When can I begin RSVPing?
RSVP page will open on March 28, 2026!
When is the RSVP deadline?
Please return your RSVP by May 1st, 2026. Any RSVPs after this date will not be guaranteed into our guest count.
How do I RSVP?
Please RSVP directly onto the website!
Are my children welcome at the wedding or reception?
No, the Ceremony, the Cocktail Hour and the Reception are adult only affairs- strictly 18 and over. To keep these events focused on Erin and Isaac, please leave your children at home. No childcare will be provided.
What should I wear?
We would love you to look your best for all the amazing pictures we get of you on our day.
The dress code is semi formal! For women, this means floor or knee length dresses or a dressy jumpsuit, and for men this means a suit, or button down shirt with slacks. Please stay away from white.
Additionally, please consider bringing a sweater or wrap to the ceremony if your outfit shows your shoulders or chest.
Please, no white.
Can I have a plus one?
There is limited space at the wedding and reception. If you have a plus one accounted for, you will see so on your invitation.
Where is the wedding ceremony?
The wedding ceremony will be at 1pm at Blessed Sacrament Catholic Church in Graham, NC. 1620 Hanford Rd, Graham, NC 27253. It is about 20 minutes from the hotel.
What do I need to know about attending a Catholic wedding?
Thanks for your question. If you are not Catholic- not to worry, we want you to come to the ceremony!
The ceremony will be a Catholic Mass, which should last between 45 minutes to an hour. You will see some parts of a wedding you normally see- like vows and a first kiss. But you'll also see things unlike a normal wedding ceremony, like the Eucharist.
If you are a baptized Catholic, you will be welcome to participate in the mass and Eucharist as normal. If not, you can remain respectfully sitting as the participants kneel or stand. Please remain in your seat as the Eucharist is distributed (people will get up our of their seats and move to the front of the church).
Feel free to read more here: https://www.weddingwire.com/wedding-ideas/catholic-wedding-ceremony
Where is the reception?
We are so excited to host our reception at the Barn of Chapel Hill, at Wild Flora Farm. 7316 Morrow Mill Rd, Chapel Hill, NC 27516. The Barn is originally from Bridgeport, NY- and was disassembled and reassembled in Chapel Hill. It is on site of a working flower farm (where we will get all of our florals from as well!), so be prepared to see beautiful flowers on site!
Will there be transportation from the venue?
Unfortunately there will be no transportation provided to or from the venue. Because of its rural nature, it is very unlikely you will be able to get a cab, Lyft, Uber, or other rides are (whether scheduled or not). Please ensure you have a safe ride home planned before you get to the venue!
The follwoing companies have been used before at the Barn of Chapel Hill to pre-arrange transportation for guests. Reach out to one of them if you would like to arrange transportation for yourself and/or your party to get home after the reception ends at 10pm.
Carolina Car Service - 919-951-8357
Carolina Sedan - booking@carolinasedan.com (919) 924-0568
Townie Chauffeur and Shuttle LLC (800) 919-3361
Chapel Hill Taxi (919) 933-9595
Can I park at the church and venue?
Yes! There is ample parking at both locations. It is unlikely you'll be able to get an Uber, Lyft, or other rideshare from the venue to your hotel, so we do not recommend taking one to get there.
Is your wedding ADA accessible?
Yes! Both the Church and the Venue have locations where drop off can occur for guests using walkers, crutches, or wheelchairs. There are NO stairs!
Is it indoor or outdoor?
If you've ever met Isaac and Erin, you know that they much prefer an indoor space...
Only cocktail hour will be exclusively outside, and that will be under a covered porch with fans. Everything else will be inside with air conditioning!
I'm traveling from out of state, how should I get there?
We're honored you want to come in from out of state! We suggest you fly in to either Greensboro (GSO) or Raleigh (RDU), as those will be the closest airports. You will need a rental car, and there are multiple options at both airports!
For more information, please visit our Travel tab.
Where are you registered?
We are registered at the Knot, Amazon, Etsy, Anthropologie, and Crate and Barrel!