A formal wedding dress code simply means dressing your best in a polished, elegant way—think long dresses or chic cocktail dresses, and suits or tuxedos that look sharp and put-together. If you're a military member (active or former) you're more than welcome to wear mess dress, if you prefer! Choose nicer fabrics and simple, classy accessories for an elevated look, but make sure you feel comfortable enough to enjoy the celebration and have fun. It’s all about showing up in a way that honors the couple while still feeling like yourself.