Kyle & Darienne

September 13, 2025 • Olean, NY, United States
132 Days To Go!

Kyle & Darienne

September 13, 2025 • Olean, NY, United States
132 Days To Go!

Our Story

And the rest was history...

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Riding in Dad's truck, I tolerate rock and roll music and a conversation about politics. Annoying and comforting, those things. Because I affectionately associate them with him.


“Well, you need to understand these things if you’re going to be doing business in the future,” he makes a final point.


“Yeah, but you don’t understand….” I counter his argument; an oldest daughter kind of thing to do.


We take a left into the parking lot for the fields. He parks far away so his truck won’t get hit by home run balls. I throw the door open, descending from the truck what feels like a thousand feet. A sprinkle falls from the sky, so I grab my umbrella and hope it doesn’t get too bad.


I plant my chair on the first-base side, near the dugout, leaving room for my grandparent’s chairs. Looking around, I see people from Dad’s team filing into the dugout with their gear and coolers. Idly, I wonder about Kyle McGraw, the boy I saw at a bonfire only a few days ago.


Do you know Kyle McGraw? He’s a really good kid. Dad had said to me out of the blue, a month ago, from the living room couch. Truth is, I did know Kyle, but barely. And we didn’t talk much at the bonfire the other night anyhow.


“Hi Darienne.” I look up from my phone and see my grandma, setting down her chair next to mine. “How are you sweetie?” I give her a hug and let her know I’m doing fine.


“Hi Papa,” I turn to Papa Mike, giving him a hug too. He leans in, so he can whisper in my ear. I already know what he’s going to say.


“Did I tell you I loved you today?” He whispers. I giggle and nod my head ‘no.’ “I love you today,” he tells me. We’ve greeted each other like this since I was a little girl.


We make small talk as we wait for the rest of the players to arrive. I check my social media to pass the time, and a collection of voices catches my attention. Looking up, a few familiar figures make the long walk from the parking lot. It is Kyle McGraw, Brady Zambanini, and Zach Jordan. All three of the boys were at the bonfire. My heart races a little. I shift in my seat, sitting up straighter.


They walk into the dugout wearing everyday clothes, walking out in their baseball uniforms a few minutes later. In order to get to right field for warmups, they have to pass by our chairs. Kyle’s all-white baseball pants have significant dirt stains…reminding me that Dad also said he was a great athlete. He slows down as he nears my chair and stops. I smile, nervously.


“Hey, how are you?” He asks me with his own heart-stopping smile.


“Hey! I’m good, how are you?”


“Not bad, just tired! We just got back from Geneva this morning and barely made it on time,” he says. That would account for showing up undressed. I think to myself.


“Oh gotcha, I used to live there last summer! I worked for my uncle at his restaurant.” The words sound stupid coming out of my mouth; I can feel my face flush.


“That’s awesome! It’s a nice area,” he comments.


“Yeah, so are you going to hit a home run today?” I make my best effort to flirt.


“I guess we’ll see.” He flashes that smile again before heading to right field. My mind replays our conversation multiple times before he makes it over there. Grandma Lou gives me a look with raised eyebrows. I know what she’s thinking because I’m thinking it too.


The game begins, and it isn’t long before Kyle hits an inside the park home run. Well, Dad was right. I think to myself as he swiftly rounds third base. Dad follows his lead by knocking one out of the park a few batters later.


What was a slight drizzle, becomes a downpour. I shift around in the folding chair to stay dry underneath its hood. The chair does not offer much respite. With soaking wet pants and frizzy hair, my mood dampens.


“Well, who are you trying to impress anyway?” Grandma Lou asks.


“Actually, that guy who came to talk to me at the beginning of the game,” I admit with a laugh.


The game ends, and I rush to the truck to wait for Dad. In the passenger seat, I stare at the raindrops on the windshield.


Will anything become of that small conversation?

the shortest recap we can give of seven years of the greatest love we've ever known...

Our first date that started on Cuba Lake and ended at the Portville Drive-In...a 14 hour, marathon date!

June 15, 2018

Our first date that started on Cuba Lake and ended at the Portville Drive-In...a 14 hour, marathon date!
The summer we fell in love on Cuba Lake.

July 01, 2018

The summer we fell in love on Cuba Lake.
In the Allegany parade, riding in Frank Snyder's 1965 Ford mustang!

July 07, 2018

In the Allegany parade, riding in Frank Snyder's 1965 Ford mustang!
The day Kyle asked Darienne to be his girlfriend at the Yankees game in Cleveland, OH!

July 13, 2018

The day Kyle asked Darienne to be his girlfriend at the Yankees game in Cleveland, OH!
Proof of the heart-stopping smile. Mickey's softball team 2018.

August 14, 2018

Proof of the heart-stopping smile. Mickey's softball team 2018.
Spending time on the front porch of Kyle's senior year college house, Lighthouse!

August 21, 2018

Spending time on the front porch of Kyle's senior year college house, Lighthouse!
Kyle carves our initials into a tree in Rushford, NY!

September 15, 2018

Kyle carves our initials into a tree in Rushford, NY!
Our first Thanksgiving together!

November 23, 2018

Our first Thanksgiving together!
Our first Bill's game!

November 25, 2018

Our first Bill's game!
Christmas 2018...making Christmas cookies at Darienne's parent's house with her mom and cousin Panya May.

December 21, 2018

Christmas 2018...making Christmas cookies at Darienne's parent's house with her mom and cousin Panya May.
Our first Christmas!

December 24, 2018

Our first Christmas!
Kyle visiting Darienne while she studied abroad in London, England.

March 18, 2019

Kyle visiting Darienne while she studied abroad in London, England.
Kyle's college graduation from St. Bonaventure University. 

After graduation, Kyle and Darienne would move in together with Darienne's uncles and work at their restaurant in Geneva, NY for the summer while Kyle applied for police opportunities.

May 19, 2019

Kyle's college graduation from St. Bonaventure University. After graduation, Kyle and Darienne would move in together with Darienne's uncles and work at their restaurant in Geneva, NY for the summer while Kyle applied for police opportunities.
If you know us, you know we love karaoke! We discovered our mutual love of karaoke the summer of 2019 when we lived together in Geneva, NY.

June 10, 2019

If you know us, you know we love karaoke! We discovered our mutual love of karaoke the summer of 2019 when we lived together in Geneva, NY.
Discovering downtown D.C. during the weekend Kyle went to process for Fairfax County Police, early in the interview stages!

July 17, 2019

Discovering downtown D.C. during the weekend Kyle went to process for Fairfax County Police, early in the interview stages!
A sweet end to a lovely summer working together as servers for Uncle Troy and Uncle Mike at the Beef n' Brew. Kyle would continue to work there while Darienne headed back to college in the fall.

August 09, 2019

A sweet end to a lovely summer working together as servers for Uncle Troy and Uncle Mike at the Beef n' Brew. Kyle would continue to work there while Darienne headed back to college in the fall.
More memories at Cuba Lake for Lake Week 2019!

August 11, 2019

More memories at Cuba Lake for Lake Week 2019!
Christmas #2! Feeling very lucky that our families lived all within 20 minutes of each other so we could celebrate with everyone.

December 25, 2019

Christmas #2! Feeling very lucky that our families lived all within 20 minutes of each other so we could celebrate with everyone.
We begin to do long distance while Kyle moves to Virginia, living with good friends Roger and Sam Dean, to begin the Fairfax Police Academy and Darienne finishes up her last semester of St. John Fisher College.

February 13, 2020

We begin to do long distance while Kyle moves to Virginia, living with good friends Roger and Sam Dean, to begin the Fairfax Police Academy and Darienne finishes up her last semester of St. John Fisher College.
Darienne visits Kyle in Virginia, spending time with Darienne's cousins, Ryan and Jess Baker and kiddos Marlee and Max who live nearby in Charles Town, WV.

March 01, 2020

Darienne visits Kyle in Virginia, spending time with Darienne's cousins, Ryan and Jess Baker and kiddos Marlee and Max who live nearby in Charles Town, WV.
Kyle's first day of Fairfax Police Academy!

March 02, 2020

Kyle's first day of Fairfax Police Academy!
Darienne graduates from St. John Fisher College from home due to COVID-19!

May 09, 2020

Darienne graduates from St. John Fisher College from home due to COVID-19!
Only 6 short days after graduating college and in the thick of COVID-19, Darienne packs up and moves down to Virginia into our first apartment in Chantilly, VA!

May 15, 2020

Only 6 short days after graduating college and in the thick of COVID-19, Darienne packs up and moves down to Virginia into our first apartment in Chantilly, VA!
We adopt Tuscan Herb!

June 03, 2020

We adopt Tuscan Herb!
Kyle graduates Fairfax Police Academy in August of 2020!

August 27, 2020

Kyle graduates Fairfax Police Academy in August of 2020!
The only proof that Darienne worked for Wegmans in the bakery from May  - September 2020...an essential business during the pandemic when all other job leads were nonexistent.

September 24, 2020

The only proof that Darienne worked for Wegmans in the bakery from May - September 2020...an essential business during the pandemic when all other job leads were nonexistent.
After leaving Wegmans, Darienne became a nanny to two sweet girls, Virginia and Jolene Robinson.

December 23, 2020

After leaving Wegmans, Darienne became a nanny to two sweet girls, Virginia and Jolene Robinson.
Christmas #3 in our very own place.

December 24, 2020

Christmas #3 in our very own place.
Kyle turns 24 and the start of Dare's new tradition of making him a special cake for each birthday!

February 04, 2021

Kyle turns 24 and the start of Dare's new tradition of making him a special cake for each birthday!
And so begins 2021, slowly, with trips back home to NY while Dare continues to nanny and Kyle works the night shift.

February 14, 2021

And so begins 2021, slowly, with trips back home to NY while Dare continues to nanny and Kyle works the night shift.
Darienne gets her first corporate job at G.A. Rogers & Associates/Pridestaff to begin her career in Human Resources!

April 30, 2021

Darienne gets her first corporate job at G.A. Rogers & Associates/Pridestaff to begin her career in Human Resources!
Dare turns 23 & Kyle makes her a cute little cake (with sprinkles like she asked of course lol).

May 30, 2021

Dare turns 23 & Kyle makes her a cute little cake (with sprinkles like she asked of course lol).
Our household grows by one sweet Cruiser Blue!

June 18, 2021

Our household grows by one sweet Cruiser Blue!
Kyle and Dare make more memories in the second summer on their Sunday Fundays softball team. Our first real friends in Virginia.

June 28, 2021

Kyle and Dare make more memories in the second summer on their Sunday Fundays softball team. Our first real friends in Virginia.
Lake Week 2021...much needed family time after a year off in 2020.

August 14, 2021

Lake Week 2021...much needed family time after a year off in 2020.
Dare gets her official St. John Fisher College graduation ceremony!

September 17, 2021

Dare gets her official St. John Fisher College graduation ceremony!
Dare starts her new job at Stillwater Human Capital as a Jr. Human Resources Generalist, working under HR Director Stephanie Poe, a great mentor and now even greater friend.

October 04, 2021

Dare starts her new job at Stillwater Human Capital as a Jr. Human Resources Generalist, working under HR Director Stephanie Poe, a great mentor and now even greater friend.
What started as a quiet year did not end so! We purchased our home in a quick two-week turnaround from initial viewing to closing day! Pictured here is the day we moved in on a perfect November afternoon.

November 01, 2021

What started as a quiet year did not end so! We purchased our home in a quick two-week turnaround from initial viewing to closing day! Pictured here is the day we moved in on a perfect November afternoon.
Darienne's cousin Megan moves in with us to discover if she likes living in Virginia and explore new job opportunities!

November 12, 2021

Darienne's cousin Megan moves in with us to discover if she likes living in Virginia and explore new job opportunities!
Our fourth Christmas together, elated in our new home.

December 25, 2021

Our fourth Christmas together, elated in our new home.
If not at the Baker's house, you could find us enjoying Bills games away from home at Bills Backers bars! Pictured here at The Copper Still in West Virginia.

January 15, 2022

If not at the Baker's house, you could find us enjoying Bills games away from home at Bills Backers bars! Pictured here at The Copper Still in West Virginia.
2022 will be known as the year of home projects! Thankfully for us, Kyle's ability to do them all himself has made our place upgrade from a house to a home.

February 02, 2022

2022 will be known as the year of home projects! Thankfully for us, Kyle's ability to do them all himself has made our place upgrade from a house to a home.
Kyle's 25th birthday and the first of the oreo cake series!

February 04, 2022

Kyle's 25th birthday and the first of the oreo cake series!
Grateful to spend holidays like Easter with our family in West Virginia.

April 17, 2022

Grateful to spend holidays like Easter with our family in West Virginia.
The end of the evening of our house-warming party with new friends and neighbors!

April 23, 2022

The end of the evening of our house-warming party with new friends and neighbors!
In addition to indoor home projects, Kyle was rarely bored as he aimed to make our rocky mountain top resemble a patch of grass at a golf course.

June 08, 2022

In addition to indoor home projects, Kyle was rarely bored as he aimed to make our rocky mountain top resemble a patch of grass at a golf course.
Kyle building Darienne the porch swing of her dreams...all because she mentioned it one time in passing.

September 01, 2022

Kyle building Darienne the porch swing of her dreams...all because she mentioned it one time in passing.
The start of the next Bills season at the Bakers! We were so excited to make this helmet cake after finding the cake mold at a yard sale over the summer.

September 08, 2022

The start of the next Bills season at the Bakers! We were so excited to make this helmet cake after finding the cake mold at a yard sale over the summer.
Could it get any more perfect than this?

September 09, 2022

Could it get any more perfect than this?
Kyle begins the process to become a Motors Officer with Fairfax County! A very big step for him in his career and exciting moment in our relationship because the change would mean a regular M-F schedule and a take home vehicle (yep, that means he would start riding a motorcycle 50 miles one way to work every day no matter the weather!).

September 19, 2022

Kyle begins the process to become a Motors Officer with Fairfax County! A very big step for him in his career and exciting moment in our relationship because the change would mean a regular M-F schedule and a take home vehicle (yep, that means he would start riding a motorcycle 50 miles one way to work every day no matter the weather!).
We hosted a Christmas party complete with corny/competitive games! Attendees included new friends, co-workers, and neighbors. Front Royal started to feel like home!

December 03, 2022

We hosted a Christmas party complete with corny/competitive games! Attendees included new friends, co-workers, and neighbors. Front Royal started to feel like home!
Christmas year number five...photos taken at the Winchester walking mall with Darienne's cousin Megan and her new boyfriend (now fiance), Rudy.

December 25, 2022

Christmas year number five...photos taken at the Winchester walking mall with Darienne's cousin Megan and her new boyfriend (now fiance), Rudy.
Kyle turns 26! This year's oreo cake is a top and bottom layer of dark chocolate cake with a middle layer split between a birthday cake oreo and java chip oreo cake each with their own flavored buttercream!

February 04, 2023

Kyle turns 26! This year's oreo cake is a top and bottom layer of dark chocolate cake with a middle layer split between a birthday cake oreo and java chip oreo cake each with their own flavored buttercream!
Darienne, Kyle, Megan, and Rudy head off to adult prom in Strasburg, VA!

March 31, 2023

Darienne, Kyle, Megan, and Rudy head off to adult prom in Strasburg, VA!
Darienne goes on a "girl's trip" with cousins Panya and Megan to Bristol, Tennessee/Virginia. The city is split between the two states!

April 14, 2023

Darienne goes on a "girl's trip" with cousins Panya and Megan to Bristol, Tennessee/Virginia. The city is split between the two states!
The "girl's trip" turned into Darienne's favorite story to tell...the proposal story! Thanks to Megan, Panya, and Megan's fiance Rudy, Kyle managed to completely surprise Darienne at a winery in Bristol.

April 15, 2023

The "girl's trip" turned into Darienne's favorite story to tell...the proposal story! Thanks to Megan, Panya, and Megan's fiance Rudy, Kyle managed to completely surprise Darienne at a winery in Bristol.
After the surprise proposal, Kyle and Dare celebrated with a nice dinner and calling their closest friends and family. We quickly decided that we were going to savor the titles of fiance for over two years, deciding to have a wedding in September of 2025.

April 15, 2023

After the surprise proposal, Kyle and Dare celebrated with a nice dinner and calling their closest friends and family. We quickly decided that we were going to savor the titles of fiance for over two years, deciding to have a wedding in September of 2025.
We go on a trip out west, hitting up Las Vegas, Zion National Park, the Grand Canyon, and Phoenix, AZ. 

Pictured here as we start our hike to the bottom of the grand canyon at 6AM...coming all the way back up the other side in 9.5 hours! Truly one of the hardest things we've ever done!!

May 07, 2023

We go on a trip out west, hitting up Las Vegas, Zion National Park, the Grand Canyon, and Phoenix, AZ. Pictured here as we start our hike to the bottom of the grand canyon at 6AM...coming all the way back up the other side in 9.5 hours! Truly one of the hardest things we've ever done!!
Cuba Lake week 2023!

July 14, 2023

Cuba Lake week 2023!
Started out on this lake as friends, returning as fiances. We HAD to take some celebratory photos. See the full gallery in the "Our Photos" page. 

Courtesy of Rae Fitzsimmons and Darienne's mom, Valerie.

July 17, 2023

Started out on this lake as friends, returning as fiances. We HAD to take some celebratory photos. See the full gallery in the "Our Photos" page. Courtesy of Rae Fitzsimmons and Darienne's mom, Valerie.
Another year, another motorcycle rodeo! Kyle won second place in the novice division this year...we are always so proud.

August 26, 2023

Another year, another motorcycle rodeo! Kyle won second place in the novice division this year...we are always so proud.
Kyle goes viral on TikTok for the building of our catio! 6.6 million views!! lol

August 26, 2023

Kyle goes viral on TikTok for the building of our catio! 6.6 million views!! lol
An unexpected vacation to Holden Beach, North Carolina with Darienne's mom Valerie, Darienne's Aunt Pam and Aunt Lani. We both agree this is one of our favorite trips ever. 

Darienne can still remember having a conversation with her mom and aunts about how two years felt so far away for our wedding during this trip. But as we all know, time sure flies!

September 05, 2023

An unexpected vacation to Holden Beach, North Carolina with Darienne's mom Valerie, Darienne's Aunt Pam and Aunt Lani. We both agree this is one of our favorite trips ever. Darienne can still remember having a conversation with her mom and aunts about how two years felt so far away for our wedding during this trip. But as we all know, time sure flies!
Christmas-time back at the Winchester Mall! This would be our sixth Christmas together.

December 09, 2023

Christmas-time back at the Winchester Mall! This would be our sixth Christmas together.
Kyle turns 27! This year's cake is an ice cream oreo cake! The best one to-date.

February 04, 2024

Kyle turns 27! This year's cake is an ice cream oreo cake! The best one to-date.
We go to a Dan+Shay concert and get to sing and dance to our wedding song in person. We can't wait for you to hear it too!

March 01, 2024

We go to a Dan+Shay concert and get to sing and dance to our wedding song in person. We can't wait for you to hear it too!
The NOVA Motors Rodeo 2024 was significant because it was the start of building close relationships among the newer officers and their wives. We are so excited that some will be able to come all the way up to NY to celebrate with us!!

April 20, 2024

The NOVA Motors Rodeo 2024 was significant because it was the start of building close relationships among the newer officers and their wives. We are so excited that some will be able to come all the way up to NY to celebrate with us!!
Kyle's third year playing for the Police Department during the annual Fire v. Police Hockey Tournament. Kyle scored this game to help the PD win 5 - 1!!

May 18, 2024

Kyle's third year playing for the Police Department during the annual Fire v. Police Hockey Tournament. Kyle scored this game to help the PD win 5 - 1!!
Dare turns 26 and we spend the evening with our sweet wedding photographer, Madison Snowden and her husband Isaac taking engagement photos! The pair invited us to their AirBnb where they cooked us dinner and even had special cupcakes for Darienne! Could not recommend them more for any wedding or event.

May 30, 2024

Dare turns 26 and we spend the evening with our sweet wedding photographer, Madison Snowden and her husband Isaac taking engagement photos! The pair invited us to their AirBnb where they cooked us dinner and even had special cupcakes for Darienne! Could not recommend them more for any wedding or event.
The second set of our engagement shoot at the retro AirBnb in Luray, VA! To see more of the gallery, go to the Photos page.

May 30, 2024

The second set of our engagement shoot at the retro AirBnb in Luray, VA! To see more of the gallery, go to the Photos page.
Kyle and Darienne are surprised with an engagement party during Cuba Lake Week 2024! We were sent out on a scavenger hunt all over town, only to be picked up by boat and brought back to the cottage to a house full of people we love, decorations, and yummy treats.

July 06, 2024

Kyle and Darienne are surprised with an engagement party during Cuba Lake Week 2024! We were sent out on a scavenger hunt all over town, only to be picked up by boat and brought back to the cottage to a house full of people we love, decorations, and yummy treats.
The engagement party included "The Nearlyweds Game" hosted by the one and only Best Man, Josh McGraw. We had a BLAST with this one...memories for life.

July 06, 2024

The engagement party included "The Nearlyweds Game" hosted by the one and only Best Man, Josh McGraw. We had a BLAST with this one...memories for life.
Between Darienne's mom, Valerie, and Kyle's mom, Annette, the couple has the highest example of love and party planning to live up to!

July 06, 2024

Between Darienne's mom, Valerie, and Kyle's mom, Annette, the couple has the highest example of love and party planning to live up to!
Cuba Lake Week 2024 was packed with wedding activities...Darienne asked some of her favorite girls to be her bridesmaids that weekend! Pictured here are bridesmaids, Megan, Rae, Panya, Piper, and Makayla.

July 08, 2024

Cuba Lake Week 2024 was packed with wedding activities...Darienne asked some of her favorite girls to be her bridesmaids that weekend! Pictured here are bridesmaids, Megan, Rae, Panya, Piper, and Makayla.
6 years to the exact date that Kyle carved our initials into this tree in Rushford, NY, we revisited it for the first time! Scroll back up to see the original photo if you missed it!

September 15, 2024

6 years to the exact date that Kyle carved our initials into this tree in Rushford, NY, we revisited it for the first time! Scroll back up to see the original photo if you missed it!
Kyle and Dare show off our dance moves at our close friends, Tyler and Carianne Paar's wedding! You can bet we will be dancing all night long at our wedding, especially with cousin DJ Ryan behind the speakers!!

October 13, 2024

Kyle and Dare show off our dance moves at our close friends, Tyler and Carianne Paar's wedding! You can bet we will be dancing all night long at our wedding, especially with cousin DJ Ryan behind the speakers!!
We host Friendsgiving at our house with the motors crew. We forgot to take a photo with the whole group but can't stress enough how grateful we've been for building these friendships in 2024!

November 24, 2024

We host Friendsgiving at our house with the motors crew. We forgot to take a photo with the whole group but can't stress enough how grateful we've been for building these friendships in 2024!
Christmas 2024...we host Darienne's bridesmaid Kirstin Best and her husband Matthew.

December 21, 2024

Christmas 2024...we host Darienne's bridesmaid Kirstin Best and her husband Matthew.
We spend our evening deep in a gingerbread decorating contest and making Christmas cookies!

December 22, 2024

We spend our evening deep in a gingerbread decorating contest and making Christmas cookies!
We ring in the New Year with close friends at home! Welcome, 2025 and all of the good things to come...let's get married!!

December 31, 2024

We ring in the New Year with close friends at home! Welcome, 2025 and all of the good things to come...let's get married!!