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Accommodations

Hi friends! If you're coming in from out of town, we recommend booking your accommodations as soon as possible. It turns out we chose the same weekend as the Chicago Marathon, so hotels and such are in high demand (and have higher pricetags - sorry!). Here are our recommendations:

Hampton Inn - Loyola Station

We've got a brand new Hampton Inn in town and it's only a 10 minute walk from the venue! We've reserved a small block of rooms there. They do require a 2-night minimum that weekend because of the demand, $229 per night. See it on <a href="https://goo.gl/maps/hFMC7XSKpSp" target="_blank">GoogleMaps</a> and use <a href="http://group.hamptoninn.com/PlehalMcCaffreyWedding" target="_blank">this link to reserve rooms in our wedding block</a>.

Lang House B&B

This is a beautiful B&amp;B that's about a 15 minute walk from the venue. **Important - We've already reserved all 5 rooms in this house (sleeps 12 total) but we only have it for ONE NIGHT. If you plan on arriving the day of the wedding and departing the day after, this is the place for you! Reach out to Dan directly. Here's the <a href="https://goo.gl/maps/emeoDb6CzvR2" target="_blank">location</a>.

AirBnB

Plenty of rooms and entire apartments/houses available to rent in the area. Get one close by so you can walk! <a href="https://goo.gl/maps/ZTC5UgtWrYr" target="_blank">Search Here</a> - be sure to zoom in to the Rogers Park area.

Super 8 Chicago - Loyola University

We do not have anything reserved here but you can snag a room on your own. It's about a 10 minute walk from the venue. Rooms are around $219 per night. See it on <a href="https://goo.gl/maps/ZTC5UgtWrYr" target="_blank">GoogleMaps</a> or <a href="https://www.wyndhamhotels.com/super-8/chicago-illinois/super-8-chicago-il/overview" target="_blank">Their Website</a>.

The Guesthouse Hotel

This place is faaaancy. Want a full kitchen that's probably nicer than your own? This is your hotel. No idea what the prices are like. It's farther away but it's an easy public transit trip. Check out <a href="https://goo.gl/maps/96AQUaMGW8M2" target="_blank">GoogleMaps</a> and their <a href="http://theguesthousehotel.com" target="_blank">Website</a>.

Heart 'O Chicago Motel

We don't know anything about this place but it's definitely got character. Sketchy? Who knows?! It's not really in walking distance and isn't on public transit, but it would be a short and cheap uber ride. See them on <a href="https://goo.gl/maps/9AfKB7QZFZT2" target="_blank">GoogleMaps</a> or their <a href="http://www.heartochicago.com/" target="_blank">Website</a>.

Places to Eat and Drink

Heartland Cafe

Neighborhood staple that Tina Fey wrote about in her autobiography. Great for brunch. Has a nice patio where you can see all the crazy Rogers Park denizens pass you by. Good beer on tap, great vegetarian options, and an organic food store attached if you need it. 7000 N Glenwood Ave, Chicago, IL 60626 <a class="fl r-iNLfOQnNQ4Ug">(773) 465-8005</a> <a href="http://www.heartlandcafe.com/">www.heartlandcafe.com</a>

Smack Dab @ Rogers' Park Social

Our favorite cocktail bar becomes an amazing breakfast spot Thursday thru Sunday in the daytime. They make the best egg biscuit sandwiches you will ever eat - guaranteed - along with tasty coffee and cold brew.6920 N Glenwood Ave, Chicago, IL 60626

Empirical Brewpub

This new restaurant and brewery is located in the same building as our venue! It's a microbrewery that features all Chicago-exclusive beers. Food is elevated pub grub, but is quite tasty. Service can be slow, but is very friendly.At Mayne Stage!1328 W. Morse Ave <a href="http://www.empiricalbrewery.com/brew-pub/">www.empiricalbrewery.com/brew-pub/</a>

Bop N' Grill

Featured on the Food Network show "Diners, Drive-ins, and Dives". This place serves artery-clogging, Korean-inspired burgers and fries. They do not serve booze. Great food, especially if you like burgers. Right next door to the hotel!6604 N Sheridan Rd, Chicago, IL 60626 <a class="fl r-ir0hSLFtFFDU">(773) 654-3224</a>

Bulldog Ale House

College bar with great specials, typical pub grub, large beer list. Right next to the hotel. Sometimes can have a long wait. Nice patio!6606 N Sheridan Rd, Chicago, IL 60626 <a class="fl r-i86KkeLkcY1U">(773) 274-9331</a>

Twisted Tapas

Yummy sangria and small plates. Very friendly service.1146 W Pratt Blvd, Chicago, IL 60626 <a href="http://www.twistedtapas.us/">www.twistedtapas.us/</a>

Giordano's

One of the original deep dish pizza chains. Not as good as Pequod's, but if you want to try deep dish and don't feel like going downtown, you can't go wrong here.6836 N. Sheridan Rd. Chicago , IL 60626 <a href="https://giordanos.com">https://giordanos.com</a>

Pub 626

Really large, drafty sports bar. Cheap pub grub and drinks.1406 W Morse Ave, Chicago, IL 60626 <a href="http://www.pub626.com/">www.pub626.com/</a>

Leona's

Family-owned Olive Garden-type chain. Not the best, but if you are a simple eater, this could be for you.6935 N Sheridan Rd Chicago, IL 60626 <a href="http://www.leonas.com/">www.leonas.com/</a>

Roger's Pier

Seafood restaurant and sports bar. 6800 N Sheridan Rd, Chicago, IL 60626 <a class="fl r-iAj26pmrOp_k">(773) 942-6613</a>

Clarke's

24-hour diner.6431 N Sheridan Rd, Chicago, IL 60626 <a class="fl r-ikZ_AXTF5WFs">(773) 961-8723</a>

Getting Downtown

CTA Red Line

The CTA has two stops in the neighborhood. The Loyola stop is right next to the hotel. The Morse stop is right next to Mayne Stage, the venue.The train will get you downtown in about 40-60 minutes depending on how they are running. Costs $2.25 each way.

Uber & Lyft

We recommend downloading these apps before you visit. You can hail a car from your phone at affordable rates.

CTA 147 Express Bus

If you're feeling adventurous, hop the express bus, the 147. You can pick it up right outside the Loyola Red Line station. It speeds down Lake Shore Drive, and drops you off right at the top of Michigan Avenue. Very convenient for shopping and sightseeing.

Essentials in Rogers Park, Our Neighborhood

Places to Eat

Pequod's

As you are all well aware, deep dish pizza is a Chicago institution. This place is the place to get it. No questions asked. You can talk all you want about the super chains of Giordano's and Lou Malnati's. But this place is the shit. No visit is complete with out checking them out.2207 N Clybourn Ave, Chicago, IL 60614<a href="http://pequodspizza.com/">http://pequodspizza.com/</a> <a class="fl r-iDisRdGgbt1k">(773) 327-1512</a>

Au Cheval

Touted as the evolution of diner food, with a passion for eggs, Au Cheval is one of the best, most decadent meals you can get in Chicago, and it won't destroy your wallet. To be fair, it's not like, SUPER cheap, per se....this is fine dining, after all. But it is very affordable and absolutely delicious. Brunch is also a solid option here. Arrive early, or be prepared to wait as they do not take reservations.<a href="https://www.google.com/maps/place/Au+Cheval/@41.88471,-87.647671,682m/data=!3m2!1e3!4b1!4m2!3m1!1s0x0:0xceb6eb8362b20ae8">800 W Randolph St</a> Chicago, IL 60607<a class="fl" href="https://www.google.com/url?sa=t&amp;rct=j&amp;q=&amp;esrc=s&amp;source=web&amp;cd=&amp;cad=rja&amp;uact=8&amp;ved=0ahUKEwiIqojB47vVAhUO-mMKHagED78QhAcIJA&amp;url=http%3A%2F%2Fauchevalchicago.com%2Fwp-content%2Fuploads%2FAC_menu_food1.pdf&amp;usg=AFQjCNHfW4SZ6Gu0QMjornN4wo9uSchbRQ"></a><a class="fl r-i64oY2hkDo3E">(312) 929-4580</a> <a class="fl" href="https://www.google.com/url?sa=t&amp;rct=j&amp;q=&amp;esrc=s&amp;source=web&amp;cd=&amp;cad=rja&amp;uact=8&amp;ved=0ahUKEwiIqojB47vVAhUO-mMKHagED78QhAcIJA&amp;url=http%3A%2F%2Fauchevalchicago.com%2Fwp-content%2Fuploads%2FAC_menu_food1.pdf&amp;usg=AFQjCNHfW4SZ6Gu0QMjornN4wo9uSchbRQ">auchevalchicago.com</a>

Big Jones

This place is one of my favorite spots in the world. The Southern menu at Big Jones includes a few modern standards like pimento cheese and shrimp and grits, but also many rarities inspired directly from period cookbooks and texts. We're talking insane fried green tomatoes, amazing crunchy fried chicken, creamy grits and jambalaya, an INSANE charcuterie board of cured meats and cheese, and an exhaustive bourbon list. Brunch is also absolutely insane here, with a lump crabcake benedict served on popovers.Reservations are accepted.5347 N Clark St, Chicago, IL 60640 <a class="fl" href="https://www.google.com/search?q=big+jones+phone&amp;sa=X&amp;ved=0ahUKEwjl-5OEzrvVAhXHwVQKHURlAtsQ6BMIogEwFA&amp;biw=1920&amp;bih=924">Phone</a>: <a class="fl r-iM_zGpYpMDaE">(773) 275-5725 </a><a class="fl" href="https://www.google.com/url?sa=t&amp;rct=j&amp;q=&amp;esrc=s&amp;source=web&amp;cd=&amp;cad=rja&amp;uact=8&amp;ved=0ahUKEwjl-5OEzrvVAhXHwVQKHURlAtsQhAcIpQE&amp;url=https%3A%2F%2Fbigjoneschicago.com%2Fdine%2Fdinner%2F&amp;usg=AFQjCNEWH_9vlQ7PGdVWWPajugh5JuUq0A">bigjoneschicago.com</a> <a class="fl r-iM_zGpYpMDaE"></a>

The Girl & the Goat

Top Chef winner Stephanie Izard's "hopping West Loop restaurant is known for life-altering small plates that feature both fun uses of familiar ingredients (the green beans are amazing) and more adventurous options (the pig face is a must, as is the goat belly), plus amazing breads and butters.The joint is EXTREMELY popular, so there is a high demand for reservations. It keeps it packed with people, and is very loud, but strong cocktails and a staff that makes you feel special help ease the inevitable long wait. If you can't snag a reservation and are still interested, go as a group of 2-4 and wait for the bar.

Tanoshii

Sushi chef Mike literally makes the world's best sushi &amp; creative Japanese fare. If you are afraid of sushi, THIS is the place to try, as Mike is a master with flavors and will create rolls for you based on your preference. Don't like salmon? It's out. Don't like raw stuff? It's out. Or just ask him to hit you with his best shot. Don't miss the "fish and chips" appetizer. Sake, beer. wine &amp; cocktails are served as well, and you can also BYOB. 5547 N Clark St, Chicago IL (773) 878-6886 <a href="http://www.tanoshiisushi.com">www.tanoshiisushi.com</a>

The Purple Pig

The pork version of The Girl and the Goat, The Purple Pig is Jimmy Bannos Jr.'s always lively Magnificient Mile gastropub. Expect outstanding, innovative, Mediterranean small plates, featuring an abundance of pork (fried pig ears, omg they're delicious, as is the pork liver pate) paired with a robust wine list. It's super delicious but they do not take reservations and it is VERY popular. There will always be a wait, and it would be very difficult for them to accommodate a large party. Seating is communal, so you'll always get to know your neighbors very well. We'd recommend checking them out for a fancy lunch after shopping on the Mag Mile. 500 N Michigan Ave, Chicago, IL 60611 <a class="fl r-iwe480QeiVNc">(312) 464-1744</a> <a class="fl" href="https://www.google.com/url?sa=t&amp;rct=j&amp;q=&amp;esrc=s&amp;source=web&amp;cd=&amp;cad=rja&amp;uact=8&amp;ved=0ahUKEwj49auQ4bvVAhXIwFQKHQDzCckQhAcIrgE&amp;url=https%3A%2F%2Fthepurplepigchicago.com%2Fwp-content%2Fuploads%2F2016%2F08%2FThe-Purple-Pig-Catering-Brochure-10-5-16_PROOF-3.pdf&amp;usg=AFQjCNHhF8zbHxxMNLyBMwtwMOw-OumAuQ">thepurplepigchicago.com</a>

The Chicago Diner (Vegetarian!)

This absolutely delicious diner is in the middle of Boystown and serves probably the best milkshake we've ever tasted (which...shockingly...is vegan). The best bet for vegetarian food at a solid price.3411 N Halsted St, Chicago, IL 60657 (773) 935-6696 <a href="http://www.veggiediner.com">http://www.veggiediner.com</a>

This one is breakfast and brunch only, and is a hike out to the rest - quite far away from where the hotel is. The food is AWESOME, though, and a great way to wake up. Incredibly fresh ingredients and a super fun vibe. Check out the menu!3057 W Logan Blvd(773) 292-6011<a href="http://jamrestaurant.com/">http://jamrestaurant.com/</a>

Broadway Cellars

Places to Drink

Rogers Park Social

Our favorite bar in the city, which also happens to be right around the corner from the hotel and the venue. Amazing craft cocktails at incredible prices, and a super friendly, hip vibe. Check them out while you're here.6920 N Glenwood Ave, Chicago, IL 60626 <a class="fl r-iLZBjSR84yjI">(773) 791-1419</a> <a class="fl" href="http://www.rogersparksocial.com/menu/">rogersparksocial.com</a>

Three Dots and a Dash

This super-chic River North mainstay offers is a hidden underground tiki bar! We'll give you the address, but you'll have to find the entrance yourself. ;)Drinks are expensive, but phenomenal, and the ambience is one of the most unique bar experiences you can get in Chicago. Try the Corn n' Oil, one of the few authentic versions you can get in the US.Reservations are accepted and strongly recommended.435 N Clark StChicago, IL 60654<a href="http://threedotschicago.com">http://threedotschicago.com</a>

The J Parker at the Hotel Lincoln

VIEWS. VIEWS FOR DAYS. We have a thing for rooftop bars, and this is probably our overall favorite. Well-priced drinks and snacks and the best view of the lake you can get in town.It gets crowded, so there may be a line. Be prepared. It's worth it. Mid day weekdays are generally the least busy.The Hotel Lincoln1816 Clark St, 17th FloorChicago, IL 60614<a href="http://jparkerchicago.com">http://jparkerchicago.com</a>

iO Urban Rooftop at the Godfrey Hotel

Another rooftop bar, this one is the most "hip" and "trendy". Located in the "hip and trendy" Godfrey Hotel in River North, iO doesn't offer water views, but a very unique view of the skyline and is very spacious.

Cindy's at the Chicago Athletic Association

Our final rooftop bar, this one, located in The Chicago Athletic Association hotel, is in the loop and also is a full restaurant. The food's GREAT, but folks come here for the views and cocktails. It's pricey, but the view is a no-holds barred view of Millennium Park...absolutely gorgeous and one-of-a-kind. The bean looks like a Lego version from Cindy's patio.This one almost ALWAYS has a line so be prepared to wait for the elevator. Guests of the hotel get special access, should you decide to splurge on a night here.12 S Michigan AveChicago, IL 60603 <a href="http://www.cindysrooftop.com/">www.cindysrooftop.com/</a>

Marty's Martinis

We're not really "gay dance bar" guys, but we do love a couple quintessential gay bars in town - Marty's is one of them. It's a cozy cocktail bar with a cute patio, lined with gaudy, bougie decor and thousands of mirrors. The bartenders and servers are super friendly, and the martinis are aggressive, for lack of a better word. Very tiny, so not great for a massive group, but really fun.1511 W Balmoral AveChicago, IL 60640<a href="https://www.facebook.com/martysmartinibar/">https://www.facebook.com/martysmartinibar/</a>

Replay

Our other favorite gay bar also features VIDEO GAMES. Seriously, how can you ago wrong? Replay is one of the first of the generation of "arcade bars", where you pay for your beer and bourbon, but get to play amazing standup arcade games like Double Dragon, Pac-Man, and Ninja Turtles for free (and also some pinball for a small fee).There are two locations - the one in Andersonville is our favorite due to it's being more spacious and serving good food.5338 N Clark StChicago, IL 60640<a href="http://www.replayandersonville.com">http://www.replayandersonville.com</a>

Places to Dance

Holiday Club

THIS PLACE IS SO FUN. Close to the train (off Sheridan stop), great mix of 80's, 90's and today, cheap drinks and eats, and pool tables. What more can you ask for?4000 N Sheridan Rd, Chicago, IL 60613

Berlin

This freak-friendly dance destination in Lakeview built its reputation back in the mid-'80s with a mix of German new-wave music, art installations and weekly parties. These days, it's still quirky but more retro, with Prince-tribute, disco and '80s nostalgia nights. Goths and gays are extra welcome, but the scene here is made up of almost everyone. Thursday night's Stardust a major locus of creativity in nightlife. RIGHT off the Belmont Red Line stop, and open till 4am.954 W Belmont Ave, Chicago, IL 60657

Beauty Bar

You can get a martini and a manicure for $15 at kitsch-happy Beauty Bar . Retrofitted into the old Sonotheque, the bar carried over the sound system but otherwise got a complete face-lift. Sparkling glitter paint adorns the walls, '60s beauty salon furniture acts as seating, and the backroom dance floor is completed with a shimmering disco ball. The music stays obscure and mostly dusty during the week, but DJs turn it into an electro dance party most weekends. A bit of a hike from the neighborhood, be prepared to Uber.1444 W Chicago Ave, Chicago, IL 60642

Smart Bar

Originally on the fourth floor of the magnificent Wrigleyville building (also home to Metro), this venerated dance club is now in the basement. A recent makeover slicked up the looks a notch and brought back a vibrant young crowd. But more important, the club boasts a world-class Funktion One sound system, which sounds tremendous on the central dance floor. Cutting-edge DJs from Europe, Detroit and Chicago form the bulk of the weekend bookings with house, techno and electro styles; but local mash-up and indie jocks rule on bargain weekday nights.3730 N Clark St, Chicago, IL 60613

Primary

Between its oversize dance floor, massive LED wall, 30-foot bar and craft cocktail program, Primary is sure to become the envy of its Gold Coast neighbors, and fast. Owned by a posse of nightlife veterans with their ears to the sound of now, it's a hip alternative to clubs near the "triangle" that have been coasting with the same formula. Look for some of the city's top up-and-coming DJs spinning house, electro, dubstep, underground disco and indie dance alongside the occasional global talent. What do real clubbers crave? An intimate, music-focused but still stylish night out free of bullshit. This NKOTB puts it all on a top soundsystem. We think this basement club fills the void left by Sonotheque.<a class="_sEo iELllhzgNXmE-6WH35iSZ2V0 rllt__link">5 W Division St</a>

Shows to See

The Second City

Pretty much a must-visit, The Second City is the first ever on-going improvisational theater troupe based in Chicago. <a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Chicago"></a> The Second City Theatre opened on December 16, 1959, and has since become one of the most influential and prolific comedy theatres in the world. The Second City has produced television programs in both Canada and the United States, including SCTV, Second City Presents, and <a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Second_City%27s_Next_Comedy_Legend"></a>Next Comedy Legend. Since its debut, the Second City has consistently been a starting point for comedians, award-winning actors, directors, and others in show business such as Bill Murray, John Candy, Tina Fey, Amy Poehler, Steve Carell, <a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Stephen_Colbert"></a>Stephen Colbert, and Cecily Strong, among many others.Buying tickets in advance is strongly recommended. You can see many different shows, from the mainstage headliner (these performers are on the SNL track), to up and coming comedy students, to top-tier comedy headliners.Tickets and info: <a href="https://www.secondcity.com/">https://www.secondcity.com/</a>

iO (Improv Olympic)

The little brother of The Second City, iO is Chicago's other mainstay comedy theater. I actually prefer some of the shows and teams here (Improvised Shakespeare is truly insane). You can also catch Chicago comedy legends TJ &amp; Dave here, every Wednesday night at 10:30pm. The bar is also really lovely here.Tickets and info:ioimprov.com/chicago/

Steppenwolf Theatre Company

One of Chicago's most celebrated theatre companies. Steppenwolf was formed by actors and is still ran by their top-tier ensemble that includes world-class actors both recognizable and non. Heart-wrenching drama is on the menu here.Tickets and info:<a href="https://www.steppenwolf.org/">https://www.steppenwolf.org/</a>

Goodman Theatre

The Goodman is a nationally-recognized regional theatre. During our wedding weekend they will be presenting Ivo Van Hove's acclaimed production of "A View From the Bridge".Tickets and info: <a href="https://www.goodmantheatre.org/">https://www.goodmantheatre.org/</a>

Hamilton at the PrivateBank Theatre

It's here if you want to try and see it! We have NO hookups to getting affordable seats, or available seats, for that matter...but cant hurt to try! You can also always attempt to enter the digital lottery for $20 seats day-of (but not the night of the wedding please!)Tickets: <a href="http://www.broadwayinchicago.com/show/hamilton-an-american-musical/">http://www.broadwayinchicago.com/show/hamilton-an-...</a>Lottery info:<a href="http://www.broadwayinchicago.com/hamiltonlotteryfaq/">http://www.broadwayinchicago.com/hamiltonlotteryfa...</a>

Exploring Chicago

Jim has known Alex since she was born, cause, well...she's his sister!  Growing up, they would play lots of games in which Alex would get really mad if she lost, and literally beat Jim up. She is generally the stronger one. One time they were playing Chase the Princess, a completely made up game in which Jim would chase Alex as if he were a pirate chasing a princess, complete with a metal bat as a sword, but never hitting her, of course...it was all pretend. They ran around, then swapped roles, ('cause who doesn't want to be a princess?). Alex then took the metal bat from Jim, brought it over her head, and hit him with every ounce of strength she could possibly muster in her 6 yr old frame. She's very strong.  As they got older, they would deal with bullies (Alex would whoop their asses), bad friends (they'd drive the neighborhood and spy to expose the lies of shady kids), and sporting events (well...that's a stretch on Jim's side because Alex would be really proud of his musical theatre performances, which she never missed...if you can call that a sport...and he'd go to her basketball games and watch her literally destroy some girls - ask me for specific stories).Alex has always been there for Jim, in good times and bad.  Although she's younger, he has always looked up to her as the perfect example of how to be a tough, strong person with a deep moral center, while at the same time being fun, compassionate,  and caring. I love you, Sis.

Alexandra McCaffrey

Emma is Dan's Go-to. Go-to what? Go-to Pretty-much-everything. If speeddial were still a thing, she'd be at the top of his list, and he'd be at the top of hers. They talk through everything - from job woes to people-watching adventures to deciding which type of cookie to get for a snack (her favorite is Oatmeal Chocolate Chip). They've been siblings for as long as they can remember, and partners in crime for almost all of that time. Even as kids, they'd swap war stories of attempts to out-logic Mom &amp; Dad in arguments and debates. In college they were each other's artistic sounding boards. And since then they've both served as life coach and therapist and cookie-cake-creation-collaborator all in one. Neither ever attempts a major life decision without the other's input. In fact, years ago they decided that they each have complete veto power against the other's suitors, and they've both used it. Luckily, Emma loves Jim almost as much as Dan does, so it didn't come into play this time. Emma is honest and determined, laid-back and a perfectionist, and has more love to give than just about anyone in the world. 

Emma Plehal

Jim and Charlie are bros! Literally! They have seen every version of each other's hair (Jim: Curly, shaved, &amp; mullet; Charlie: bowl cut, shaved, hipster shaggy). Growing up, they loved playing video games together, going to high school plays together, (seriously, Charlie and I should have been critics - he came with me to see a production of Gypsy at our mom's alma mater that was 40 minutes away - that's true love), and more than anything, fighting with each other ALL THE TIME. It probably stems from a fight they had when they were super little in which Charlie got the Darkwing Duck stuffed animal Jim wanted on Christmas. Cue the crying and fists.  Another time, they were on vacation and Jim "accidentally" punched Charlie across the face, and when Charlie started crying, so did Jim, who blamed it on Charlie.  Charlie got in trouble.  (Sorry brother!)Charlie is Jim's brother.  Throughout their lives, they've been each other's nerdy pals, screamed and cheered for each other from the stands (or the audience), and also traded blows a couple times (Charlie always wins). But more than any of that, they love each other hard, and have always been protective of each other as they have gone through life.

Charlie McCaffrey

Dan has always looked up to Chris. Chris has looked up to Dan since Dan hit puberty. Dan has evaluated his jokes solely on Chris's reaction for decades. Chris has stolen bites of Dan's hamburgers whenever possible. In high school, Dan strived to reach the bars Chris set so high a few years before. Chris taught Dan how to play beer pong. The list goes on and on. The moral of the story is that for Dan's whole life, Chris has been a role model and a mentor, helping Dan to become funnier, work harder, write better, and drink more beer ("fuck that cider"). Even now, Chris has become one of the most enthusiastic supporters of Dan's artistic work and is therefore (whether he knows it or not) one of Dan's biggest inspirations. Dan can't imagine having a brother with more passion, more brains, and less height than Chris. He's the best. Plus, they tend to have mostly-matching hairstyles, even though they live in different cities and never discuss it. So I guess all the looking-up is paying off :)

Chris Plehal

Adaire is Dan's other soulmate. They became friends in high school when Sophomore Dan thought that the best way to flirt with the cute and talented freshman girl was to peel a piece of duct tape off the wall and put it over her mouth. Seriously. You can't make this shit up. Somehow she didn't shun him forever, but instead, taught him how to perfect a southern accent, became his best friend, and for five years, his girlfriend and partner in all things. When Dan came out, she was the first to know, and she was there for him every step of the way, even despite what that meant for her. She's still Dan's #1 girl and will be till the day he dies.The first time Adaire &amp; Jim spoke was on the phone while Dan and Jim were drunk on the Red Line. They connected so quickly and so lovingly that Drunk Dan started openly weeping because he was so happy they got along so well. Adaire is hilarious, beautiful, strong-willed, and incredibly brave. She's a keeper. 

Adaire Brooks

Excluding siblings, Jessica has been in the picture longer than anyone. They go all the way back to 7th grade summer, when they randomly started playing Line Tag together at the pool. Through high school they did every project together for German class, goofed off backstage of many a school- and church-musical, and quoted way too many movies line-by-line. They've stuck with each other across long distances now for almost two decades - being sure to call each other whenever there's major life news to be shared. In addition to being one of the funniest and loyal people Dan know's, Jess is also a great judge of character. She's that friend that won't sugarcoat her opinion about anything, including the people you're dating. So it was even that much sweeter when she met Jim for the first time and decided instantly that they were best friends. Jess is as dedicated as any best friend can be. She has an unending well of enthusiasm for her friends' successes, and of compassion when they need it most, plus a healthy helping of take-no-shit determination to fight for her friends and what she believes in. We couldn't get rid of her if we tried - and we'd never want to!

Jessica Benjamin

Jenny and Jim met in Memphis, where Jim was following his bestie Josh (see below) to party for New Years'. They weren't in love with each other at first sight (probably because Jim was tanked from the moment he walked off the plane, sry not sry, he was ready to ring in that New Year).  Later, they both learned through this Josh character than the other person was moving to Chicago, without much of a support group, at the same time.  They arranged to meet at a shady sports bar in the loop, and sat down for a beer.  And the rest is history.  Later, during the weekend in which  Jim and Dan had over a crazy weekend of concert-going, Jenny was introduced to Dan (literally the night after their second date) and clicked with him instantaneously.  She sort of sealed the deal, in a weird way. :) Jenny is one of Jim and Dan's closest friends who is unflinchingly loyal, outspoken, and passionate about her friends and loved ones.  She takes care of people, loves the arts, loves artists, and loves to laugh.  She is a one of a kind person and Jim and Dan are so lucky to have her in their lives.

Jenny Lynn Christoffersen

Laura met Jim at a Goodman Theatre opening, after they had talked on the phone pretty much everyday for weeks on end (him from his internship at Stewart Talent, her doing a casting internship for the Goodman).  Immediately he was taken by how FREAKING GORGEOUS she was, and eventually, due to their constant phone interactions, went to a MIKA concert together and became fast friends.  They still talk on the phone everyday for work (although she's full time at Chicago Shakes now).  They probably still would even if they didn't have to.  Laura eventually met Dan through Jim and now probably prefers Dan's company (jokes jokes). Laura also REALLY likes champagne.  Like in a special way.Laura is a strong, passionate, intelligent, and fierce young woman who both Jim and Dan look up to and admire.  They love her deeply and wouldn't be the same as a couple without the smart advice, carefree humor, and twinkle in the eye that she brings into a room.

Laura Durham

Liz and Jim met as interns at the Goodman Theatre together (edited) years ago.  Towards the end of their internship, they shacked up as roommates in what was, without question, the largest, cheapest, and most awesome apartment in the city of Chicago.  Dan was introduced to Liz when he and Jim started dating, and when you get three nerds in a room that all love games and the culinary arts, you get some awesome friends. The three of them lived in harmony together for a year and a half, in a much smaller but equally as awesome apartment.  Although they now live apart, Liz is a phenomenal cook, and Jim &amp; Dan both love eating delicious food, so their friendship will forever be unbreakable.  Jim thinks she should go on MasterChef someday.  Seriously.Liz is thoughtful, rational, intelligent, and straightforward.  She is a good, compassionate human who loves her friends and family, and whom Jim &amp; Dan love for keeping their heads screwed on straight when they need it most.

Liz Rice

Danielle and Jim met in a very #shady fashion, when he started his Goodman Theatre internship two days late. Danielle was suspicious of this late start, and why exactly he wasn't bundled up in the intern closet with all of the other interns. This intense curiosity eventually brought them together, and they started hanging out.  Or something like that. After intensely bonding at several group events, and the pride parade, Jim started dating some dude named Dan who Danielle was kinda like..."yeah he's cool". And yet the intense curiosity came into play again, drawing them together so much to the point that they moved into apartments a mere block from either other! #wow!  Danielle then went to comedy school, returned, and had changed. Nah, not really. She just makes more jokes now.Danielle is the person you can always count on.  She remember your birthday, holds you when you cry, picks you up from the airport when you're broke, and never misses an event important to you.  She is a nurturing and intensely devoted friend to Jim and Dan, who has the best and most infectious laugh in the world. Without her, their life would be a lot harder. And would have less jokes. #comedyschool (D, did we do a good job with the jokes?)

Danielle Stack

Josh and Jim have known each other since they were freshmen in high school.  They met in line at an audition for Temple University's groundbreaking production of  "Company" (there was an ensemble!) where Jim was super shady to some annoying actor in line.  Josh didn't like that so therefore decided that Jim was a terrible person.  But LITTLE DID HE KNOW that after being forced to have movie night watching "The Sphere"  by another dear friend (hi Ashley!) they would literally be INSEPARABLE for years.  Josh and Jim have been conjoined at the hip throughout all of college, and after a brief hiatus where Josh was chilling back home in Philly and traveling the world, are still the same back in Chicago. (Oh ya and Dan likes Josh too they're like totes brahs.)Josh is the most empathetic, caring person alive. He's an incredibly loyal friend and positive person, who you can always count on when you need someone to make you feel better about life.

Josh Bernaski

Andrew moved into the intern closet at the Goodman just as Jim was moving out...ships in the wind, I suppose. OR WERE THEY? Andrew had gone to college with groomsman Danielle Stack, and since they grew so close during their internship, Andrew was introduced to Jim through Danielle. At first, Jim was like "this guy is like super hot", but as he got to know Andrew better, the hotness only intensified as Jim learned what a WORLD-CLASS NERD Andrew was.  They have grown very close over their shared love of dogs, board games, video games, and theatre - ALL THINGS THAT DAN LIKES TOO! So obviously, when Andrew met Dan through Jim, Dan stole Andrew's affection for Jim and now they rival to be the favorite of the sexiest DM you will ever know.Andrew has a warrior's body, a nerd's imagination, and a caring father's heart.  He is one of the kindest, most soulful people in Dan and Jim's lives, and has accompanied them on so many ridiculously fun adventures, both real and imaginary. He is a loving person that would fight to death for any of his friends. Thanks for having our back, DM.

Andrew Saenz

Brian is one of those humans that everyone falls in love with within moments. Even though we'd met him on a few scattered occasions, our friendship with Brian truly started at brunch (as all great friendships do) - the same brunch, in fact, that was instrumental in linking Brian up with his now wife, the lovely Laura Durham. At that brunch, Dan turned to Jim and said "Sorry Jim,  I think I'm in love with Brian now". And it's still true - we're both in love with Brian (though Laura's got the ring). He's an amazingly kind, supportive, and determined dude who we'd like to keep by our side, pretty much forever. Even though Brian is the most recent addition to our lives of those in this wedding party, his connection to us is incredibly strong. He's always ready with a bag full of board games, a beer, and a really great hug. He's an unwavering piece of our Chicago Family.

Brian Scannell

Wedding Party

Photos

Q + A

Registry

O'Hare is about 45 minutes away from the hotel and venue via car, and about 1.5 hrs away via public transportation (Blue Line to the Loop, transfer to the Red Line). It is the larger of the two airports. Taxis run about $50 each way, Uber or Lyft runs about $40, and the train is a cool $5 each way.

O'Hare International Airport

Midway is about 55 minutes away from the hotel and venue via car, and about 80 mins away via public transportation (Orange Line to Roosevelt station, transfer to the Red Line). Taxis run about $50 each way, Uber or Lyft runs about $40, and the train is a cool $5 each way.

Chicago Midway International Airport

Travel

This is our favorite Chicago tourist activity. The Architecture Foundation offers boat tours that take you up and down the Chicago river as they explain all of the city's iconic skyscrapers. There's a bar on the boat too, if you wanna party it up. ;)

Chicago Architecture Foundation

Sports fans can take a guided tour of Wrigley Field, which is one of the most iconic stadiums in the US. The tour is cheap ($25), short (only about 90 mins), and easily accessible via public transportation. Not to mention it's swamped with bars and restaurants nearby. Sadly, no games are currently scheduled for our wedding weekend (postseason at that point).

Wrigley Field

The CTA train, affectionately known as the "El", also happens to be one of the cheapest, easiest, and most picturesque ways to see the city. Take the Red Line from the hotel to Belmont, where you can board the Brown Line train, headed towards the Loop. You'll get great pictures out the window the whole way around the tracks, as the train zips you around the loop and returns you back to Belmont (you can go a little further to Southport to find some great bars and restaurants, as well as see just how close the train gets to the buildings.) This is a very affordable option as well. $2.25 each way.

CTA Brown Line

Without question, one of the greatest art museums in the world, if not one of the best overall museums in the world. Don't try to see it all (you'll miss the wedding!) but for sure do the museum highlights tour, and don't miss the best collection of Impressionist art you'll ever see. Great (and well-priced) food and drink here as well.

The Art Institute of Chicago

No visit to Chicago is complete without seeing the Bean! Check it out here, amongst so many more absolutely stunning pieces of sculpture, and if you're lucky, some free world-class music at the Pritzker Pavilion!

Millennium Park, Chicago, IL, United States

Chicago's 5th Avenue, the Mag Mile is loaded with amazing shopping from retailers all around the world, from the Gap to Uni-Qlo to Burberry. You can also swing by the iconic Wrigley Building and wave to all of Jim's co-workers.

Magnificent Mile, Chicago, IL, United States

The zoo is nestled away in the center of Lincoln Park and is 100% free to attend. Go see the penguins and say we said hi!

Jim + Dan