Straus Home Ranch

Wedding Celebration

Arrival, Parking, Welcome

Welcome Reception and Procession to Ceremony Site

Ceremony

Cocktail Mingle

Dinner Reception

Dancing, music, cocktails

Summer

Our Wedding

Frequently Asked Questions

Q + A

Flights and Airports

Flights to San Francisco International, Oakland International, or Santa Rosa airports are convenient within a 90-minute drive of the wedding venue.

Reaching the Ranch can be a bit tricky. Parking is limited, so we kindly encourage guests to carpool with two or more people per vehicle whenever possible. Please note that the surrounding roads are narrow, winding country lanes. Your safety is our top priority—drive slowly and responsibly.

Lodging

Lodging in the area surrounding our venue can get expensive, and early booking is strongly suggested. If you have questions on where to stay please don't hesitate to reach out.

There are a handful of vacation rentals / B&amp;Bs and lodging within 5-10 minute walking distance of our ranch; a number within 5-10 minutes drive and even more in Point Reyes Station, Inverness and Petaluma (20-30 minutes drive).<a href="https://docs.google.com/document/d/e/2PACX-1vTkNyEctsBLaJOR-raLciKMiikR0sAOF_AXSs3ybdO3WoRBSIetMjmHQ4N6Bs5L2JNpwds8RrAWfxZO/pub" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">CLICK HERE TO SEE THE LIST</a>

Room Block available! A shuttle may be arranged if enough guests book and request it. Mention us when booking... Near Phoenix Theater, downtown Petaluma. Make yourself at home in one of the 91 individually decorated guest rooms, featuring refrigerators and LED televisions. Complimentary wired and wireless internet access keeps you connected, and digital programming provides entertainment. Bathrooms have complimentary toiletries and hair dryers. Conveniences include phones, as well as coffee/tea makers and complimentary bottled water and mini-bars. Petaluma is 30 minutes from wedding venue.

Hotel Petaluma Tapestry Collection by Hilton

A 10% discount will be applied to parties who call in and mention Jessamyn and Todd's wedding (ask for Lodging Manager Kourtney). Nick’s Cove, a coastal sanctuary nestled on the shores ofTomales Bay, is a favorite spot for day trippers and world travelers alike. An abundance of fresh and local tastes delight guests at our casual eatery and bar. The uniquely designed bayside cottages renew body and uplift spirit. Located less than one minute from the wedding venue.

Nick's Cove

Near Dillon Beach. Make yourself at home in one of the 15 individually decorated guest rooms, featuring kitchens. Rooms have private patios. 36-inch Smart televisions with digital programming provide entertainment, while complimentary wireless internet access keeps you connected. Conveniences include separate sitting areas and electric kettles. Located in Dillon Beach, Dillon Beach Resort is 10 minutes from the wedding venue.

Dillon Beach Resort

* Weekends at Marconi are released 3 months in advance of booking* Lodge at Marconi has a rich history as a landmark of the destination; the property was originally built in 1914 as a radio receiving station by Guglielmo Marconi, often credited as the “inventor of radio.” In the early 1960s, a rehabilitation facility known as Synanon took over the site, eventually becoming an infamous “alternative lifestyle community” that eventually dissolved.&nbsp;In recent years, it primarily served as a site for non profit and corporate retreats, conferences, and weddings. Its location within Tomales Bay showcases the natural beauty of the West Marin coastline. The region is best known for its abundance of outdoor pursuits, vineyards, creameries, and oyster farms. It is conveniently located only 5 minutes from the wedding venue.

Lodge at Marconi

Nestled in the tiny town of Tomales, Marin County on Coastal Route One is a bit of California history: The Tomales Hotel. This one-of-a-kind boutique hotel offers contactless self-check in. Upon arrival you will receive your code to the lobby where the key to your room will be waiting. We offer king beds in our single rooms and 2 queen beds in our double rooms.&nbsp;All rooms have private bathrooms. Re-established in 2022, The Tomales Hotel has been&nbsp;refreshed with a rural-goes-modern décor. Our hotel&nbsp;is an easy and scenic drive from Petaluma through rolling hills of gold and green to the crossroads at the very heart of Tomales on CA-1.&nbsp;Tomales is a short drive from Point Reyes National Seashore, Dillon Beach and Bodega Bay. Located about ten minutes from the wedding venue.

The Tomales Hotel

Stay in one of 121 guestrooms featuring flat-screen televisions. Complimentary wireless internet access keeps you connected, and cable programming is available for your entertainment. Bathrooms with bathtubs or showers are provided. Conveniences include phones with free local calls. With a stay at Park Inn by Radisson, Petaluma in Petaluma, you'll be within a 30-minute drive of the wedding venue.

Park Inn by Radisson Petaluma

Near Bodega Harbour, Stay in one of 86 guest rooms featuring flat-screen televisions. Your pillow-top bed comes with down comforters. Complimentary wireless internet access keeps you connected, and cable programming is available for your entertainment. Private bathrooms with bathtubs or showers feature complimentary toiletries and hair dryers. With a stay at The Inn at the Tides in Bodega Bay, you'll be within 30 minutes of the Wedding venue.

The Inn at the Tides

Located next to the Point Reyes National Seashore, this campground is an ideal location for bird watching, hiking, kayaking, or relaxing by the beach. Your campsite or RV site accessees 65,000 acres of unspoiled parkland and wilderness, full of wildlife and heart-stopping vistas.&nbsp; Bring a book or your hiking boots—there is something for everyone, whether that entails a relaxing getaway or an exciting outdoor adventure. Located 25 minutes south of the wedding venue on CA Route 1.

Olema Campground

Travel & Lodging

Wedding Party

We met in Marin County, drawn together by a love for the outdoors and a shared commitment to wildfire resilience. What began as a professional connection soon felt effortless, much like the landscapes we love to explore. Our story truly began when Todd encouraged Jess to transfer to his alma mater, the University of Montana. A casual dinner during one of Todd’s visits sparked something special, leading to long-distance calls, spontaneous trips, and shared adventures through Montana’s seasons.

We quickly realized how much we thrive in places that balance simplicity and beauty—whether hiking coastal trails, marveling at Montana’s vast landscapes, exploring botanical gardens or enjoying quiet evenings cooking together. Our shared curiosity and love for nature have shaped our relationship, helping us grow as partners.

A defining moment came during a trip to Costa Rica when Jess sprained her ankle. Todd’s care and humor during that time reflected the heart of our partnership—one rooted in support and joy, even in the unexpected.

Faith and family have also been central to our journey. Raised in the Episcopal tradition, we’ve found grounding in shared values and cherished time with loved ones. Todd’s proposal was a beautiful surprise, with Jess’s closest friends and family gathered near the place where we’ll soon say, “I do.”

On November 1, 2025, we’ll tie the knot, surrounded by those who’ve been part of our journey. Whether you’ve been with us from the start or are joining us now, we can’t wait to celebrate this day together, creating memories in a place we both hold dear.

Our Story

We invite you to soak in the beauty of Coastal Marin—a place that holds a special place in our hearts. From tranquil estuaries and serene forests to iconic lighthouses and cozy seaside communities, these images capture the spirit of the landscape where we’ll celebrate our wedding. We hope this glimpse of Marin’s colors, textures, and charm inspires you to explore and embrace the setting as part of the experience. Come share this beauty with us as we begin the next chapter of our story!

We acknowledge that the ceremony is located on the unceded ancestral lands of the Coast Miwok people of present-day Marin and southern Sonoma counties. We honor with gratitude the land itself, and all of its ancestors: past, present, and emerging.

Landscapes

Welcome to Marin and Tomales Bay! We’re so thrilled to have you join us for our wedding in one of the most breathtaking parts of Northern California. If you’re traveling from out of town or want to extend your stay, there’s so much to explore! From the rugged coastline, redwood forests to vibrant towns and vineyards, the Bay Area offers something for everyone. Whether you’re up for an outdoor adventure, a culinary journey, or just want to relax and soak in the scenery, we’ve got plenty of ideas to help you make the most of your visit. Below are some highlights to inspire your trip—click on the links for more details and start planning your adventure! Things to Do in Marin and Beyond <a href="https://www.nps.gov/pore/planyourvisit/wilderness.htm" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Alamere Falls</a> A stunning 40-foot waterfall cascading directly onto Wildcat Beach. Be prepared for a challenging but rewarding 13-mile round-trip hike through Point Reyes National Seashore’s Phillip Burton Wilderness. Wear sturdy shoes and stay mindful of the rugged terrain and coastal erosion. <a href="https://www.nps.gov/pore/planyourvisit/beaches.htm" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Beaches of Point Reyes</a> Explore miles of sandy shores and rocky tide pools. Whether you’re strolling along Limantour Beach or searching for wildlife at Drakes Beach, the seashore offers a beach for every mood. Check for closures or advisories before heading out. <a href="https://www.nps.gov/pore/planyourvisit/chimneyrock.htm" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Chimney Rock Trail</a> This 1.75-mile hike offers panoramic views of Drakes Bay and the coastline, along with opportunities to spot elephant seals and seasonal wildflowers. Don’t miss the historic Lifeboat Station for a glimpse into maritime history. <a href="https://www.nps.gov/pore/planyourvisit/lighthouse.htm" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Point Reyes Lighthouse</a> Built in 1870, this iconic lighthouse provides a peek into the region’s maritime heritage and incredible views of the Pacific. Time your visit with whale-watching season (December through May) for an extra-special experience. Added bonus - Todd proposed to Jessamyn at the lighthouse on May 17, 2023.. <a href="https://www.nps.gov/pore/planyourvisit/tomalespoint.htm" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Tomales Point and Tule Elk Reserve</a> Hike the scenic 9.7-mile Tomales Point Trail to view the majestic tule elk and enjoy sweeping vistas of Tomales Bay and Bodega Bay. For a shorter outing, explore the historic Pierce Ranch or McClures Beach. <a href="https://www.sonomawine.com/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Wine Country Adventures</a> A short drive from Marin, Sonoma and Napa Valleys are world-renowned for their wineries, tasting rooms, and farm-to-table dining. Take a wine tour or simply enjoy the rolling vineyards and quaint towns like Healdsburg and St. Helena. <a href="https://www.sftravel.com/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Explore San Francisco</a> Just across the Golden Gate Bridge, the City by the Bay awaits. Walk along Fisherman’s Wharf, tour Alcatraz Island, ride a cable car, or enjoy iconic views from Twin Peaks. For art and culture, visit the de Young Museum or SFMoMA. <a href="https://www.visitcalifornia.com/region/north-coast/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">The California North Coast</a> Head north to discover the rugged beauty of the California coastline. Explore the cliffs and coves of Bodega Bay, visit the charming village of Mendocino, or marvel at the towering redwoods in Armstrong Redwoods State Natural Reserve. <a href="https://cotaticity.org/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Cotati Farmers Market</a> Enjoy local produce, artisan goods, and live music in this quaint farmers market held in the heart of Cotati. A great spot for a midweek outing and a taste of local flavors. <a href="https://www.nps.gov/pore/learn/historyculture/communications.htm" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Historic KPH Maritime Radio Receiving Station</a> Learn about the history of ship-to-shore Morse code communication at this well-preserved site, featuring Art Deco architecture and operational vintage equipment. <a href="https://www.nps.gov/pore/learn/historyculture/morganhorses.htm" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Morgan Horse Ranch</a> Discover the National Park Service’s horsemanship heritage at this working ranch, where you can meet the elegant Morgan horses and learn about their role in park operations. <a href="https://www.nps.gov/pore/planyourvisit/trails.htm" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Trailheads at Point Reyes</a> Find your perfect hike! From the easy Earthquake Trail to the challenging Coastal Trail, Point Reyes offers an array of paths through forests, along cliffs, and across meadows. <a href="https://www.nps.gov/pore/planyourvisit/whales.htm" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Watch for Whales</a> During migration season, visit Chimney Rock or the Lighthouse for a chance to see gray whales spouting and breaching off the coast. We hope this list helps you create unforgettable memories during your visit. Whether you’re staying for a few days or a full week, there’s no shortage of ways to fall in love with the Bay Area. See you soon!

Jessamyn & Todd

Jessamyn & Todd

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