A celebration and toasts that happen the day of getting engaged
Dress Shopping
Monday, February 5, 2024
12:00 PM
The change experienced by the bride and groom during the wedding transitions them from self-focused individuals to integral parts of a unified entity, symbolized by the husband-wife relationship, where their mutual responsibility is to give to one another. This change in perspective, directed towards the needs of their partner, marks a important transformation in their characters, so validating forgiveness for any past offense. This transformation is indicated by the choice of attire: the bride wears a white dress, while the groom wears a white kittel beneath the chuppah. (Rabbi Beryl Gershenfeld, Ner Le’Elef audio class)
Kabalas Panim
June 14, 2024
5:00 PM
The groom, accompanied by his friends, including his father, future father-in-law, and members of the community, goes to where the bride is seated on a throne-like chair, surrounded by her family and friends. The groom then veils the bride's face. Some authorities suggest that this act is an integral part of the marriage ceremony, the groom himself undertakes this action in the presence of witnesses. Following this, those gathered offer their blessings to the bride, echoing the words spoken to Rebecca in Genesis 24:60, "Our sister, may you become thousands of myriads."
Reception
The Metropolitan Club
One East 60th Street, New York, NY, 10022
תנאים
Breaking the plate symbolizes a strong dedication to the upcoming wedding, or it can represent grief for the BHMK destruction. Additionally, it might hint at the near separation between parents and children as they start their own households with their spouses.
Sheva Brachot
https://www.chabad.org/library/article_cdo/aid/479965/jewish/Text-of-Sheva-Brachot.htm
While individuals typically present a certain image or facade, wine possesses the unique ability to unveil the true essence of a person, exposing hidden characterists of their personality. After drinking wine, individuals often reveal their real character traits, whether positive or negative. This serves as a fitting analogy for marriage, where two soulmates commit to embracing each other unconditionally, including both the outwardly and subconscious aspects of their partner.
Furthermore, wine is known to bring joy to the heart. However, the process of creating this heartening beverage involves crushing grapes. Similarly, married life presents its share of challenges and difficulties. The key lies in facing these moments together, overcoming obstacles as a team, which ultimately deepens the bond of love and brings about greater happiness.
Honorees:
Aiden Shaw
Aleksandr Petrovsky
Richard Wright
Harry Goldenblatt
Steve Brady
Robert Leeds
The Chupa
In the future there will be a canopy for
each one, which is a sign of importance and
significance for each one in his own right. The chuppah, a canopy used in Jewish weddings, symbolizes the open tent of Abraham, welcoming guests from all sides. By standing under it, the couple symbolically commits to creating a home akin to Abraham's, characterized by openness and hospitality towards others.
The Yichud Room
The yichud room of the bride and groom is a private room and is a significant part of the wedding tradition. The marriage isn't fully complete until the couple has had a chance to be alone together. Therefore, the couple is only considered married only after being in the yichud room together. The couple only needs to be in there for a few minutes.
Hosts!
Samantha - BBQ
Stanford - Informal
Miranda - Formal
Charlotte - Formal
Steve - BBQ
Natasha - Informal
The Aufruf
An Aufruf is when a Jewish groom is called to the Torah for an Aliyah the week before the wedding. Jesse had his Aufruf at Congregation Sherith Israel.
Chason Tisch
It's a place where everyone gathers with chosson and signs the ketubah and witnessed by aidim and they go from there to perform the badekin.