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Over a decade ago, Stan’s study abroad in Denmark was coming to an end, and he had to figure out where he would call home next. As luck would have it, a friend of his on O‘ahu offered to rent out his room to Stan in a house where a bunch of their buddies were all living together. So Stan moved into the Bach Pad—and that’s where he met the most beautiful, kindest, most amazing, ever-serious, non-awkward, utterly coordinated (obviously sarcastic) human gracing this earth: the girl next door, Marissa.From bringing over mail, to grabbing meals, to early mornings spent searching for Shelldon the tortoise (who had an unfortunate habit of getting lost in the yard) their neighborly friendship grew into a love almost as deep as Stephen King’s love for “Mambo No. 5.”Which brings us to today, as they prepare to say “I do” at Stan’s parents’ home in Mountain View, Hawai‘i—a place where, many years ago, when Stan first brought Marissa to visit, she said, “I can see us getting married here.”No longer next-door neighbors, but well on their way to being forever roommates!

The Girl Next Door

Our Story

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Wedding Party

Mountain View is located near Volcano, on the Big Island of Hawaii. It is about a 25 minute drive from Hilo. We will have parking available at the property. At this time we are hoping to offer bus transportation for those staying in Hilo (pick up/ drop off by hotels on Banyan Dr./ Way) on the wedding day, we will update once confirmed. If you are interested in a more rural and nature filled lodging experience closer to the wedding, we recommend looking at Air BnB/ Engine/ Vrbo rentals near Ihope Rd., Mountain View. If you are looking for hotel services and a Starbucks nearby in the morning, Hilo is the way to go.

TA-189-318-3488-01 Featuring a tranquil location on Hilo Bay and offering breathtaking views of Mauna Kea Peak, this hotel is moments from the town of Hilo and provides spacious and modern accommodations. An endless variety of leisure activities, including world-class golf courses can be found close to the Castle Hilo Hawaiian Hotel. Guests can enjoy scenic strolls through Liliukalani Garden or along Onekahakaha Beach. Halemaumau crater, featuring waterfalls and rainforests is also nearby. In addition to an ideal location, the Hilo Hawaiian Hotel provides guests with many thoughtful amenities, including a gift shop and a freshwater pool. The guests can enjoy the in house Whiskey Steak Wine (WSW) The Steakhouse restaurant at the Hilo Hawaiian Hotel. It features first-class steaks, an array of seafood, the best wine list in East Hawai’i, and a table-side Whiskey Cart experience. Located on the lobby level, WSW The Steakhouse offers stunning views overlooking Hilo Bay. The menu features a wide selection of locally sourced produce and appetizers, Prime Grade or Premium Certified Black Angus steaks &amp; chops, seafood, salads, sides and desserts. Daily specials and weekly features are available and include The Surf &amp; Turf on Monday, a Wagyu Grade Tomahawk Tuesday and Wednesday Live Kona-Cold Whole Lobster. WSW also features an impressive list of exclusive fine wines and whiskeys, with wines not found elsewhere in the state and whiskeys from around the world. A floor-to-ceiling walk-around glass display showcases the restaurant’s worldly selections of wines and spirits. The display also houses a signature Whiskey Cart, from which hand-picked selections will be poured table-side to the delight of guests. Tax ID: TA-189-318-3488-01

Hilo Hawaiian Hotel, Trademark Collection by Wyndham

TA-126-334-1568-01 Located on the coastline of Hilo Bay, the Grand Naniloa Hilo, a DoubleTree by Hilton is 30 mi from Hawaii Volcanoes National Park. All rooms have free WiFi. Guest rooms offer garden, ocean, or harbor views of Hilo Bay, Hamakua Coast, or Hilo Harbor. Each room is equipped with a flat-screen TV and a refrigerator, and bathrooms are finished with German limestone. Suites boast a kitchenette. The Grand Naniloa Hilo, a DoubleTree by Hilton features an outdoor swimming pool and sundeck. The Naniloa Golf Course, located within the hotel grounds and adjacent to the Grand Naniloa Hotel, offers a free round of golf daily to guests. An on-site restaurant is open for breakfast and dinner, and a lobby bar and lounge is open nightly. The 24-hour front desk offers fresh coffee and tea and is run by a multilingual staff. The Ka Lihikai restaurant is open for breakfast, lunch, and dinner. The restaurant sources fresh local seafood catches daily and embodies local-Hawaiian cuisine. The Hilo International Airport and Hilo town center are 2 mi from the Grand Naniloa Hilo, a DoubleTree by Hilton. The hotel is less than 0.9 mi from Coconut Island Park. Tax ID: TA-126-334-1568-01

Grand Naniloa Hotel Hilo - a Doubletree by Hilton

TA-134-175-3344-01 A short distance from breathtaking waterfalls and within driving distance of Hawaii National Volcanoes Park, SCP Hilo Hotel offers comfortable accommodations and a swimming pool. WiFi and guest parking are available throughout the property. Guests can also enjoy locally sourced food and drink from Provisions Market. Some rooms feature a balcony, all rooms includes a refrigerator, air conditioning and a ceiling fan, ironing facilities, and an private bathroom complete with a hairdryer. An outdoor swimming pool is available to guests, as well as on-site laundry facilities, fitness room with Peloton bikes, complimentary bicycles and standup paddle boards. Guests at the SCP Hilo Hotel can enjoy on-site dining at the Coconut Grill. The SCP Hilo Hotel is located only a short distance from the Rainbow and Akaka Falls. The Hilo International Airport is 2.3 mi away from the property. Tax ID: TA-134-175-3344-01

SCP Hilo Hotel

Travel

Hawaiʻi Volcanoes National Park offers the chance to explore active volcanic landscapes, steaming vents, sulfur banks, ancient lava tubes, petroglyphs, and vast lava fields shaped by ongoing geological forces. You can hike across crater floors, walk through lush rainforest, drive the scenic Chain of Craters Road, and—if conditions allow—witness glowing lava from safe, designated viewing areas. It’s an unforgettable mix of adventure, natural beauty, and Hawaiian cultural significance. There are fees and some reservations are required.

Hawaiʻi Volcanoes National Park

Volcano Winery in Volcano offers a relaxed tasting experience on the slopes of Mauna Loa and Kīlauea. You can enjoy wine flights, estate-grown tea tastings, and guided vineyard or production-room tours. The atmosphere is casual and scenic, with a small gift shop and beautiful views of the volcanic landscape. Tastings start around $20, while guided tours generally range from $40–$75 per person, depending on the experience you choose.

Volcano Winery

Two Ladies Kitchen is a must if you’re in Hilo. This is a beloved local mochi shop famous for its soft, handmade mochi in a rainbow of flavors. Their standout offering is the strawberry mochi — a whole, juicy strawberry wrapped in smooth azuki bean paste and pillowy rice dough. But you can also find unique varieties like butter mochi, fruit-filled daifuku (lilikoi, pohā berry, grape, peach), as well as Oreo, brownie, sweet-potato, and seasonal fruit mochis. Call ahead if there’s certain mochi you’d like to try as the shop tends to be busy and popular flavors often sell out fast.

Two Ladies Kitchen

Hilo offers many waterfall hikes and parks, with popular options including Rainbow Falls, Akaka Falls State Park, and the Boiling Pots area within Wailuku River State Park. Check out Rainbow Falls for easy ‘ohana-friendly access and sightseeing. Akaka Falls is a paved loop trail with views of two large waterfalls. The Boiling Pots area offers scenic views and is near Peʻepeʻe Falls.

Hilo Waterfall Hikes/ Parks

Visiting the Big Island Candies flagship store in Hilo is a fun, tasty activity where you can watch artisans hand-dip their famous shortbread cookies, browse beautifully packaged treats, and enjoy complimentary samples. The sweet aromas, factory viewing windows, and wide selection of island-made goodies make it a delightful stop for families, food lovers, and anyone exploring Hilo.

Big Island Candies

Things to Do

Registry

Q: Can I bring a plus one? 

A: Please note that the guests addressed on your Save the Date invite are the guests included in the invitation. We’re unable to accommodate additional plus ones.

Q: Will there be any planned activities or events with bride and groom before the wedding? 

A: No group activities have been planned just yet, but we’re working on something fun! We’ll update the website in the months ahead once plans are finalized. Any group activity or event will take place a couple of days before the wedding and will include both the bride and groom. 

Q: Where can we see your registry? 

A: We’re excited to be building our home in Haiku, Maui! Because we don’t have space for physical gifts yet, we don’t have a registry. If you’d like to help us on this journey, gift cards to Home Depot, Lowe’s, or Costco—or monetary gifts—would mean so much as we build our home and farm.

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Our dress code is elevated casual / aloha wear.Please no T-shirts, shorts, or slippers.Because Mountain View often gets rain and the ground can be soft, heels—especially wedges and stilettos—are not recommended. Some walkways will also be gravel, so please choose comfortable, sturdy footwear.Please keep in mind there is always a chance of rain, so plan your attire according.

Marissa & Stanley

Marissa & Stanley

Q&A

Q: Can I bring a plus one?

Q: Will there be any planned activities or events with bride and groom before the wedding?

Q: Where can we see your registry?