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Jess & Winter

June 12, 2026 • San Francisco, California
25 Days To Go!

Jess & Winter

June 12, 2026 • San Francisco, California
25 Days To Go!

In the Beginning

I would have liked to say our story began like many do, in college. While we both attended San Francisco State in 2016, the truth is we met like so many couples did at the time: on Tinder. I liked her green hair, she liked my noodles.

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Reel it in

One interest we quickly realized we shared was film, specifically suspense and horror. On our first date we went to see a John Carpenter double-feature at the Roxie Theater.

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And since then we've been to the theater hundreds of times. For years on end we would get as often as we could afford to, up to two or three times a week.

Picture Perfect

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Over time we each developed our own hobbies and found passions to pursue. One that I picked up early on in our relationship was photography. Naturally, I had the perfect model to practice on and Winter (not always so willingly) obliged. Many of my favorite photos from her are from our first few years together.

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The love bug meets the travel bug

As our relationship developed and we pursued our studies, we got somewhat restless of staying in San Francisco. With what little money we'd scrounged up from part-time work (and the generous standby benefits my mother got as a United Airlines employee), we spent the next few years traveling during our time off from school. Both domestically and abroad.

Barcelona, Spain

July 21, 2017

Barcelona, Spain
Portland, OR

November 26, 2017

Portland, OR
Sahuayo, Mexico

January 07, 2018

Sahuayo, Mexico
Saint George, Grenada

March 23, 2018

Saint George, Grenada
London, UK

June 29, 2018

London, UK
Tokyo, Japan

March 27, 2019

Tokyo, Japan
Verteuil-Sur-Charente, France

August 15, 2019

Verteuil-Sur-Charente, France
Seattle, WA

November 02, 2019

Seattle, WA
The grocery store

September 21, 2020

The grocery store
Vancouver, Canada

June 28, 2022

Vancouver, Canada
Back to Sahuayo, Mexico

January 08, 2023

Back to Sahuayo, Mexico
Honolulu, HI

April 12, 2024

Honolulu, HI

green hair to green thumb

A lot of us picked up new hobbies during the pandemic. For some it was knitting, or maybe collecting stamps. For winter, it was plants. It started modestly with just a few herb planters on our back porch.

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Or growing some marijuana like any good Californian should.

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But her passion steadily grew.

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And grew.

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Eventually my recent experience with video production from journalism school and winter's passion for botany came together in the form of our short-lived youtube series: PJ Plant Talk. Every episode, Winter would don a new pair of pyjamas and share plant tips, recommendations, and tutorials.

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Animal Farm

Winter and I love her plants, but we had so much more love to give. As long as we've been together we've shared a passion for caring for animals. It started small when we lived in my mom's garage, literally.

Bonny, Bucky & Smokey

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Eventually we yearned for something a little scalier.

Cheddar

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Eden

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But what Winter always wanted was a proper animal companion, someone she could play with, care for, live with. Soon after we moved into our own apartment, that's when she adopted

Arlo

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Arlo loves going to the park, meeting new people, and is even gentle enough to let Winter constantly dress him up.

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We recently moved again, and a little more living space meant we had room for one last member of the family.

Frida

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Frida is more cautious than Arlo, always weary of new people, but much clingier. She can't stand to be away from either of us for too long.

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Our biggest fear was always that Arlo would feel threatened by Frida or that they wouldn't get along, but after three days they became lifelong friends.

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Gotta Catch 'Em All

Winter's love for animals crosses from the real into the fictitious with her love for Pokemon.

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What started as a childhood fascination with the series has followed her throughout her life, most recently through her participation in the Pokemon Regional Championships, which we've attended four of in the last year.

Sacramento, CA

November 22, 2024

Sacramento, CA
San Antonio, TX

January 24, 2025

San Antonio, TX
Pittsburgh, PA

September 19, 2025

Pittsburgh, PA
Las Vegas, NV

November 15, 2025

Las Vegas, NV

The long and winding road

As this special day in both our lives approaches and we look back at the memories we've shared, the life we've built and the bonds we've made with one another, all that's left is to look ahead to the next ten years together. And the next ten after that. And the next ten after that.

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I LOVE YOU