Halie & Mark

August 9, 2025 • Duluth, Minnesota
85 Days To Go!

Halie & Mark

August 9, 2025 • Duluth, Minnesota
85 Days To Go!

If You Ask Mark

The first time I met Halie was at a leadership game night where Halie told me I looked like "Glasses" from Grey's Anatomy. And that was really the whole interaction as Halie left before we even started the games. It was when I was organizing a team of students to attend a leadership conference in St. Louis that Halie signed up. It was not until the return trip that I had the idea to ride in the same van as her (I know, quite smooth on my part). We exchanged snapchats, then phone numbers when I proudly stated that I knew how to make a prayer board for her church youth group (I did not know such a thing). It took roughly six weeks, but it was filled with good laughs and memories. We starting hanging out daily, and then I got the nerve to FINALLY ask Halie out for our first date. It happened to be on Karli's (Halie's sister's birthday), and then on the second date, Halie's car got towed! We began officially dating (not "hanging out") in December. In March, COVID-19 sent us home to live with our parents, and it was an interesting time filled with many letters and late night FaceTimes. We moved in together after I graduated college in May 2022 while Halie was finishing her last year of nursing school. On April 2, I proposed and we got engaged! Then Halie went to Malawi for her nursing practicum for two weeks and graduated in May 2023. We moved to the Twin Cities, tried the city life, which was not for us. Then we moved to Duluth in July 2024 (much more our speed) when I got accepted to medical school! We are in a crazy busy period of our life and learning the new balances of medical school plus wedding planning, but we are so excited to get married!

If You Ask Halie

After living on campus at NDSU for approximately 20 minutes, decided to join hall government (a pretty good decision if you ask me). A couple weeks in, 2 big things happen. 1. Mark and I both attend a little get together thing, where we met for the first time and I felt it was necessary to tell Mark he looked like glasses from greys anatomy, then left like 15 minutes into the event and 2. an opportunity presents itself to go to St Louis for a big hall gov conference. Mark, who was the VP of all the hall govs, was interviewing people to go on this hall gov conference trip and I was very interested- for a few reasons ;) Flash forward to halloween and we are going to St Louis! A few days into the trip, we exchanged snapchats (classy, I know) and on the return trip home we talked most of the long van ride back. Mark happened to offer his handy man skills to help me make a prayer board for the church I was working for at the time, and when we got home, I followed up on that offer. We hung out often in the next weeks (ask Mark about the green bean casserole), went on some dates (our first date was on Karli's (my sister) birthday- oops) and started dating in December (awww). In March, covid came with its social distancing and sent us both back home to live with our parents, the dream of every new and in love couple :) We did the whole college thing for a few years, moved in together after Mark graduated in 2022. Mark gave me this big ol fancy ring in April of 2023 and then took it back while I went and did my practicum in Africa. (Don't worry, he re-proposed with the ring again when he picked me up from the airport when I got home). We moved to the cities after Halie graduated in 2023, and moved to Duluth when Mark got into Med school in 2024. Now we're navigating wedding planning whilst in medical school, wish us luck :)

Our first photo together! We went to St Louis for a Residence Hall Association conference

November 04, 2019

Our first photo together! We went to St Louis for a Residence Hall Association conference
The first day we hung out! We went to red cup day at starbucks :)

November 07, 2019

The first day we hung out! We went to red cup day at starbucks :)
Halie and Mark spent a lot of time together making this prayer board for Halie's church. (They finally finished it on January 31, 2020). Mark even accidentally met Halie's entire family when they were at Halie's parents house getting tools to build it... haha oops

November 11, 2019

Halie and Mark spent a lot of time together making this prayer board for Halie's church. (They finally finished it on January 31, 2020). Mark even accidentally met Halie's entire family when they were at Halie's parents house getting tools to build it... haha oops
The first date! (Also Halie's sisters birthday). They went to Teaberry, the state volleyball game, and then had a meeting with the group they went to St Louis with (and everyone knew the couple had just gone on their first date).

November 21, 2019

The first date! (Also Halie's sisters birthday). They went to Teaberry, the state volleyball game, and then had a meeting with the group they went to St Louis with (and everyone knew the couple had just gone on their first date).
The second date! And the one where Halie's car got towed away as they were walking out of the restaurant. Thanks to Colin for picking them up, trying to get Halie's car back, dropping Halie off and then taking Mark and fleeing the state (they were going to Florida for thanksgiving or something).

November 26, 2019

The second date! And the one where Halie's car got towed away as they were walking out of the restaurant. Thanks to Colin for picking them up, trying to get Halie's car back, dropping Halie off and then taking Mark and fleeing the state (they were going to Florida for thanksgiving or something).
Business as usual until covid sent the two of them back to their parents house. Many, many, many hours were spent on facetime doing homework together.

March 22, 2020

Business as usual until covid sent the two of them back to their parents house. Many, many, many hours were spent on facetime doing homework together.
The couple was reunited for the first time since quarantine!

May 27, 2020

The couple was reunited for the first time since quarantine!
Halie got into nursing school!

June 03, 2020

Halie got into nursing school!
One of the couples favorite photos <3 They tie dyed!

June 12, 2020

One of the couples favorite photos <3 They tie dyed!
Spent a few weekends camping and on the lake this summer!

July 19, 2020

Spent a few weekends camping and on the lake this summer!
Halie visited Mark's family and went to Marine on St Croix (Mark's hometown) for the first time!

August 05, 2020

Halie visited Mark's family and went to Marine on St Croix (Mark's hometown) for the first time!
Halie's white coat ceremony!

October 10, 2020

Halie's white coat ceremony!
2nd red cup day, recreating the first picture

November 06, 2020

2nd red cup day, recreating the first picture
Halie adopted Zella! First family photo

November 26, 2020

Halie adopted Zella! First family photo
Halie's birthday

December 19, 2020

Halie's birthday
First day of junior and senior year!

August 24, 2021

First day of junior and senior year!
Went to Las Vegas to visit Halie's Aunt Anna for spring break!

March 13, 2022

Went to Las Vegas to visit Halie's Aunt Anna for spring break!
Mark graduated from NDSU!

May 14, 2022

Mark graduated from NDSU!
Went camping in Montana!

June 19, 2022

Went camping in Montana!
Moved in together! Fargo, ND

June 25, 2022

Moved in together! Fargo, ND
Mark and Halie (and Karli) went to look at rings

February 23, 2023

Mark and Halie (and Karli) went to look at rings
Got engaged

April 02, 2023

Got engaged
Halie graduated!

May 13, 2023

Halie graduated!
Moved to Minneapolis!

June 12, 2023

Moved to Minneapolis!
Did a lot of camping, hiking, photography, and birding this summer

July 20, 2023

Did a lot of camping, hiking, photography, and birding this summer
Went to ITALY with the Delisi family

January 05, 2024

Went to ITALY with the Delisi family
Mark got into MEDICAL SCHOOL

February 17, 2024

Mark got into MEDICAL SCHOOL
Celebrated a year of being engaged

April 02, 2024

Celebrated a year of being engaged
Found a wedding dress

May 13, 2024

Found a wedding dress
Went to Chicago!

May 19, 2024

Went to Chicago!
Moved to Duluth!

July 01, 2024

Moved to Duluth!
Mark's first day of Medical School!

August 19, 2024

Mark's first day of Medical School!
Mark's white coat ceremony

August 25, 2024

Mark's white coat ceremony