We’re so excited to celebrate with you in beautiful Mérida! Below you’ll find everything you need to know for our wedding weekend, including event times, transportation, dress codes, and more. Please check back for updates closer to the date!
📍 THURSDAY, DEC 4TH
Tequila Tasting at Hacienda Xcanatún
5:00 PM – 7:00 PM
Location: Hacienda Xcanatún
Calle 20 S/N x 19 y 19A, Comisaría Xcanatún, 97302 Mérida, Yuc., Mexico
Start the weekend off right with a sunset tequila tasting! We'll have tequila, cocktails, and light bites. This is a relaxed evening to mingle and unwind.
Transportation: Buses will pick up at Hyatt and Kahal hotels at 4:30pm to take guests to Hacienda Xcanatun. Buses will be available to return guests to Hyatt and Kahal hotels starting at 7:30pm. Uber is recommended as an alternative option.
Dinner: Not provided during the tasting, but the Hacienda's restaurant will be open until 11 PM. Mérida’s city center also has many great dinner spots—ask us for recommendations!
Dress Code: Resort casual
🎉 FRIDAY, DEC 5TH
Welcome Party at Arcano Restaurant
8:00 PM – 11:00 PM
Location: Arcano Restaurant
C. 20 104, Itzimná, 97100 Mérida, Yuc., Mexico
Join us for cocktails and light bites to officially kick off the festivities!
Transportation: There will only be transportation available for guests staying at Hacienda Xcanatun. Bus pickup will be 4:30pm for those attending the rehearsal dinner, and 7:30pm for those attending the Welcome Event. Uber is also a great option, and is recommended for those staying in the city center (Arcano is just a 6-minute drive from downtown).
Dinner: For guests not attending the rehearsal dinner, we recommend grabbing dinner beforehand.
Dress Code: Cocktail
💍 SATURDAY, DEC 6TH
Wedding Ceremony & Reception
Ceremony begins at 3:00 PM sharp
Location: Hacienda Xcanatún
Calle 20 S/N x 19 y 19A, Comisaría Xcanatún, 97302 Mérida, Yuc., Mexico
We can’t wait to say “I do” with all of you there! Please plan to arrive at least 10 minutes early if you’ll be attending the ceremony.
Transportation: Buses will pick up guests at Hyatt and Kahal hotels at 2:00pm to take guests to Hacienda Xcanatun. Please meet the bus by 1:45 to ensure a seat. Buses will begin running returns from Hacienda Xcanatun to the Hyatt and Kahal hotels starting at 10:00pm and ending at 4:30am.
Evening Flow: Ceremony → Cocktail Hour → Dinner → Dancing
Dress Code: Fiesta Formal (More on this below!)
☀️ SUNDAY, DEC 7TH
Farewell Poolside Brunch
Starting at 11:00 AM
Location: Hacienda Xcanatún
Wind down with us at a laid-back brunch by the pool!
Dress Code: Swimsuits, sundresses, or come straight from the reception—whatever works!
Vibe: Casual
🎟️ Wristbands & Access Info
We’ve rented out the entire Hacienda for Saturday’s festivities! Each guest will receive a wristband upon arrival, which must be worn all weekend for entry into the resort. Wristbands are required for:
Entry to all wedding events at the Hacienda
Resort access (for non-guests)
Access to wedding-exclusive perks (see below!)
Please keep your wristband on all weekend.
🍽️ Dining Discounts – Arcano Restaurant Group
We're thrilled to offer all our guests 20% off at any of the restaurants below, courtesy of Arcano Restaurant Group.
Just show your wristband and give the code #Lyssie&Josh to receive the discount. Offer is available through December 4th-7th.
Participating Restaurants:
Arcano
@arcano.rest
C. 20 104, Itzimná, Mérida
La Sirena Cusca
@lasirenacusca
C. 20 106, Itzimná, Mérida
Restaurante Emplumado
@emplumadomx
Av Carlos Torre Repetto 29, Zona Paseo Montejo, Centro, 97000 Merida
Restaurante Dalia
@dalia.sanangelo
Plaza San Angelo Calle 39 pro 14, San Ramon Norte, 97117, Merida
Malo Bar
@malocomotu
C. 20 104, Itzimna, Merida
All of these are located in or near the city center.
🌺 Dress Code: Fiesta Formal
We’ve received a few questions about what “Fiesta Formal” means, so we’re here to help! You absolutely do not need to buy anything new—this is just guidance if you feel you need it!
For Women:
- Mid- or floor-length dresses
- Colors and patterns encouraged! Bold, festive looks are welcome
- Consider the venue: The Hacienda has uneven, rocky pathways—low block heels, wedges, or flats are highly recommended over stilettos
- Jumpsuits, suits or coordinated sets are also totally acceptable!
For Men:
- Lightweight summer suits (linen, cotton, or other breathable fabrics)
- Colors welcome! Feel free to go beyond navy and black
- Ties are optional
Weekend Summary
Thursday - Tequila Tasting - Hacienda Xcanatun 5pm-7pm
Buses there: 4:30pm Hyatt & Kahal hotels to Hacienda Xcanatun
Buses back: 7:30pm Hacienda Xcanatun to Hyatt & Kahal Hotels
Friday - Rehearsal Dinner - Arcano Restaurant 5pm-8pm
Buses there: 4:30pm Hacienda Xcanatun to Arcano
Friday - Welcome Party - Arcano Restaurant 8pm-11pm
Buses there: 7:30pm Hacienda Xcanatun to Arcano
Buses back: 11:30pm Arcano to Hacienda Xcanatun
Saturday - Wedding - Hacienda Xcanatun 3pm-4:30am
Buses there: 2:00pm Hyatt and Kahal hotels to Hacienda Xcanatun
Buses back: 10:00pm-4:30am Hacienda Xcanatun to Hyatt and Kahal hotels
Sunday - Brunch Party - Hacienda Xcanatun 11:00am
No buses
Pick Up and Drop Off Addresses:
Hacienda Xcanatun
Calle 20 S/N x 19 y 19A Comisaria Xcanatun, 97302 Merida
Hyatt Regency Hotel
Ave. Colon esq Calle 60, a 100 metros, Supermanzana del, Zona Paseo Montejo, 97000 Merida
Kahal Hotel
Av. Paseo de Montejo #500B
Arcano Restaurant
C. 20 104, Itzimna, 97100 Merida
If you have any questions as the weekend approaches, don’t hesitate to reach out to us. We’ll continue to update this page with transportation times and any other important information.
We can’t wait to celebrate with you! 💃🏽🕺🏽