To our friends and family: We're so excited to celebrate our wedding with you. Find all the details you need to know about our big day here.

Demi & Cole

October 19, 2024 • Wilmington, North Carolina

To our friends and family: We're so excited to celebrate our wedding with you. Find all the details you need to know about our big day here.

Demi & Cole

October 19, 2024 • Wilmington, North Carolina

Q + A

Logistics

How do I RSVP? What date should I RSVP by?

We kindly ask that you RSVP by September 14, 2024.

Where is the ceremony and reception?

The wedding ceremony and reception venue is located at Figure 8 Yacht Club: 15 Bridge Road Wilmington, NC 28411 Google Maps Link: https://maps.app.goo.gl/5T9bYeud23hLab28A

How do I get there? Is there parking available near your ceremony and reception venue? What is the easiest way to get to and from?

We recommend you schedule an Uber or taxi for both drop off and pick up if you plan on partying with us. Requesting an Uber night-of can be difficult since Figure 8 is outside of city limits. For those driving, there will be a parking lot located at the ceremony/reception site with ample parking available.

Will your wedding be indoors or outdoors?

The wedding ceremony and cocktail hour will be held outdoors, weather permitting. In case of unpleasant weather, the events will be transferred indoors.

Have you reserved blocks of rooms at one or more hotels?

Yes. We have a complimentary room block at the Residence Inn by Marriott Wilmington Landfall. Please call the hotel directly at 910-256-0098 and ask for the Abernathy/Lachman rate wedding rate. These rooms are only guaranteed if booked prior to September 12, 2024. You can also click the link below: https://www.marriott.com/event-reservations/reservation-link.mi?id=1711563549756&key=GRP&app=resvlink

Ceremony and Reception Details

Am I allowed to bring a plus one?

Our wedding is strictly RSVP only. We will only be able to accommodate those listed on your invitation and RSVP.

Am I allowed to bring my children?

We love your little ones- however, we have decided to keep our wedding an adult only event. Unless, your children are listed on your invite and when you RSVP to the event, we encourage you to use this evening as a fun date night!

What is the dresscode?

The dress code for our wedding is dressy cocktail attire. We suggest men wear a coat and tie, or suit in any color and women wear a formal dress, a fancy cocktail dress, or a dressy pantsuit. No jeans or white attire please.

What time should I arrive at your ceremony?

Guest arrival is between 4:00 and 4:25, please give yourself enough time to find parking and your seat before ceremony start at 4:30.

Will there be meal options for guests with dietary restrictions or allergies?

Please indicate any dietary restrictions or allergies when you RSVP. If you have questions or concerns please reach out to Cole or Demi directly.

Will there be an open bar?

Yes, the drinks are on us! We have been so excited for this day so party accordingly!

What time will your wedding reception end? Will there be an after-party?

The reception will end at 11pm. When the reception ends, we invite all of our guests to join us at the beach bars to keep the party going!

Other FAQs

Could you give me a link to your registry?

We are so thankful you will be joining us for this celebration of our love. While gifts are not expected, we have registered for a few items we need for our newlywed home at Crate and Barrel, Amazon, and Pottery Barn. If you would like to honor us with a gift, you can have it delivered to our home at 4710 Long Leaf Hills Drive. A wedding card box will also be at our reception.

What is the best way to contact you if I have additional questions?

For questions or concerns leading up to the big day, please email: coleanddemi@gmail.com