Yes, the drinks are on us and the hangover is on you-get ready to celebrate!

We would love to see our family and friends get dressed up with us! We are requesting a semi-formal dress code for our evening. (Please do not wear jeans or white).

We love all of your little ones. However, we decided to keep our ceremony and reception an adult-only event. The only exception are the little ones participating in our wedding/immediate family). All invitations will be specific and will include names of the children who are invited. We appreciate you making arrangements ahead of time and leaving the kids at home so you can celebrate with us. Hopefully you enjoy a night off!

If you received a plus one, your guest's name is listed on your invitation and will appear under your name when you RSVP. Otherwise, we would love to keep the wedding as an intimate event with close friends and family. Please ensure that you are RSVPing for yourself & your guest. Due to limited space, we are only able to accommodate those guests formally invited on your wedding invitation. We ask you to please respect this.

Please RSVP no later than July 20th. If you are unable to make it, your presence will surely be missed. Please RSVP "Regretfully Decline." If we do not receive an RSVP back by the deadline we will assume you are unable to make it and you will be marked as "not attending." The reason for this being that we must provide accurate guest counts to all our vendors within a timely manner. We hope you understand and we can't wait to see you on our big day!

The reception is at St. Mary's Catholic Church in Clayton, NY. There is plenty of parking at the church. Please arrive at least 15 minutes prior in order to find parking and to find a seat. The reception is held at Angel Rock in Cape Vincent, this is about 13 minutes away (10 miles). There is plenty of parking in the grass on the left side of the house and barn. Those who have cottages for the weekend are also welcome to walk over.

We are having an "unplugged" ceremony, w which means no photos! We ask all guests to follow this and be completely present during our special time. Our hired professionals will be doing the photo taking during that time. Feel free to take all the photos you like after the ceremony is complete!

Your presence is enough of a present to us! But if you feel inclined to give more, we have set up a honeymoon fund. We have so much for our house already and we would rather spend our time making memories in an once in a lifetime trip out of the country. We have booked our honeymoon a couple days following our wedding in Aruba. This honeymoon fund is set up through venmo and there are no extra fees withjoy.com. Cash and checks are appreciate as well. You can find this on our wedding website by hitting the registry button. Nothing at all is expected. Thank you in advance!

YES we do! As long as it is after the c ceremony. Please use #OnceUponAThomas when posting any pictures on social media so we can see them too!