How did you meet?
We met briefly during our studies at Bob Jones University. But we didn't get to know each other until Lydia began attending University Baptist Church while she was studying at Clemson. We interacted most at the home of some mutual friends.
How many waterfalls have you visited together?
As of December 27, 2025, we have been to 50 unique waterfalls together (some more than once)—and we plan to discover more soon.
What are your favorite falls?
Lee Falls, Sid's Falls, and Glen Falls are some of the prettiest falls we've visited. Rainbow Falls is one of the most impressive waterfalls in South Carolina. But some of our best memories (from our first serious walk-and-talk to our engagement) come from Meadow Falls.
Why do you call a log across a hiking trail "thematic continuity"?
Shortly before our second first date, Hurricane Helene rolled through the Carolinas. While upstate SC was spared the devastation that occurred farther north, the storm did topple many trees. We spent most of that date—and bits of most dates since then—climbing over or under logs. Now hiking a smooth, unobstructed trail feels like cheating.
What is a "second first date"?
Adam left our first date excited for the future of the relationship. Lydia, however, took a few months to warm up to the idea. With almost six months between our first and second dates, the second date was when we really kicked off our relationship.