Guru Nanak Sat Sangat of California

Gurdwara Wedding Ceremony

CANYON VIEW EVENT CENTER

Wedding Ceremony & Reception

Summer

Our Wedding

Emily and Manpreet’s love story is a tale as old as time - they matched on Hinge. Manpreet had recently relocated to Portland for work, and Emily had recently started gamifying the dating process with her friends to keep from writing off the apps entirely.

On December 12, 2022, they met for their first dinner date. Emily proactively paid for her meal, and Manpreet assumed this meant he had made a bad first impression. In reality, she liked him a lot and was just setting the stage for a relationship that would defy traditional gender roles.

Their first date led to several more, and they started introducing each other to their friends. The more they learned about each other and the important people in their lives, the more everything seemed to click.

On February 4, 2023, Manpreet officially became Emily's first boyfriend. Their love grew while they navigated periods of long distance as Manpreet's job and family needed him back in the Bay. The couple's bond was never in question, but the logistics of having strong ties in two different states weighed heavily on their minds.

On September 20, 2023, after both had spent months clearly being in love while waiting for the other person to say it first, Manpreet finally said “I love you”. Actually, his exact words were, "Okayyy, you win. I do love you." She said it back, and they agreed that really, they'd both won. And that maybe they were both a bit petty and competitive.

The couple knew they wanted to build a future together and started working on a concrete plan. It became clear that Manpreet would need to move back to the Bay. Early in their relationship, Emily had half-joked that, "You can't just move here and find a souvenir person to bring back with you." As it turns out, he absolutely could.

Emily knew she would rather be in California with Manpreet than in Portland without him. Manpreet was willing to delay his move to make sure their relationship had a strong foundation first. In January of 2024, they moved in together in Portland. The next year confirmed everything they needed to know about how they would navigate life together.

Don't worry - during that year, Emily made sure Manpreet would understand her niche references by having him watch every single episode of "It's Always Sunny in Philadelphia" with her. Manpreet returned the favor by introducing her to all of "Attack on Titan".

On February 5, 2025, during their anniversary trip to Cancun, Manpreet proposed! Emily said yes, and they finally arranged their move to California.

Emily and Manpreet have been living in San Ramon for the past year while planning their wedding. They both transferred to great job opportunities and Emily has enjoyed getting to know Manpreet's friends enough to call them her own. Their dog Mac takes full advantage of the California weather in his new yard. This new chapter of life has been rewarding, and they look forward to celebrating their upcoming wedding with their closest friends and family!

Our Story

"I'm Kaci, and I've known Emily since high school. Right away, I remember thinking, 'this is a friend for me'. Over the years, our friendship has stayed consistent through different seasons of life, from quick visits and sleepovers in Portland, double dates where I first met Manpreet, karaoke in her car, and phone calls in between. We've traveled to Ecuador, gone on annual girls' trips, and through it all she's remained one of the most special people in my life. Cheers to many more memories, and Manpreet, I guess you can join too!"

Kaci Crook

“'Wow—you have really white feet!' were my first words to Emily as we sat in band class our junior year of high school. If that’s not the perfect pick-up line to start a friendship, I don’t know what is. From band and choir days to her first plane ride, long late-night phone calls, and even a trip to Hawaii, we’ve been through a little bit of everything together. While her pale feet may have sparked our connection, it’s her loyalty, wit, and endlessly caring nature that make her a cherished lifelong friend. I’m so grateful to stand by her side on such a special day."

Lindsay Seibel

"I'm one of Emily's sisters, and I've been ready for her to marry Manpreet since they first started dating over three years ago! I've never seen her happier, and my only complaint is that he converted her to Californianism. Looking forward to the wedding and to officially welcoming Manpreet into the family!

Kaitlyn Vyhmeister

"As one of the older sisters of the bride, I've known her since she was a bun in the oven. I would say we've grown from the typical childhood loving/fighting relationship to an adult friendship that I truly enjoy. I'm so excited for her in this new phase of life, and to celebrate with you all!"

Sarah Lazoff

"Manpreet and I met in 2015 on the basketball courts of Chico State where every day was a battle for survival. It was here that Manpreet rolled his ankle numerous times from my hard fouls rendering us both unable to jump when playing basketball today.
Aside from surviving college together, our friendship developed over shared interests of comedy, anime and rooting for mediocre sports teams. At the wedding, you can find me tearing up the dance floor while most likely tearing my ACLs."

Joseph Oliveri

"I met Manpreet when I was 15, so if you math - that's 17 years of friendship!! (Goodluck beating that Emily lol) Love you brotha and always here for you guys!"

Stefan Magdelino

"I first met Manpreet when he walked into my lab for the first time and I thought 'here we go, another overconfident person to train,' but he actually turned out to be pretty bright and funny to boot. Eventually we started to roast each other and that's when we really bonded. I asked him to be a groomsman for my wedding, and now here I am being a groomsman for him."

Carlo Bilbao

"Manpreet has been a great friend for 6 years and honestly, I'm glad we met when we did - any later and he probably would've forgotten my name due to the natural effects of his advanced age. In all seriousness, Manpreet really is that 'ball of sunshine.' Whether we're dealing with a stressful shift at work or just hanging out, he has this way of making everything feel manageable. He's the most reliable person I know."

Oscar Medrano

"I met Manpreet in the most 2020 way possible - online, playing NBA2k for hours way later than we should have. My older brother Patient connected us while he was in California and I lived in Ohio, and a random gaming connection turned into a real friendship I'm very grateful to have. When we finally met in person later that year, I learned he somehow plays basketball exactly like he plays 2k - questionable shot selection and all... "

Gus Mwamba

Wedding Party

Photos

Q + A

FOR FRIDAY'S GURDWARA CEREMONY:

Men: formal traditional (American) suits are appropriate. Head coverings are expected and can be provided by the Gurdwara (a large handkerchief or cloth can be used, hats are not acceptable).Women: Wearing American clothing styles may be appropriate if adhering to strict modesty guidelines, including:- A long dress extending past the knees- Leggings underneath the dress covering the ankles- Modest neckline, short or long sleeves- Head scarf- Socks or bare feet (there will be an area for storing shoes)- Please avoid wearing all black/white outfits as that is typically worn for funerals/mourning.For traditional wear links (right click and open in new tab):<a href="https://www.amazon.com/FASHION-FRONTIER-Beautiful-Chinnon-Punjabi/dp/B0DYYHZFWK/ref=sr_1_8?crid=TIUU9FFMU7XH&amp;dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.nZnUfxcjFZXXat4lhDo6DooYSxd6vPg_BmYlLcqEXXUG59XxYtsWcQsa4sPXCUpzNmlX_KenjRkIplN5yoyGynBmQ0rrE5kiZk8xz1eIWKrkkDN_COc-d9iFwC0L605y82KgXItBJzyB2oV_fiEhYbnms6w4xjjMxKbnSEtV92_Ug3OuyYmbxN60EsA_bkg693VvAPrHKg-iUIXfz7PM1kNoSfcsOGXVcIswXgEkWgXVTfdt9JBSmpQexFenMs0ny9E5Aa2uLTUHwO5LJrEzRAOdbZO984IPMVxPB_F0-iU.fj3US_rkHk5nDidyX9lHOKtKBqcrwtAKW1ZxFlxNXCg&amp;dib_tag=se&amp;keywords=punjabi%2Bwomen%2Bsuits&amp;qid=1770006168&amp;sprefix=punjabi%2Bwomen%2Bsuit%2Caps%2C291&amp;sr=8-8&amp;th=1&amp;psc=1" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Punjabi Style Sharara Suit For Women</a><a href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0FJ64SP5V/ref=sspa_dk_detail_0?psc=1&amp;pd_rd_i=B0FJ64SP5V&amp;pd_rd_w=R8OLe&amp;content-id=amzn1.sym.953c7d66-4120-4d22-a777-f19dbfa69309&amp;pf_rd_p=953c7d66-4120-4d22-a777-f19dbfa69309&amp;pf_rd_r=KSQN9TEMBWFWDFA9TWBZ&amp;pd_rd_wg=yFmzB&amp;pd_rd_r=dd922282-37bf-4470-ad30-ae61f227c31b&amp;sp_csd=d2lkZ2V0TmFtZT1zcF9kZXRhaWwy" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Women's Chinon Silk Sequence With Rivet Moti Work Straight Kurta With Sharara and Dupatta Set</a>

FOR SUNDAY'S CEREMONY:

Formal or Cocktail Wedding Attire (Indian suits/sarees are also welcome).

Dress Code

Sacramento Hotels (near Friday's Gurdwara)

Located 1.7 miles from the Gurdwara

Fairfield by Marriott Inn & Suites Sacramento Elk Grove

Located 5.1 miles from the Gurdwara

Hilton Garden Inn Sacramento Elk Grove

Located 8.1 miles from the Gurdwara

Hampton Inn & Suites Sacramento-Elk Grove Laguna I-5

San Ramon Hotels (near Sunday's event center)

Featuring 3-star accommodations, Residence Inn San Ramon is located in San Ramon, 1 mile from Canyon View Event Center. The hotel features an outdoor swimming pool and free WiFi. Certain rooms will provide you with a kitchen with a fridge, a dishwasher and a microwave. Guests at the hotel can enjoy an American breakfast.

Residence Inn By Marriott San Ramon

San Ramon Marriott is nestled among the California Redwoods in Bishop Ranch. The hotel is located 26 miles from Oakland Airport and 1.7 miles away from Canyon View Event Center. Each spacious air-conditioned room at San Ramon Marriott offers a flat-screen cable TV, a coffee machine and custom bath products. Guest can enjoy dining on property at Bishop Grill, which features local ingredients and a large selection of craft beers and regional wines. Happy Hour and live entertainment are available on select week days. Guests can swim in the heated swimming pool or workout in the fitness center at the hotel. San Ramon Marriott is within walking distance to nearby restaurants and shops at Bishop Ranch.

Marriott San Ramon

Offering a hot tub and fitness center, Hyatt House San Ramon is located 3 miles from Canyon View Event Center. The hotel has a year-round outdoor pool and barbecue, and guests can enjoy a meal at the restaurant. Every updated room at this hotel is air conditioned and is fitted with a flat-screen TV. Each suite is equipped with a kitchen. Every room comes with a private bathroom fitted with a bath or shower. For your comfort, you will find free toiletries and a hairdryer. Hyatt House San Ramon features free WiFi throughout the property. There is a 24-hour front desk at the property.

HYATT house San Ramon

Sonesta Select San Ramon features a seasonal outdoor swimming pool, fitness center, a shared lounge and restaurant in San Ramon. This 3-star hotel offers a bar. The property is non-smoking throughout and is located 2 miles from Canyon View Event Center. At the hotel, every room comes with a balcony. All guest rooms will provide guests with a fridge. Guests at Sonesta Select San Ramon can enjoy a continental breakfast. The accommodation has a sun terrace.

Emily & Manpreet