When will invitations go out and when is the RSVP due?
Invitations should hit mailboxes by mid-April. We ask that you RSVP by May 21st (the sooner, the better).
How will I RSVP?
The old fashioned way- by mail. An RSVP card will be included with your invitation with an addressed envelope and stamp ready for you to put in the mailbox!
What is the dress code?
Black tie optional. Bridesmaids will be in full length dresses and groomsmen will be in suits for reference.
Can I bring my children and/or a plus one?
Anyone may come to the church for the Nuptial Mass; however, only those named inside your invitation may come to the reception. Thank you for understanding!
How long is Mass?
It will be about an hour. You will have time to reenergize for the reception which begins at 5:30pm. After the Mass, take a nap, grab some lunch, redo your makeup, explore OU's campus, or Norman, and we'll see you for cocktail hour, dinner and dancing!
Why is there a big break between the Mass and the Reception?
Catholic Wedding Masses need to be earlier in the day on Saturdays as weekend Masses and other Sacraments for the parish take place starting at 3pm.
How is parking at the church and the reception venue?
Both will have plenty of parking options available.
Is your wedding indoor or outdoor?
The church is all indoor. The reception venue is indoor and outdoor.
What is the weather like in Oklahoma in June?
We'll leave it to John to give us a forecast wedding week and the day before, but it can be, and usually is hot. Tornado/storm season is typically over and the average, historical weather in June is 87 degrees.
Where do I fly into?
Will Rogers in OKC. Click on "Travel" for more details!
Where should I stay? Do you have a hotel block?
Yes, we have a hotel block, but there are plenty of other recommendations on the "Travel" page!
I'm coming in from out of town. Will you have anything for us on Friday night?
All guests traveling from outside of Oklahoma will be invited to a Welcome Reception on Friday, June 6. Further details will be provided upon receiving a "yes" RSVP.