Matthew & Emily

July 4, 2026 • Sharpthorne, East Grinstead, UK
411 Days To Go!

Matthew & Emily

July 4, 2026 • Sharpthorne, East Grinstead, UK
411 Days To Go!

Timeline of Happenings

This might seem like an unusual photo to start the timeline... but it is in fact the only photo from their first date.  Matthew, in a panic, realising there were no photos, took a photo of this tree.  It is a very lovely tree in Queen Elizabeth Park.  It sits atop the steep hill that Emily marched him up as the opening gambit to their first date.

August 09, 2022

This might seem like an unusual photo to start the timeline... but it is in fact the only photo from their first date. Matthew, in a panic, realising there were no photos, took a photo of this tree. It is a very lovely tree in Queen Elizabeth Park. It sits atop the steep hill that Emily marched him up as the opening gambit to their first date.
The first photo Matthew ever took of Emily, during their second date.  Sally the Flamingo is still a treasured item within their home, though at this point she has many sisters on the shelf next to her

August 14, 2022

The first photo Matthew ever took of Emily, during their second date. Sally the Flamingo is still a treasured item within their home, though at this point she has many sisters on the shelf next to her
Following the success of Sally the Flamingo they didn't waste any time organising a third date.  This is the first photo of them together, outside The Victory in Portsmouth's Dockyard Museum

August 15, 2022

Following the success of Sally the Flamingo they didn't waste any time organising a third date. This is the first photo of them together, outside The Victory in Portsmouth's Dockyard Museum
This is the first time Emily visited what would become their joint home.  As you can see, she made herself comfortable from the start.

August 25, 2022

This is the first time Emily visited what would become their joint home. As you can see, she made herself comfortable from the start.
Their fourth date was held at Victorious Festival and it was after this that they agreed to be partners in crime for life

August 26, 2022

Their fourth date was held at Victorious Festival and it was after this that they agreed to be partners in crime for life
The first time Emily joined the infamous pub quiz with Matthew quoting "If you wanna be my lover, you gotta get with my weirdos"

August 30, 2022

The first time Emily joined the infamous pub quiz with Matthew quoting "If you wanna be my lover, you gotta get with my weirdos"
They went on their first double date at Gunwharf Quays with Chris, Matthew's oldest friend, and his partner Crystal

November 13, 2022

They went on their first double date at Gunwharf Quays with Chris, Matthew's oldest friend, and his partner Crystal
The first time Emily joined Matthew and Craig, or as she calls him, "Le Craaag" on one of their adventures.  A visit to Portchester castle and late evening drinking games led to new shared friendship

December 04, 2022

The first time Emily joined Matthew and Craig, or as she calls him, "Le Craaag" on one of their adventures. A visit to Portchester castle and late evening drinking games led to new shared friendship
Emily's first experience of the infamous "Can Roulette" that kicks off each year's "Onsie Pub Crawl"

December 15, 2022

Emily's first experience of the infamous "Can Roulette" that kicks off each year's "Onsie Pub Crawl"
First Christmas at the Butser Mad House with Emily's family... "Katie have you checked your..?"

December 18, 2022

First Christmas at the Butser Mad House with Emily's family... "Katie have you checked your..?"
For Emily's first birthday together Matthew ensured she was suitably dressed and accessorised

December 20, 2022

For Emily's first birthday together Matthew ensured she was suitably dressed and accessorised
Emily is indoctrinated into Spanish and Italian culture, meeting Matthew's Nanny and Grandien for the first time at their home

January 22, 2023

Emily is indoctrinated into Spanish and Italian culture, meeting Matthew's Nanny and Grandien for the first time at their home
It took very little to convince Emily to join Matthew on his adventures abroad, despite her having not owned a passport for more than ten years!  First stop Spain!

February 03, 2023

It took very little to convince Emily to join Matthew on his adventures abroad, despite her having not owned a passport for more than ten years! First stop Spain!
As part of their first holiday they managed a whirlwind round trip from sunny Barcelona to snowy Andorra in one day!

February 04, 2023

As part of their first holiday they managed a whirlwind round trip from sunny Barcelona to snowy Andorra in one day!
And just like that Emily caught the travel bug.  Matthew would like to think it was due to the trip itself but they both know it was mainly down to the fresh churros

February 05, 2023

And just like that Emily caught the travel bug. Matthew would like to think it was due to the trip itself but they both know it was mainly down to the fresh churros
After only a week at home they were back out again, this time to France, Monaco and Italy with Alessandra.  It is unclear why Emily turned Scooby into a hat.  El Pato and Alessandra were highly concerned

February 11, 2023

After only a week at home they were back out again, this time to France, Monaco and Italy with Alessandra. It is unclear why Emily turned Scooby into a hat. El Pato and Alessandra were highly concerned
Citron was acquired in Nice airport and Emily officially joined the travel buddy club!

February 12, 2023

Citron was acquired in Nice airport and Emily officially joined the travel buddy club!
Emily arranged their first Valentine's Day together.  It turns out both of them love terrible puns...

February 14, 2023

Emily arranged their first Valentine's Day together. It turns out both of them love terrible puns...
... and roasted duck 😋

February 14, 2023

... and roasted duck 😋
Steve met Steve.  This was the first parents meet up and was coincidentally both Easter Sunday and Steve (Jenkins') birthday weekend.  Nothing is ever done half heartedly in these families

April 09, 2023

Steve met Steve. This was the first parents meet up and was coincidentally both Easter Sunday and Steve (Jenkins') birthday weekend. Nothing is ever done half heartedly in these families
The day "Dr Dizzy" and "Dr Magic" kidnapped Emily from her home.  Live kidnapping photos are sadly not available but this is proof that the fun never stops and it's never time to adult...

April 14, 2023

The day "Dr Dizzy" and "Dr Magic" kidnapped Emily from her home. Live kidnapping photos are sadly not available but this is proof that the fun never stops and it's never time to adult...
... as further shown by Maciej's birthday presents from both of them that year

June 04, 2023

... as further shown by Maciej's birthday presents from both of them that year
Emily took Matthew to her home town of Stourton and they explored the surrounding areas in the midlands.  Matthew met Kirsty, joint maid of honour, for the first time

July 02, 2023

Emily took Matthew to her home town of Stourton and they explored the surrounding areas in the midlands. Matthew met Kirsty, joint maid of honour, for the first time
Some things are just too funny not to photograph...  Luckily their sense of humour matches

July 09, 2023

Some things are just too funny not to photograph... Luckily their sense of humour matches
Emily met Matthew's "son" Tony shortly before they all saw Alice Cooper together

July 09, 2023

Emily met Matthew's "son" Tony shortly before they all saw Alice Cooper together
Second parents meet up, this time mother meets mother!  Everyone still dreams about that cheesecake Linds made

July 14, 2023

Second parents meet up, this time mother meets mother! Everyone still dreams about that cheesecake Linds made
Ready on the flight to Hong Kong for their first round the world trip adventure!

July 19, 2023

Ready on the flight to Hong Kong for their first round the world trip adventure!
The start of their South East Asia temple run was in Vietnam...

July 22, 2023

The start of their South East Asia temple run was in Vietnam...
...including a romantic overnight cruise in Hạ Long Bay

July 24, 2023

...including a romantic overnight cruise in Hạ Long Bay
You should ask Emily how her first Asian style karaoke night ended in Ho Chi Minh City 😉

July 29, 2023

You should ask Emily how her first Asian style karaoke night ended in Ho Chi Minh City 😉
Following Vietnam they travelled to Cambodia for the obligatory tourist photo

August 04, 2023

Following Vietnam they travelled to Cambodia for the obligatory tourist photo
A surprise meet up in Thailand!  Emily met Adam, Matthew's university roommate, and his partner Kseniia for the first time!

August 06, 2023

A surprise meet up in Thailand! Emily met Adam, Matthew's university roommate, and his partner Kseniia for the first time!
Emily helped Matthew to live his childhood dream by organising an elephant care day...

August 11, 2023

Emily helped Matthew to live his childhood dream by organising an elephant care day...
...which ended up being quite messy...

August 11, 2023

...which ended up being quite messy...
... but absolutely worth it.  Matthew loves Emily very much (but maybe not as much as elephants)

August 11, 2023

... but absolutely worth it. Matthew loves Emily very much (but maybe not as much as elephants)
Through the humidity they trekked to the golden temples of Laos...

August 16, 2023

Through the humidity they trekked to the golden temples of Laos...
...and to the tallest heights of Malaysia...

August 20, 2023

...and to the tallest heights of Malaysia...
... whilst laughing constantly along the way

August 24, 2023

... whilst laughing constantly along the way
Their first major adventure together had been a success and they shared their first anniversary together in Singapore.  Matthew asked Emily to move in and she said yes!

August 27, 2023

Their first major adventure together had been a success and they shared their first anniversary together in Singapore. Matthew asked Emily to move in and she said yes!
Once home Emily showed off her party skills organising a Potter themed 30th birthday for Matthew...

September 23, 2023

Once home Emily showed off her party skills organising a Potter themed 30th birthday for Matthew...
...complete with homemade themed cocktails!

September 23, 2023

...complete with homemade themed cocktails!
Jonny was met for the first time - "Gandalf is in Harry Potter right?"

September 23, 2023

Jonny was met for the first time - "Gandalf is in Harry Potter right?"
Emily gets her key!

October 01, 2023

Emily gets her key!
And by the next day had fully moved in!

October 02, 2023

And by the next day had fully moved in!
After a few months of cohabitation Matthew surprised Emily by bringing home their first little one -  Mayhem the kitty!

December 01, 2023

After a few months of cohabitation Matthew surprised Emily by bringing home their first little one - Mayhem the kitty!
The four amigos and their new furry friend spent Christmas together

December 14, 2023

The four amigos and their new furry friend spent Christmas together
Emily's addiction to sushi was enabled via a homemade feast for her birthday

December 21, 2023

Emily's addiction to sushi was enabled via a homemade feast for her birthday
The first Christmas shenanigans with Matthew's family, hosted in Matthew and Emily's home!

January 02, 2024

The first Christmas shenanigans with Matthew's family, hosted in Matthew and Emily's home!
The double dates continued!  This particular time was a murder mystery in London

January 21, 2024

The double dates continued! This particular time was a murder mystery in London
Garr!  A pirate themed Valentine's Day

February 14, 2024

Garr! A pirate themed Valentine's Day
More Mediterranean shenanigans and an official seal of approval was given by Nanny and Grandien!

February 16, 2024

More Mediterranean shenanigans and an official seal of approval was given by Nanny and Grandien!
They scrub up well!  Secretly Matthew was taking notes at Holly and Josh's wedding... plotting the future

February 17, 2024

They scrub up well! Secretly Matthew was taking notes at Holly and Josh's wedding... plotting the future
Matthew and Emily explored his home town of Walton On Thames in Surrey

March 02, 2024

Matthew and Emily explored his home town of Walton On Thames in Surrey
Emily's gecko Stevie moves in and settles into his new home

March 24, 2024

Emily's gecko Stevie moves in and settles into his new home
Cabbage.

March 30, 2024

Cabbage.
They continue their adventures to this day.  At Arundel Castle they didn't once question their choices

April 05, 2024

They continue their adventures to this day. At Arundel Castle they didn't once question their choices
A sad and final meal together as a full house.  Mike was wished best of luck!

May 05, 2024

A sad and final meal together as a full house. Mike was wished best of luck!
Always thrill seeking, this time they prepared for a dive!

May 25, 2024

Always thrill seeking, this time they prepared for a dive!
Sharing the same love for rock music they ensured AC/DC was on the 2024 agenda!

July 07, 2024

Sharing the same love for rock music they ensured AC/DC was on the 2024 agenda!
The next day Matthew excitedly showed Mayhem the sparkly thing he'd be giving her mummy...

July 08, 2024

The next day Matthew excitedly showed Mayhem the sparkly thing he'd be giving her mummy...
... who promptly yeeted the ring across the room in a tantrum

July 08, 2024

... who promptly yeeted the ring across the room in a tantrum
With much plotting and many conspiring helpers the question was asked and she said yes!

July 22, 2024

With much plotting and many conspiring helpers the question was asked and she said yes!
Following which they hightailed it to the airport to get ready for grand adventure number two!

July 22, 2024

Following which they hightailed it to the airport to get ready for grand adventure number two!
Newly engaged, they shared their first meal together as the affianced in Cape Town

July 23, 2024

Newly engaged, they shared their first meal together as the affianced in Cape Town
Everywhere they went Matthew made sure to keep embarrassing Emily as preparation for a life together.  This photo was right before he organised a large group of dancers and singers to surround them

July 25, 2024

Everywhere they went Matthew made sure to keep embarrassing Emily as preparation for a life together. This photo was right before he organised a large group of dancers and singers to surround them
In Franschhoek they discovered that maybe they do like wine

July 28, 2024

In Franschhoek they discovered that maybe they do like wine
They saw so many wonderful sightings on various safaris...

July 31, 2024

They saw so many wonderful sightings on various safaris...
But they missed their kitten and so specifically searched for other ones... from a distance

August 02, 2024

But they missed their kitten and so specifically searched for other ones... from a distance
Scooby and Citron soaked up the sunrises during their scuba trip in Mozambique (nobody wants to see soggy 5am versions of Matthew and Emily)...

August 10, 2024

Scooby and Citron soaked up the sunrises during their scuba trip in Mozambique (nobody wants to see soggy 5am versions of Matthew and Emily)...
And rhino friends were made in Eswatini!

August 12, 2024

And rhino friends were made in Eswatini!
What an adventure!

August 13, 2024

What an adventure!
Bex and Tristan welcomed them into their homes in Durban and Nottingham Road...

August 17, 2024

Bex and Tristan welcomed them into their homes in Durban and Nottingham Road...
... and gave Matthew the opportunity again to prove why Emily loves him

August 18, 2024

... and gave Matthew the opportunity again to prove why Emily loves him
Together they road tripped to the top of Africa in Lesotho, sleeping under the stars in the wilderness

August 24, 2024

Together they road tripped to the top of Africa in Lesotho, sleeping under the stars in the wilderness
On the final day it was Matthew's turn to be embarrassed publicly.  Emily returned the question atop a waterfall with help from Bex and Tristan setting it up!

August 26, 2024

On the final day it was Matthew's turn to be embarrassed publicly. Emily returned the question atop a waterfall with help from Bex and Tristan setting it up!
Once home Matthew joined Emily at Bird World and met Becca for the first time.  It was an eventful day... 💩

August 30, 2024

Once home Matthew joined Emily at Bird World and met Becca for the first time. It was an eventful day... 💩
Chris, being Matthew's oldest friend, was asked - Will you be my groomsman?  - "If I have to"

September 12, 2024

Chris, being Matthew's oldest friend, was asked - Will you be my groomsman? - "If I have to"
Another wedding was attended, this time celebrating Jonny and Sanjana!  More notes were taken, this time together!

September 14, 2024

Another wedding was attended, this time celebrating Jonny and Sanjana! More notes were taken, this time together!
Will you be my bridesmaid?  (But please don't fall over down the aisle Alessandra)

September 17, 2024

Will you be my bridesmaid? (But please don't fall over down the aisle Alessandra)
By October the wedding venue was booked!

October 26, 2024

By October the wedding venue was booked!
By November the newest member of the family, Havoc, was brought home...

November 27, 2024

By November the newest member of the family, Havoc, was brought home...