It is black tie optional, but we are asking that everyone wear the color black. Thanks for helping make our our black and white theme come to life.
Are kids welcome?
We love you and your entire family, but are asking for the evening to be just for the parents!
When do I need to RSVP?
Please RSVP by September 15th by using the RSVP tab in the menu above. If you do not RSVP in time we will assume you are unable to attend.
What do I do if I cannot make it?
You will be missed! If you can't make it to the wedding, please let us know as soon as possible and RSVP "not attending" so we can plan accordingly. Thank you!
Where do I park?
Lots of options are available for the day! Within the hotel the Oaklander offers $20 valet parking. Outside of the hotel, there is a parking garage adjacent that offers a daily rate or there is street parking. Within the city street parking must be paid for from 8a-6p on Saturdays and is free all day Sunday.
Where should I stay?
Under the 'Travel' tab our room block at the Oaklander is available for an easy day from ceremony until the end of the end of the night. If you would rather stay somewhere else there are lots of hotel options in Oakland or within Pittsburgh!
What time should we arrive?
Please arrive by 4pm (30 minutes prior to the ceremony) to allow for parking, riding up to the ceremony, and finding your seats. If you arrive after the ceremony has started we kindly ask that you wait in the cocktail hour space until the ceremony has ended.
Will there be an open bar?
Yes! We are excited to celebrate all night with you!
Can I take pictures during the ceremony?
We kindly ask that you do not use your phones during the ceremony and be present with us in the moment. We have an incredible team that will be filming and photographing the entire day so we all can enjoy the ceremony without a little screen in the way!