Cagneys Restarunt 

Ceremony 

Cavern Club 

Reception 

Our Wedding

We met in 2016, and from the very beginning, fate decided to test our commitment-early. On the day of our first date, Lucio's nephew, Baby G, decided it was also his BIRTHDAY. JJ was pretty sure the date was getting canceled. Spoiler alert: it didn't. Lucio showed up and this date was happening!Since that night, we've been inseparable. We've shared countless adventures, from traveling the world discovering amazing wines (purely for research purposes, of course). Along the way, we've built a life centered around laughter, family, exploration, and a love that keeps getting stronger.We are best friends in every sense-equal parts love, laughter, and the occasional stubborn debate (because yes, older people are stubborn). But through it all, we choose each other every day. Our love is steady, joyful, and full of heart- and we can't wait to celebrate it with you all.

Our LOVE Story

Our Story

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RaeAnn and I have been best friends since the moment we met back in 2004, when we were in the same GoDaddy training class. (Yes, destiny clearly worked in corporate onboarding.) From day one, we just clicked! The kind of friendship where laughter comes easily and stopping once it starts is..........optional at best. 


Over the years, we've traveled the world together, cruise the seas together, and somehow managed to turn the most ordinary moments into laugh-until-you-cant-breathe once.  RaeAnn has an impressive and unwavering inability to clap on beat or keep time with music! That has never stopped her from trying. Repeatedly, with confidence. She has been my ride or die since nearly day 1 and is one of those rare people that can make me giggle over absolutely nothing. Life is louder, funnier, and infinitely better with her in it. I can't imaging standing at the altar without her there. 


RaeAnn Gonzales

Vanessa and I have been friends since our CNA days and her Finding Nemo room days, when life was simpler and our biggest responsibility was deciding where the party was next. We won't say how long ago that was, but lets just say we went from dancing on tables and surviving on two hours of sleep...to needing beauty sleep, inhalers, snacks and a solid nap before leaving the house. She has always been my ride or die, my voice of reason (because someone had to be) and forever my travel buddy--even now that JJ and I popped her international cherry. We've officially traded club lights for cruise lights, swapping dance floors for open seas...usually with her side piece Denise along the adventure (who we also love and adore). 

Vanessa knows way too much about me- information we both lovingly hold as mutual "don't try me" material. But more than anything, she's loyal, hilarious and has been a constant through every chapter of my life. I couldn't imagine standing there without her. So lucky to be standing up there with our plus 3. 

Vanessa Frias 

Who better than to marry us than our good friend Jose Marcelino. Jose and JJ have known each other for over 10+ years. I came in the picture and met Jose in South Africa in 2017, I instantly knew he was a keeper, when I heard his stories about his layover in NYC and Barcelona. (Don't ASK) it's not PG-13. From this day forward, we have bounded and my love for Jose grew. JJ did say, you will love him. Again, this time JJ was not wrong. Jose has been a constant throughout our relationship. Whenever you need a good time, Jose is the MAN. Just give a girl advance notice. Thank you for your constant support and a HUGE shout out to Miles with Detours Gay Travel for getting us all together and having a friendship this long with Jose. 

JJ and I love you to the moon and back Jose!!! 

Jose Marcelino

Wedding Party

“Elevated casual” means polished and intentional, but not formal. Think nice restaurant / stylish celebration, not office casual and definitely not backyard barbecue.For women: A mid or knee-length dress, stylish jumpsuit, dressy separates, or a polished skirt/blouse combination. Fabrics and prints can be relaxed and colorful—florals are great. Dressy sandals, flats, wedges, or heels all work. A floor-length gown is unnecessary.For men: Chinos, nice jeans or dress trousers with a button-down shirt, polo, or similarly collared shirt. A blazer is welcome but not required, and neither is a tie. Loafers, leather shoes, suede shoes, or modern sneakers can work depending on the outfit.

Dress Code

Q + A

To&nbsp;keep&nbsp;things&nbsp;simple&nbsp;and&nbsp;flexible,&nbsp;we&nbsp;will&nbsp;not&nbsp;be&nbsp;holding&nbsp;a&nbsp;room&nbsp;block.&nbsp;Guest&nbsp;are&nbsp;invited&nbsp;to&nbsp;book&nbsp;their&nbsp;hotel&nbsp;accommodations&nbsp;directly&nbsp;with&nbsp;DoubleTree&nbsp;(or&nbsp;any&nbsp;nearby&nbsp;hotel&nbsp;of&nbsp;your&nbsp;choice).&nbsp;We&nbsp;chose&nbsp;this&nbsp;hotel,&nbsp;cause&nbsp;they&nbsp;provide&nbsp;transportation&nbsp;to&nbsp;the&nbsp;port&nbsp;and&nbsp;you&nbsp;can&nbsp;leave&nbsp;your&nbsp;car&nbsp;there&nbsp;up&nbsp;to&nbsp;7&nbsp;days&nbsp;with&nbsp;a&nbsp;special&nbsp;room&nbsp;rate.&nbsp;Current&nbsp;rates&nbsp;are&nbsp;under&nbsp;$220&nbsp;per&nbsp;night,&nbsp;but&nbsp;prices&nbsp;may&nbsp;change&nbsp;based&nbsp;on&nbsp;availability-&nbsp;so&nbsp;we&nbsp;recommend&nbsp;booking&nbsp;early.Over&nbsp;the&nbsp;bridge&nbsp;and&nbsp;through&nbsp;the&nbsp;woods,&nbsp;you&nbsp;will&nbsp;find&nbsp;my&nbsp;favorite&nbsp;city&nbsp;LONG&nbsp;BEACH&nbsp;(the&nbsp;good&nbsp;old&nbsp;LBC)&nbsp;with&nbsp;plenty&nbsp;of&nbsp;options&nbsp;for&nbsp;hotels&nbsp;as&nbsp;well.&nbsp;One&nbsp;of&nbsp;our&nbsp;favorites&nbsp;is&nbsp;the&nbsp;Hilton&nbsp;Long&nbsp;Beach.&nbsp;JJ&nbsp;and&nbsp;I&nbsp;will&nbsp;be&nbsp;staying&nbsp;at&nbsp;the&nbsp;DoubleTree&nbsp;beginning&nbsp;November&nbsp;6,&nbsp;2026&nbsp;and&nbsp;heading&nbsp;to&nbsp;the&nbsp;cruise&nbsp;port&nbsp;on&nbsp;the&nbsp;morning&nbsp;of&nbsp;November&nbsp;8,&nbsp;2026.&nbsp;Guest&nbsp;are&nbsp;welcome&nbsp;to&nbsp;join&nbsp;us&nbsp;for&nbsp;one&nbsp;or&nbsp;two&nbsp;nights-&nbsp;whether&nbsp;you&#39;d&nbsp;like&nbsp;to&nbsp;check&nbsp;in&nbsp;on&nbsp;the&nbsp;6th&nbsp;and&nbsp;make&nbsp;it&nbsp;a&nbsp;mini&nbsp;getaway&nbsp;of&nbsp;it,&nbsp;or&nbsp;arrive&nbsp;on&nbsp;the&nbsp;7th&nbsp;and&nbsp;stay&nbsp;the&nbsp;night&nbsp;before&nbsp;we&nbsp;all&nbsp;set&nbsp;sail.Either&nbsp;way,&nbsp;we&nbsp;can&#39;t&nbsp;wait&nbsp;to&nbsp;spend&nbsp;time&nbsp;together&nbsp;before&nbsp;the&nbsp;adventure&nbsp;begins.We&nbsp;will&nbsp;be&nbsp;sailing&nbsp;aboard&nbsp;the&nbsp;NCL&nbsp;Encore&nbsp;on&nbsp;7&nbsp;night&nbsp;round&nbsp;trip&nbsp;cruise&nbsp;departing&nbsp;from&nbsp;Los&nbsp;Angeles&nbsp;on&nbsp;November&nbsp;8,&nbsp;2026.&nbsp;This&nbsp;MEXICAN&nbsp;RIVIERA&nbsp;itinerary&nbsp;includes&nbsp;stops&nbsp;in&nbsp;Cabo&nbsp;San&nbsp;Lucas,&nbsp;Mazatlan,&nbsp;and&nbsp;our&nbsp;favorite&nbsp;place&nbsp;to&nbsp;disconnect&nbsp;PUERTO&nbsp;VALLARTA,&nbsp;along&nbsp;with&nbsp;relaxing&nbsp;sea&nbsp;days&nbsp;to&nbsp;enjoy&nbsp;everything&nbsp;the&nbsp;ship&nbsp;has&nbsp;to&nbsp;offer.&nbsp;The&nbsp;Encore&nbsp;is&nbsp;modern,&nbsp;lively&nbsp;ship&nbsp;with&nbsp;incredible&nbsp;dining,&nbsp;entertainment,&nbsp;pools,&nbsp;and&nbsp;plenty&nbsp;of&nbsp;spaces&nbsp;to&nbsp;relax-making&nbsp;it&nbsp;the&nbsp;perfect&nbsp;setting&nbsp;for&nbsp;both&nbsp;celebration&nbsp;and&nbsp;vacation.

DoubleTree by Hilton Hotel San Pedro - Port of Los Angeles

Travel

Join Us the Night BeforeSaturday, November 7 — Casual Pre-Wedding Get-TogetherIf you're in town the night before the wedding, we'd love for you to stop by and say hello! We'll be hanging out at 2800 Kitchen &amp; Lounge in the lobby of the DoubleTree by Hilton San Pedro.This is completely casual and optional—no reservations, no planned dinner and definitely no agenda. Grab a drink or something to eat if you'd like, come meet some of the other guests, and spend a little time with us before the big day.Where: DoubleTree by Hilton San Pedro – 2800 Kitchen &amp; LoungeWhen: Saturday evening, November 7Time: 7 PMCome for ten minutes or stay awhile. We'd just love to see you!

Lucio & JJ

Lucio & JJ

Things to Do