Debra is Jon's aunt on his father's side, and lives up in San Francisco with Jon's uncle Jason and his cousin Jonathan. Debra has been like a second mom to Jon his whole life.

Bettina is technically Jon's cousin, but is really like a sister to Jon and Brad! She lives in Los Angeles with her husband Mauro, son Cayden (one of our ushers), and daughter Sienna (our flower girl).

Lynn is Brad's mom, inspiration, and who else but this fabulous and loving woman could walk him down the aisle? Lynn lives in Temecula with her husband and Brad's father, Bob.

Devin is Brad's sister and his first and oldest friend. She lives in Temecula with her husband Tim and sons James and Luke.

Bob is Brad's father, mentor, the first person he turns to for any problem or for advice (and garden tips too). When we were thinking about who best to marry us, the clear choice was Bob and Uncle Barry! Bob lives with Lynn in Temecula.

Barry is Jon's uncle on his father's side and has been like a father to Jon, and our other perfect choice to help marry us. Barry lives in New York with his wife, Aunt Margaret, and Jon's cousins Heather.

David and Jon have been the best of friends since they met in Fr. Lauderdale in 1997. They've remained close through all their moves to different cities and coasts, and David has remained a constant force in Jon's life. He now lives with his husband Jim, in Palm Springs.

Matt is Jon's first cousin and they practically grew up together, and was like a little brother to Jon growing up. He lives in New York with his three awesome boys Michael, John, and Tyler.

Jason and Jon met in 2005 back when they were both living in Hell's Kitchen in New York and discovered they were almost birthday twins. Their friendship remained close when Jason moved to LA long before Jon followed him. Jason lives with his husband Josh in Los Angeles.

Josh and Jon have been the closest of friends (and were fraternity brothers) since the day they met in college back in 1992. Josh moved to LA after college to start his career in entertainment and they really reconnected when Jon made it out here too. Josh lives in Los Angeles with his wife Danielle and their son Dylan.

Josh and Brad met in LA in 2005. Josh is like an older brother to Brad and been there for the good times and stuck by him in the bad ones. Josh lives in London with his husband Chris.

Jeremy and Brad met in Toronto in 2004. Brad's brother-from-another-mother, he also knows where all the bodies are buried. Jeremy lives in San Diego with his partner Nick.

Brad's little brother is actually almost a foot taller than him. From laser tag as kids, to Florida bar fights (almost) as adolescents, to sensible adulthood now, growing up together has been an adventure. Adam lives in Chicago with his wife Lisa and son Nico.

Tom and Brad met in 1998 when Tom made fun of Brad's running shoes, and have been close friends ever since, in spite of Tom living in the UK. Tom lives in Norfolk with his wife Lucy and children Isaac, Edward, and Josie.