Kyndal never liked beards and really didn't want to take environmental science class. Kevin had a thing for auburn hair and really wanted to take environmental science class. Due to a scheduling mistake, the brunette girl ended up sitting next to the bearded boy, and both thought, huh, actually kind of cute. Neither managed to get college credit for that class, but they got something more long-lasting: a connection. That was August 2013; we started dating in January, and look where we are now!

How have we stayed together this long and still want to be together? Easy peasy. Just remember that:

* Being kind is more important than being correct.

* It's not me versus you; it's us versus the problem.

* Don't attribute to malice what could be a misunderstanding. To find out, talk it out.

* The best apology is changed behavior.

* If you have a complaint, say it nicely. If you can't, take time to calm down. Corollary: give each other time to calm down.

* Uncommunicated expectations are premeditated resentments. What someone should know is most often what they don't, so speak up.

* Don't rush milestones, but do live with each other before marriage. We learn each other's habits, what we need to work on, and if there are deal-breakers.