The story of M&J requires a prologue because it begins long before the couple knew each other existed…
As many of you know, Mallory was born and raised in the Adirondacks (ADKs), and Jim was born in NJ but grew up in OH. What’s truly unbelievable, yet true, is that Jim spent his childhood summers vacationing in the ADKs… a mere 14 miles from Mallory’s home.
That’s right! The DeMuth family lived in OH but owned a cottage in NY, on Upper Saranac Lake, where they happily spent summer vacations between the years 1979-2000.
M&J did NOT know this when they first met! However, they did make the connection pretty early on in their relationship. Now Jim likes to visit the old cottage whenever Mal brings him home to the ADKs on holidays, and they love sharing their histories there.
Now, back to the future!
M&J first met in the Fall of 2014. Mal had just moved from NY to OH to begin her career in nursing, and Jim had just left OH for a new job in MI.
Thanks to mutual friends and family* (and the power of social media), Jim caught wind of the new girl in town and reached out to Mal… They went out, fell in love, and the rest is history! (see their photo timeline of memories and milestones below!)
*special shoutout to Mal’s cousin Ali, and Jim’s sister Jackie, who’ve been besties since college… If it weren’t for their friendship, M&J would’ve likely never met! So thank you both so much, the couple loves you endlessly!
2014
October 26, 2014
first date — Cleveland, OH
November 01, 2014
first pic together — Lansing, MI
2015
April 30, 2015
first vaca together — Seattle, WA
November 20, 2015
James Bay concert #1 — Chicago, IL
2016
February 14, 2016
Jim’s first Winter Carnival — Saranac Lake, NY
May 12, 2016
second vaca together — Boston, MA
July 02, 2016
Ruta Wedding — Toledo, OH
August 27, 2016
Schutz Wedding — Webster, NY
September 03, 2016
Roehl Wedding — Canandaigua, NY
October 04, 2016
James Bay concert #2 — Detroit, MI
2017
May 20, 2017
Easton Wedding #1 — Toledo, OH
August 05, 2017
Goo Goo Dolls concert #1 — Cleveland, OH
August 13, 2017
random night out — Cleveland, OH
September 09, 2017
Easton Wedding #2 — Cleveland, OH
October 31, 2017
Halloween — Huron, OH
December 24, 2017
first fur-child and favorite Xmas present ever! — Sirius BlackCat
2018
May 26, 2018
Finton Wedding — OH
September 02, 2018
Labor Day Weekend — Huron, OH
2019
May 27, 2019
the start of CRNA school and life in IL — Schaumburg, IL
August 10, 2019
Chicago Botanical Gardens — IL
October 12, 2019
random night out — Chicago, IL
November 28, 2019
Thanksgiving — Huron, OH
2020
July 10, 2020
Jim proposed — Schaumburg, IL
August 07, 2020
Vaca with the Dennis fam — Myrtle Beach, SC
October 31, 2020
M&J adopted the quarantine kitties — Baby & Mocha
2021
July 30, 2021
with Mal’s rigorous clinical schedule as a SRNA at RFU, not a single decent picture of the couple exists from 2021! … Jim’s endless love and support got them through the toughest year yet!
2022
June 03, 2022
Mal graduated Nurse Anesthesia school,
with Jim by her side! — Chicago, IL