Philbrook Museum of Art

Wedding Day

Ceremony

Reception

Our Wedding

We met on Hinge in 2022, drawn together by shared curiosity and a spark that came to life in our very first conversation. Music was the bridge—our early talks filled with favorite artists, songs, and playlists that let us glimpse each other’s hearts. But it didn’t take long to see that what we were building went far beyond any shared taste.Our first date at Mandarin Taste sealed the feeling. Between bites of orange chicken and soft laughter, something clicked. It wasn’t just easy—it was grounding. We left that evening feeling like something had begun, something quiet and real.Over time, we grew closer through everyday moments and unexpected milestones. From spontaneous weekend outings to comforting each other through late-night worries, the thread between us only strengthened. One of the most beautiful parts of our journey was finding out how deeply we could rely on each other—through the good, the hard, and everything in between.Somewhere along the way, we both realized: this person feels like home. Not just safe or familiar—but the kind of home where you can fully be yourself and be loved for it. Then came the moment we’ll always cherish: a proposal surrounded by the timeless charm of the Philbrook Museum of Art . Surrounded by art, nature, and a sense of serenity, we promised forever.Now, we’re here—celebrating the beginning of our forever. We feel so lucky to have found something so true, and we can’t wait to continue writing this love story together.

Our Story 

Photos

From concert selfies to bottomless brunches and mimosa-fueled heart-to-hearts, Emily and Victoria have been inseparable besties for years. Victoria has been there for every high note and low moment—and now she’s standing proudly beside her best friend for the biggest celebration of all.

Victoria Holder 

Whether they were leveling up in life or in-game, they’ve always had each other’s backs. Now, after years of side quests and boss battles, Matt is honored to stand beside his best friend as he embarks on the ultimate adventure: marriage.


Matthew Cundiff

Wedding Party

We aren’t reserving a formal hotel block, but we’ve gathered a list of lovely hotels close to the venue to make your stay safe and comfortable. You’ll find our recommended options below—feel free to choose the spot that fits your style and schedule.

Located next to Tulsa Performing Arts Center, Hyatt Regency Tulsa welcomes guests with an outdoor pool and a fitness center. Free shuttle services and a business center are available. All rooms have free WiFi and a flat-screen TV with cable channels. A fridge, coffee maker and hairdryer are provided. Guests can enjoy a meal in the on-site Daily Grill Restaurant &amp; Bar serving dishes of American cuisine. Daily Grill Lounge and Topeca Coffee offer a variety or drinks. Tulsa Theater is within a 5-minute walk of Hyatt Regency Tulsa, while Tulsa Convention Center is 1969 feet from the property. Tulsa International Airport is 6.2 mi away. Approximately 10 minutes (3.1 Miles) from the Philbrook Museum of Art.

Hyatt Regency Tulsa Downtown

Connected to the Tulsa Convention Center and providing free shuttles to Tulsa International Airport, this hotel features an on-site restaurant and lounge along with modern in-room amenities. With a free warm cookie at check-in, free high-speed internet access and in-room MP3 compatible radios, every stay at the Doubletree Hotel Tulsa-Downtown is sure to be enjoyable. Approximately 10 minutes (3.1 Miles) from the Philbrook Museum of Art.

DoubleTree by Hilton Tulsa Downtown

Conveniently located in the center of Tulsa, Courtyard by Marriott Tulsa Downtown provides 4-star accommodations close to Tulsa Performing Arts Center and Brady Theater. Featuring a 24-hour front desk, this property also provides guests with a restaurant. Free WiFi is available and private parking can be arranged at an extra charge. Guest rooms in the hotel are equipped with a coffee machine. All guest rooms will provide guests with a fridge. Oklahoma State University is 1.2 miles from Courtyard by Marriott Tulsa Downtown, while Hurricane Soccer &amp; Track Stadium is 2.3 miles away. Tulsa International Airport is 7.5 miles from the property. Approximately 9 minutes (2.9 miles) from Philbrook Museum of Art.

Courtyard by Marriott Tulsa Downtown

Attractively set in the center of Tulsa, Hyatt Place Tulsa/Downtown has air-conditioned rooms, a fitness center, free WiFi and a shared lounge. This 3-star hotel offers a 24-hour front desk and an ATM. Guests can enjoy American dishes at the restaurant or have a drink at the bar. The rooms at the hotel come with a seating area, a flat-screen TV with cable channels and a private bathroom with free toiletries and a bath or shower. All rooms will provide guests with a fridge. Guests at Hyatt Place Tulsa/Downtown can enjoy a buffet or an American breakfast. There's an in-house snack bar and guests can also use the business area. Popular points of interest near the accommodation include Tulsa Performing Arts Center, Brady Theater and Oklahoma State University. Tulsa International Airport is 7.5 miles from the property.

Hyatt Place Tulsa Downtown

Free Wi-Fi and an on-site restaurant are featured at the Aloft Tulsa Downtown. The BOK Center is less than a 5-minute walk away. The elegantly furnished rooms at Tulsa Downtown Aloft provide cable TV and a refrigerator. Free toiletries and a hairdryer are included. After exercising in the fitness center, you can cool off in the outdoor swimming pool. The University of Tulsa is 2.5 miles from the hotel. Tulsa State Fair is a 10-minute drive away.

Aloft Tulsa Downtown

Featuring free WiFi throughout the property and free breakfast, La Quinta Inn &amp; Suites by Wyndham Tulsa Downtown - Route 66 offers pet-friendly accommodations in Tulsa, within a 5-minute walk of Tulsa Convention Center. Each room is equipped with a flat-screen TV. Some rooms have a seating area with a sofa for your convenience. You will find a coffee maker, microwave and refrigerator in the room. The bathroom is fitted with a hairdryer. You will find a 24-hour front desk, fitness center and business center at the property. Tulsa Performing Arts Center is 0.6 mi from La Quinta Inn &amp; Suites by Wyndham Tulsa Downtown - Route 66, while Tulsa Airport is 6.8 mi away. University of Tulsa is within a 10-minute drive.

La Quinta Inn & Suites by Wyndham Tulsa Downtown/Route 66

Travel

If you’re making a weekend out of the celebration, Tulsa has plenty to explore while you’re here. Below is a list of the couples' favorite places in Tulsa!

This is a fantastic place to walk and explore! It is not far from the Philbrook area, only 6 minutes (1.8 miles) from the Philbrook. There is a small coffee shop in the main building and a Koi pond just outside the main building. This is also right along the city's Riverside trails.

Gathering Place

This one is a bit further from the general Philbrook area; it is a 25 minute drive from the Philbrook. (10.5 miles) It is included in the list because it is the restaurant where we had our first date! We still go on anniversaries or anytime we are in the area!

Mandarin Taste

Shop at Tulsa Premium Outlets. This shopping center is 21 minutes (9.4 miles) from Philbrook Museum of Art.

Tulsa Premium Outlets

Shop at Oklahoma's largest used book store! Only 12 minutes (7.1 miles) from Philbrook Museum of Art!

Gardner's Used Books & Comics

Cherry Street area is only a 7 minute drive (1.9 miles) from the Philbrook and has plenty of food and shopping! Check out the website to see all Cherry Street has to offer! The address listed will take you to NOLA's, one of our favorite places to eat on Cherry Street!

Cherry Street Tulsa 

Utica Square is also close to the Philbrook area with plenty of food, beverage, and shopping options.

Utica Square

You will see this the day of the wedding! We will not have access to all galleries or art during the wedding and encourage you to go back and explore all the Philbrook has to offer! We got engaged at the Philbrook and have spent every anniversary celebration there. It holds a special place in our hearts!

Emily & Jesse

Emily & Jesse

Dress Code

FORMAL