Welcome to our fusion wedding! Our celebration blends South Asian (Desi) and American traditions, and many of the customs throughout the evening may be new to guests. This program is here to help you follow along and enjoy every moment.
We begin with the Nikah, the Islamic marriage ceremony, where the couple formally accepts the marriage in the presence of family and friends as witnesses. Prayers and blessings are offered for a peaceful and joyful life together.
After the ceremony, enjoy refreshments and appetizers. This is a relaxed time to mingle.
Doors open for the reception. Find your seats and get ready for the evening’s events.
Our reception blends multiple South Asian wedding traditions into a single celebration—bringing together elements of a shaadi and mehndi in one vibrant evening that we're calling Shendi
The reception kicks off with the Baraat, where the groom’s family and close friends make a lively entrance. Accompanied by traditional South Asian drummers with upbeat, parade-style rhythms, the group dances their way into the venue.
They are then warmly welcomed by the bride’s parents and family, symbolizing both households coming together in celebration.
The couple makes their entrance as newlyweds, followed by their first dance.
Guests are invited to take photos with the bride and groom. This is a lovely opportunity to congratulate the couple, share warm wishes, and capture special memories with family and friends.
A fun wedding game! In Joota Chupai (“shoe-hiding”), the bride’s side playfully steals the groom’s shoes and negotiates for their return. Expect laughter, cheering, and lighthearted bargaining.
Enjoy dinner featuring a blend of South Asian and American dishes.
The couple will cut the cake before we continue with the festivities.
Family and friends perform choreographed dances inspired by Bollywood as part of traditional South Asian wedding festivities.
You can enjoy the show or participate—many of our loved ones from around the country are creating their own choreographed Bollywood-style performances. These can be solo, with a partner, or as a group. If you’d like to take part, just let us know!
Everyone is invited to dance!
We close the evening with Ruksati, the ceremonial send-off as the couple departs and begins their new life together.