It's June 23rd and you're getting dressed and need to confirm your clothes are okay or you're in the Uber and the driver's just idling until you enter the ceremony destination.

It's okay, we understand and we're going to help you out with the information below.

The ceremony will take place at The 1909 at 4PM. The reception will immediately follow at the same location.

The address is 1909 N Topanga Canyon Blvd, Topanga, CA 90290.

Our venue, The 1909, is located in Topanga Canyon. If you’re not familiar with Topanga Canyon, it’s halfway between The Valley (as in, where Cher was when she wore her Alaia) and Malibu (as in, Barbie) and it’s very pretty, but it’s also about as remote as you can get in Los Angeles. A few things to know:

-Please be aware that cell service is spotty at best (although Paul emphatically insists that his T-Mobile worked perfectly fine there, and if you do choose to switch carriers before the wedding for this reason please mention the code “Paul’s Wedding" at the T-Mobile store - neither you or he will get anything for this, but it would be funny to do anyway).

-The ceremony and dinner will take place at the bottom of a hill (a valley? a ravine? a gorge?), so please be aware that there are a number of steps to be tackled, but an incredibly chic Smart Car can be provided as an alternative means down if stairs are no good for you.

Semi-formal/cocktail attire (for an inspiring example, please see the ladies of The O.C., above, serving mid-2000s cocktail attire and timeless smoldering looks)

Expect temperatures in the high 70s to 80s with a potential drop down to low 60s once the sun sets. Cocktail hour and dinner will be held outdoors on grass, so stilettos are not recommended.