If you know me, you’ve heard her name a million times — because Alyssa has been so much more than just a friend. We met outside a random college dorm, and somehow that chance moment turned into one of the most important relationships of my life. Alyssa is the person who shows up before you even think to ask, the one who laughs loudest at my jokes, and the one my child proudly calls their aunt — because she’s been family from the start. She’s my steady, my safe place, my hype woman, and the person I can lean on for absolutely anything.

Joe has a lot of people in his corner, but his little brother Nate has always held a special spot. Growing up, Joe didn’t just want a sidekick, but he got one in Nate anyways. Every big moment, every milestone, every “look what I can do”. Watching Nate grow into the man he is now has been one of Joe’s greatest joys and having him stand beside him on his wedding day means more than words can explain.

She started out as my boss, and honestly, I’m still not sure how she went from “signing my timesheets” to “one of my favorite humans.” Now we’re the kind of friends who can craft for hours, gossip like it’s a sport, and fuel it all with coffee… or, let’s be real, a few too many vodka Red Bulls. She shows up *every* time — no questions, no judgment, just pure loyalty and chaotic support. There’s no one I’d rather have beside me while we dance, cry, and probably spill something on our dresses.

Ethan and Joe have been bros since middle school — surviving questionable haircuts and enough dumb ideas to fill a small army. Through the years, he’s been the guy who’s always down for a laugh, a beer, or roasting Joe mercilessly. Loud, proud, and fiercely loyal, Ethan is the ultimate groomsman and the perfect wingman for this big day.

Let’s give it up for Uncle Brad the friend who seamlessly slid into every phase of life with us like she was born to be part of it. From navigating all those wild post-college transitions to literally shacking up with Joe and me after our son was born (because why not add another roommate to the chaos?), she’s been the steady presence who can fix a leaking sink one minute and turn the living room into a rave the next. Nicknamed "Uncle Brad" for her perfect mix of responsible dad energy — the one who just knows how to handle life — and that unstoppable frat boy spirit that kicks in once the party starts, she's the best kind of unpredictable: always fun, always loyal, and always ready to show up when it matters.

Andrew and Joe grew up like two peas in a slightly ridiculous pod. Basically, Andrew taught Joe everything he knows about being funny and a little over the top from wild antics in the backyard to legendary family gatherings. Loud, fearless, and always ready to steal the spotlight (and sometimes the snacks), Andrew has been turning ordinary moments into chaos and laughs for as long as Joe can remember. There’s no one better to stand by him on this big day.

Watch out or she might citizen's arrest you at my wedding. Hannah and I met through work and mutual friends who quickly became so much more. What started as casual hangouts turned into one of the most reliable, laughter-filled friendships I’ve ever had. She’s the person I can always count on—for the jokes, the chaos, the real talks, and everything in between. And honestly? One of my favorite things about her is that she is *always* down to go to bed early. Laziness is our specialty, and it might just be the foundation of our entire friendship. I’m so grateful life brought her into mine, and even more grateful to have her standing beside me today.

Rian and Joe go way back they were neighbors and met all the way back in preschool! From living right across from each other to navigating the chaos of college life as roommates, their friendship has stood the test of time. Rian isn’t just a lifelong friend; he’s been a part of every chapter of Joe’s life, and we couldn’t be more excited to have him standing by his side on the big day.

Anna is someone who came into my life and somehow became a best friend almost instantly. One of those rare people who doesn’t need years to prove they’re here to stay they just show up. And show up she did. She’s seen me at my lowest, walked beside me through the hardest moments, and never once thought about leaving. And as if our bond wasn’t already special enough, life decided to tie us together forever in the most incredible way, we both welcomed baby boys on the very same day one year apart from one another. Our sons now share a birthday, and because of that, our lives are connected in a way that feels nothing short of fate. She is strength, loyalty, and unconditional love wrapped into one amazing human. I’m endlessly grateful for her friendship, her heart, and the fact that no matter how messy life got, she stayed.

Mike has shown up for Joe through all of life’s changes someone who, no matter what, has stood by him and made a real effort to be a part of his life. From the everyday moments to the big milestones, he’s been a constant friend and support. We’re so thrilled to have him standing by Joe’s side on the big day, celebrating this next chapter together.

Danielle technically entered my life as my significant other’s best friend’s girlfriend but within about five minutes, she was clearly meant to be my best friend. We connected instantly, the kind of connection where you just get each other and suddenly you’re talking every single day like it’s been that way forever. Now, we don’t go a day or so without texting, calling, sending voice memos, or sharing something absolutely unnecessary but very important. At some point along the way, she leveled up from best friend to family by becoming the godmother of my beautiful son a role she absolutely owns and fills with so much love. She shows up, she supports, and she brings laughter into everything she touches. She came into my life because of someone else, but I truly can’t imagine my world without her in it now.

Before Austin started out as Joe’s boss, Joe actually trained him. Over time became one of his good friends and a partner in the kind of humor that only comes from saying you “met fighting children.” His sense of humor is absolutely hilarious, and being around him always guarantees laughs. From being invited to share in Austin’s special day to now having him be part of ours, we couldn’t be more excited to have him standing with Joe on the big day!

Sabby is someone who has been one of my closest friends since high school the kind of friendship that’s seen every phase, every version, and somehow only gotten stronger. She was my college roommate, my partner in crime, and the person who never needed to be asked twice to join me on the dance floor. She brings heart into everything she does. She loves deeply, shows up fully, and has a way of making the people around her feel truly seen. Through every chapter of life, she’s been there cheering me on, laughing with me, and standing beside me no matter what. She holds a place in my heart that time could never touch. No matter how many years pass or where life takes us, she will always be someone incredibly special to me.

Joe met Christian back in their fraternity days, where their friendship was built on late nights, questionable decisions, and stories that definitely get better with time. After college, they somehow decided they hadn’t had enough of each other and ended up working together too because why not keep the chaos going? Between surviving frat house and handling some wild moments on the job (including dealing with more than their fair share of rowdy juveniles), these two have been through it all.

Keeks is someone who has been one of my closest friends since high school the kind of friendship that’s grown with every stage of life. She was my college roommate, my post-college roommate, and my absolute partner in crime through it all. She’s one of the most heartfelt people I know, but also the one who can crack the best jokes at exactly the right moment. She has a way of making everyone laugh, even during the chaos, and somehow always knows how to lighten the mood when it’s needed most. She helped me navigate life after college, the messy in-between years, and turned even the wild moments into some of my favorite memories. No matter how much time passes or where life takes us, she will always hold an incredibly special place in my heart.

Joe met Gonzo during his fraternity days, and like most great friendships, theirs was built on a mix of chaos, questionable decisions, and stories that probably shouldn’t be retold in full. From wild college nights to unforgettable moments that somehow only they could survive, the two have been through it all together. These days, things have (somewhat) matured trading in late nights for early tee times and bonding over rounds of golf instead. Don’t be fooled though, the competitive spirit is still very much alive, and things can get just as intense on the course as they once did at the frat house.

Joe and Logan become quite the duo when together.. in all the best ways. From the chaos of college to real life, their friendship has only gotten stronger (and somehow, just as entertaining). During the height of COVID, the two took their bond to the next level as roommates spending just about every single day together finding creative (and sometimes questionable) ways to pass the time. Whether it was boredom-induced antics or just surviving the madness of the world, they made it through side by side.

Having Jill, my future sister-in-law, be a part of my wedding day feels so incredibly special. From the second I joined their family, she’s brought nothing but love, laughter, and support. I can’t wait to have her by my side during this exciting time, sharing in all the memories, smiles, and joy that this day will bring.

Joe and Bert go way back to their fraternity days, where most of their best stories are equal parts legendary and slightly questionable. From the start, the two bonded over their shared love of late-night WWE, which usually turns into them getting way too invested and just a little too rowdy. Whenever they’re together, things tend to spiral into absolute chaos in the best way possible. Between nonstop laughs, inside jokes, and energy that somehow keeps escalating, it’s safe to say things get a little (okay, a lot) silly. Through all the wild nights and unforgettable memories, Bert has been a loyal friend and one of Joe’s favorite people to let loose with and he wouldn’t have it any other way.

What started as a work friendship quickly turned into so much more when Grace became my unofficial sidekick and before long, someone I shared an unspoken, hard-to-define bond with. Somewhere between the chaos of the workday, we realized we were spending more time laughing than actually working. Whether we’re talking each other off the ledge or hyping each other up, it’s hard to say who’s more empathetic we just get each other. Through every high, low, and completely ridiculous moment in between, Grace has been my constant, my comic relief, and one of the most important people in my life.