Deanna has been my ride or die for too many years. We were roommates, teammates, she was my day care, a shoulder to cry on, and much more. She married my nephew Bo and come to find out, Bo spent a lot a time at Jacks when he was kid, what a small world. It doesn't matter if days or months go by , I can call her and she will drop what she is doing and run right over. When it was time for Britt to throw Kaidin's 18th birthday party, she was there to help decorate, work the sweat line of making musubi, and dance the night away with me. She was there for his Graduation party to help decorate and supervise the overnighter then too. And she was there to tour colleges and to take him to college WSU!!! Go Cougs..... She has been a constant for me in more ways than I can ever dream. I can't think of ever a time that we have argued, other than her leaving her shoes in the middle of the floor, other than that, she is perfect. Outspoken, straight to the point and my person, so I am honored to have her by my side. Love you girl.

Brittani is my beautiful daughter and is not only my greatest blessing but also my best friend and the light of my life. Watching her grow into the incredible woman she is today has been my proudest journey. She has stood by me through every season, filling my world with laughter, love, and endless joy. Having her as my bridesmaid means the world to me — it’s a reflection of the unbreakable bond we share and the love that continues to guide us both. I couldn’t imagine this special day without her by my side, shining just as brightly as she always has in my heart.

To my cousin Kent, we have always shared a special bond, being right there at Papa's and Ma's house so many memories. Happy and sad memories that will live forever in my heart. I want to say congratulations on your special day. You and Jodie have always been right there for Ma's village anything that we may need you guys stepped right on in. Jodie has always been family. It is my honor to be a part of your guy's special day. I wish you two nothing but the BEST. Love you guys.

Words from Latoya - To my oldest cousin Kent and his bride Jodie - After many years together, through joy, laughter, and sickness you've shown that real love is built on faith, loyalty, and strength to keep choosing each other every single day. Kent your courage and strength, Jodie your unwavering devotion and dedication through season shows the purest kind of commitment. Together you've proven that true love doesn't just survive the storms- it grows stronger because of them. May your marriage be filled with peace, laughter, and the same unbreakable bond that has already carried you thus far. I love you both so much and beyond blessed to celebrate this next chapter with you all. Latoya, we love you just as much. This brought tears to my eyes as I read it...

Where do I even begin. When I told you that me and your brother were getting married you and Latoya were both saying you were being flower girls, but I wasn't get let anyone rain on your parade other than the littles that will share it with you. I can't wait for you to shine with us. Dakiesha wrote this: Kent and Jodie were there for me in the saddest moment of mine and my son's life. Losing my momma felt like my heart was taken from my chest. My big brother stepped right in along with Jodie to make the process for me easier to handle. Kent and I used that time of sadness and made it a time to heal together. He and Jodie loved us through that hard time. I thank them so much for it. I got to know Jodie more and relearn my brother not through a young girl's eyes, but as a grown woman. I'm happy my brother as someone like Jodie. She has been a blessing to our family. She treats my son Khyren so sweet and anyone who knows me knows that if you are good to my child you're golden in my book. I'm grateful God has given my brother and I our special moments. Our bonding times that we've had so many since I moved to Washington. Having my cap full of crown while he teases me, while he has his glass of crown. Laughing and joking about the most random things. Everyone doesn't get sibling they talk to but I have a big brother that I get to love and a sister in love not law that Khyren and I appreciate so much. Proverbs 17:17 "A friend loves at all times and a brother is born for adversity." 1 John 4:21 "And he has given us this command. Anyone who loves God must also love their brother and sister."

I wouldn't get married without my two granddaughters there... these beautiful joys will be tossing the petals down the aisle. Zakiya has a smile and a heart of gold. When she was very little her mom would play this John Legend song and she would just burst into tears. I bet if we were to play it now she would do the same. She wears her heart on her sleeve and fills every room with warmth, laughter, and love. Her kind spirit and joyful energy remind me daily of what truly matters. Watching her excitement about being my flower girl melts my heart; she’s been sprinkling love and light in my life since the day she was born, and now she’ll be sprinkling petals down the aisle. Having her by my side on this special day makes it all the more magical.

I hope she doesn't get cold feet this time. Cause both of us are looking forward to having you toss those petals. This little rascal is full of piss and vinegar. If she had it her way she would be dressed as Chuckie's bride at the wedding, needless to say that is not happening. Full of energy, personality, and a spark that lights up every room she walks into! She keeps us all smiling with her quick wit, fearless spirit, and boundless imagination. There’s never a dull moment when she’s around, and I wouldn’t have it any other way. I’m so proud to have her as my flower girl, bringing her own special magic and charm to this day. I know she’ll steal the show (and everyone’s hearts) as she makes her way down the aisle!

My Cousin Kent!! It took probably 30 years to finally meet you. But once we did, it's like we have been knowing each other our whole lives. With you being the oldest grandson, and me being the youngest, only made our bond even more unbreakable. I can't wait to be there standing with you to help you across the finish line. Jack has always talked about you over the years. When I finally got to meet you all I could see why. I don't think I ever stopped smiling. He was so happy to have you here in his world finally. I only hope to have you all out here again real soon.

It wouldn't be a wedding without Patrick. You are one of a kind — funny, charismatic, and just the right amount of foolish to keep everyone laughing. He has a way of lighting up any room he walks into, turning even the simplest moment into something memorable. Beyond his humor and charm, what truly stands out is his genuine heart. He’s the kind of person who shows up for the people he loves, always ready with a helping hand, a kind word, or a joke at just the right time. His warmth and sincerity shine through in everything he does, and it’s clear how deeply he cares for family. Having him as my son-in-law is a gift, and having him as a groomsman on this special day feels so right — a reflection of the love, laughter, and connection that bind our family together. You came into our lives just about the same time Jack did. Brittani needed you like I needed Jack. I may not say it often, but I am truly honored to have you part of your family. Thank you back then and thank you today.

Kent and I go way back ___ though, to be honest, I was only about four when he packed up and moved to Seattle. When he left, I kind of took over his spot hanging out with our grandpa _____ big shoes to fill! Over the years, we'd catch up whenever he came to visit, and even if we weren't in touch all the time, we always picked up right where we left off. I'm really proud to be here today, standing up for him----even if he did leave me with all the chores back then. The other Jack Jr. Jack talks a lot about you. You have long conversations about hunting and just stuff. You laugh and yell and give each other crap, so of course you would be one of his guys.

Though he originally came into our lives as my son-in-law’s friend, he quickly became so much more — truly part of our family. Over the years, he’s joined us for holidays, family gatherings, and countless moments of laughter, adventure, and simple everyday joy. Whether it’s helping out, sharing a joke, or just being there when we need him, he has shown time and again that family isn’t just about blood — it’s about love, loyalty, and connection. His kindness, warmth, and fun-loving spirit have made him a cherished presence in our lives, and we’re so grateful for all the memories we’ve shared together. Having him stand as a groomsman on our wedding day feels completely natural, because he’s not just a friend — he’s family in every sense of the word. We can’t imagine this special day without him by our side, helping make it all the more memorable.

My handsome and incredibly smart nephew takes his job very seriously — he’s the official Ring Security for the big day! With his charm, quick thinking, and that confident smile, I know the rings are in the safest hands possible. He brings such joy and laughter to our family, always ready with a clever comment or a helping hand. Watching him grow into such a bright, kind young man has been such a blessing. Having him play this special role in our wedding means so much to me — he’s not just keeping the rings safe, he’s helping make memories we’ll cherish forever.

My amazing nephew is as smart as he is kind, and I couldn’t be prouder of the wonderful young man he’s becoming. He’s taking on a very important role in our big day as the Ring Security, making sure our precious rings stay safe and sound until the moment they’re needed. His thoughtful nature, gentle heart, and bright spirit bring so much joy to our family. He approaches everything he does with care and confidence — and I know he’ll carry out his special duties perfectly. Having him as part of our wedding day makes it even more meaningful, and I’m so grateful to share this moment with him by my side.

Kaidin is my first grandson and he stole my heart the very moment he came into this world, and he’s held it ever since. From his earliest days, he’s shown a warmth and gentleness that touches everyone around him. His kind heart shines through in everything he does — whether it’s his thoughtful words, his helping hands, or the quiet way he makes people feel loved and seen. He’s grown into such an incredible young man, full of compassion, humor, and grace, and I couldn’t be prouder of who he is. On my wedding day, he will have the great honor of walking me down the aisle — a moment that means more to me than words can express. Having his arm linked with mine as we take that walk together is a symbol of the deep bond we share, and a memory I will cherish in my heart forever.

Savion my grandson is another bright light in my life — sharp, determined, and full of promise. I always say he’s going to be President one day, because he has that perfect mix of intelligence, confidence, and compassion that makes true leaders shine. His keen mind and strong sense of purpose inspire everyone around him, and his heart is just as big as his dreams. On my wedding day, he’ll have the honor of walking me down the aisle, a moment that fills me with so much pride and joy. Having him by my side as I take this special step is a reminder of the love, strength, and hope that the next generation carries — and I know he’s destined to do incredible things.