For James, it was love at first sight when he first saw Kristina on the basketball courts at the Dewing Elementary School during recess in the second grade but was very shy at the time and didnât speak a single word to her. It wasnât until middle school that he finally had enough courage to start talking with Kristina and they became fast friends.
As time passed, they embarked on their own journeys of learning life lessons and growing as people. Throughout all this time they remained friends. As other friendships came and went, Kristina and James knew that their friendship was special and made the active choice to stay in one anotherâs lives, whether it be by being a listening ear, sharing an encouraging word, showing support and providing a shoulder when needed, or simply spending time laughing, talking, and showing mutual respect and admiration for the other and the friendship that they had.
In the summer of 2025 while Kristina was training for her physical fitness test. James was in the process of selling his house and moving up to New Hampshire. At the most unlikely (and possibly inconvenient) time imaginable, the stars aligned. Kristina texted and asked if he wanted to come over and go for a walk. James never worked from home, but because of work being done at his house (chance, if chance you call it), that particular day he was not in the office so he stopped working a little early and joined her for a walk- where he was quickly reminded of her exceptional aerobic capacity and ability to talk, both up and downhill, even with a weighted vest.
From that day on, something felt different, though neither of them wanted to risk their years of friendship by expressing these feelings. Life had led them down some windy roads over the years, but it was these times and experiences they had, both together and apart, that built them into the people they are- not perfect, but perfect for each other.
Realizing they both felt the same way, the transition from friends to more was the easiest and most natural thing in the world. Kristina and James continued to spend as much time as possible together- talking, laughing, and having more fun just because the other was right there.
Kristina often smiles and tells James, âevery day with you is the new best day.â Little did she know, he had been waiting for these âbest daysâ since the second grade and the bond they share has proven to him that they are even more wonderful than he could have ever imagined.James loved to read about fairy tales and stories of hope and love, wondering if they were just made-up concepts or tales passed through time. With Kristina, however, he knew that he had finally found his own true real-life fairytale.
In January of 2026, they went on a cruise where James made his âtrue love vowâ to Kristina during a karaoke duet of âSummer Nightsâ and he proposed. They are both so excited about the journey ahead- to spend the rest of their lives together, as best friends, as teammates, and as husband and wife.
We cannot wait to celebrate with you on our special day! The wedding dress code is formal attire. Please wear a suit of any color, nice cocktail dress or a pantsuit.
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For your convenience, a block of rooms has been reserved at the Hilton Garden Inn in Tewksbury. For bookings you may click this link or call 978-640-9000 and mention the McDermott-Petrie wedding for a discounted rate.
Schedueled transportation from the hotel to and from the venue and afterparty is listed below.
Charter to depart from the Hilton Garden Inn to Long Meadow Golf Club at 3:00 P.M.
Charter to depart from the Long Meadow Golf Club to the Hilton Garden Inn following reception at 10:00 P.M.
Charter will take guests attending the afterparty to 60 Germano Drive (Bride's Residence) following this stop.
Charter to depart at 12:00 A.M. from the afterparty location to the Hilton Garden Inn with last drop-off at the wedding venue- Long Meadow Golf Club.