together. The couple only needs to be in there for a few minutes.

Hosts!

Samantha - BBQ Stanford - Informal Miranda - Formal Charlotte - Formal Steve - BBQ Natasha - Informal

The Aufruf

An Aufruf is when a Jewish groom is called to the Torah for an Aliyah the week before the wedding. Jesse had his Aufruf at Congregation Sherith Israel.

Chason Tisch

It's a place where everyone gathers with chosson and signs the ketubah and witnessed by aidim and they go from there to perform the badekin.