Emily & Thomas

October 24, 2024 • Rye, NY, USA

Emily & Thomas

October 24, 2024 • Rye, NY, USA

Q + A

WHEN IS THE RSVP DEADLINE?

Please RSVP by Tuesday, September 24th 2024. Providing your RSVP on time will ensure we have an accurate headcount for the wedding venue.

CAN I BRING A GUEST/DATE?

Your invitation will be made out to "[Your Name] and Guest" if a plus one has been given to you. We, unfortunately, cannot accommodate additional guests.

IS THERE A SHUTTLE TO/FROM THE HOTEL?

Yes! A shuttle bus will be available at the hotel between 4-4:45PM the day of the wedding to bring guests from the hotel to the wedding venue. The shuttles will also be available to bring guests back to the hotel after the reception is complete.

WHERE CAN WE STAY?

Please check the travel tab for the discounted room block accommodations available for our guests, which will also have a shuttle available to the venue/back for the night of the Wedding. Be sure to book accommodations in advance to avoid the hotel being booked up!

ARE KIDS INVITED?

We love your kids and they have a special place in our hearts! For this day though, it will be an adults only event with a few exceptions for our flower girls. We hope our guests that are parents can enjoy "parents-night-out" celebrating with us on the dance floor!

WHEN CAN WE ARRIVE FOR THE CEREMONY?

Guests are asked to please arrive at least 15 minutes prior to the ceremony starting, and no earlier than one hour before, to accommodate the bride and groom taking photos with their families prior to the start of the ceremony.

CAN WE TAKE PICTURES THROUGH THE CEREMONY?

We will be having an unplugged ceremony, which means all cellphones and cameras must be off and put away for the duration of the ceremony. We have hired incredible professionals to take photos and videos and we trust them to capture the special moments. However, please take as many pictures as you would like at the reception!

WHAT IS THE DRESS CODE?

This will be a semi-formal affair, so we invite you to dress-up with us! Please wear whatever makes you feel your best! Please no white dresses.

WILL THERE BE AN OPEN BAR?

HECK YES! No need to sneak anything in your purses ;)

WILL THERE BE AN AFTER-PARTY?

Yes! We will have the bar at the hotel reserved for our guests to continue to celebrate and enjoy the night. It is still TBD if this will be a cash-bar or open-bar style reservation.

DO YOU HAVE A GIFT REGISTRY?

Your presence at our wedding, and joining us for our special day, is already such a gift in itself. If you do wish to honor us with a gift, we have shared our registry under the "registry" tab on the website! We truly appreciate anything that will help us continue to build our lives and memories together!

WHAT WILL HAPPEN IF I DON'T RSVP IN TIME?

If we do not receive your RSVP by the date indicated above and on the invitation, it will be marked as a "No." We will miss you celebrating with us, however, we have to provide a total guest count to the venue & vendors in the timely manner they have given us. Thank you for understanding!

I HAVE MORE QUESTIONS! WHO DO I CONTACT?

Please contact Emily Deter for any additional questions you may have!