RSVP date is May 23rd. You will respond by visiting the 'RSVP' tab on our website! Mail back RSVP will not be accepted. It is expected you RSVP online to be able to attend.

Things happen- we get it! Just reach out as soon as you can so we can plan accordingly. After the RSVP deadline, we will not be able to accommodate any changes. It is very important that you RSVP. If you end up not being able to attend please let us know at least 3 days prior to the wedding.

We would love to see our family and friends dressed up for the big day! We ask that you wear cocktail attire, men in suites and women in cocktail dresses. We kindly request no jeans or casual wear, khakis are okay. Any color is fine, as long as it is not white or green! Feel free to bring more comfortable shoes for the reception. Please see the Dress Code tab for ideas!

The ceremony and the reception will be indoors. There will be approximately 1–1.5 hours of free time between the ceremony and cocktail hour; during this interval we recommend exploring the Westport Plaza or taking time to relax before the celebration begins.

Unfortunately, we have strict guest list. Our celebration is strictly RSVP only. We will be only be able to accommodate those listed on your wedding invitation.

Invitations and RSVPs are specific and will include the names of the guests who are invited. Due to limited space, we will only be able to accommodate those guests formally invited on your wedding invitation.

Due to the limitations of our venue, we unfortunately have a limit to the rehearsal dinner guest list for those who will be playing a role in the ceremony. We apologize in advance for those who are not included.

Ceremony: Our Lady of the Pillar Catholic Church - More details will be disclosed after guests RSVP

Reception: Sheraton Westport Chalet Hotel - More details will be disclosed after guests RSVP

There are parking lots at both the church and the hotel. There is also a parking garage at the hotel. All parking is free.

Our ceremony will begin promptly so we kindly request that you arrive at least 15 minutes early to allow everyone time to get comfortable. Anyone who is late will be asked to stay in the cry room until the ceremony concludes. The cry room are to the left side of the entrance.

We are having an unplugged ceremony, meaning that once the ceremony begins, we ask that all phones be put away and silenced. We want everyone to be fully present and for our photographer to capture the best shots which we will share with you. Once the ceremony has concluded, please take as many photos as you’d like and don’t forget to share with us!

After the ceremony, the wedding party will be taking pictures for around 1 hour. There will be approximately 1–1.5 hours of free time between the ceremony and cocktail hour; during this interval we recommend exploring the Westport Plaza or taking time to relax before the celebration begins. Please note the couple and members of the wedding party may not be present for the entire cocktail hour.

All the times and locations will be listed on the wedding home page once your RSVP is submitted.

Yes, there are ramps at the church and elevators at the hotel.

No formal transportation will be provided on the day of the wedding. Guests should arrange their own travel to Our Lady of the Pilar Catholic Church for the ceremony and onward to the Sheraton Westport Chalet Hotel for the reception.

Yes, a plated dinner will be served after the cocktail hour. (Time TBD) It is expected that you put any dietary restrictions on your RSVP. Dinner will include a salad, 12oz of protein , 1 vegetable, 1 potato, and bread. Dinner menu will be announced closer to time of RSVP.

Yes we will be able to accommodate any dietary restrictions as long as it is noted when you RSVP.

There will be a limited selection of liquor, beer, wine, and soft dinks. There will be special bride and groom cocktails to enjoy! You may not bring outside liquor in. The bar is an open bar. There will also be four butler passed appetizers to enjoy as well. Please feel free to bring cash to tip our great bartenders!

The bar will close during the hour of dinner. Wine will be served during dinner along with water. The bar will reopen shortly after dinner, during dancing!

We are registered at Crate and Barrel and Amazon. More information can be found on the website under the Registry Tab.

There will be a gift table and card box at the reception, but mailing something from the registry is also super convenient- it already includes our shipping info.

We recommend flying into the St. Louis (STL) Airport.

Please see the Travel tab for this information!

Please see the Travel tab for this information!

We would love to share some of our favorite things to do in St. Louis with you! Please see the Thing To Do & Places to Eat tabs on the website for more information!