We sure hope you’ll be able to join us for our special day. We request that we receive your response by September 20th. With your invitation, there is an RSVP card that you can fill out and return by mail in the pre stamped envelope. There is also a RSVP tab on our home page and you can let us know there.

We want our wedding to be a joyful celebration for everyone and we plan to party into the night! So while your children are welcome to attend, festivities are definitely geared towards adults.

Our wedding is semi-formal, so we encourage you to wear cocktail attire or Sunday best.

The ceremony will be taking place outdoors, as long as the weather permits on The Bluff. Reception to follow in the West Texas Venue.

We love photos! We do ask that you refrain from taking photos during the ceremony, we’d like that time to be unplugged. For the rest of the wedding, we encourage guests to post pictures using our wedding hashtag #BecomingBernhard so we can see them, too!

After the ceremony, the wedding party and immediate family will be taking pictures nearby for around an hour. Guests can head straight to the reception hall, where we will be serving an appetizer and beverages.

Yes, guests may help themselves to the open bar with a selection of beer, seltzers and two signature cocktails.

We're looking forward to celebrating with you on our big day. Having you attend our wedding is the greatest gift of all. However, if you're looking for wedding gift ideas, we've registered on Amazon for things to outfit our home or you may contribute to our honeymoon fund. Please visit the registry link on our website for more details.