The Upchurch

Wedding Day

Ceremony

Reception

Our Wedding

Our story began in high school in 2018, sitting in the same math class—where Melissa’s very smooth pickup line was sending Zach the math answers. What started as a small moment quickly grew into something neither of us expected: a love that felt easy, genuine, and meant to last.After graduation, our paths led us to different places. Zach headed to the University of Richmond, where he played lacrosse, balancing academics, practices, and game days. Melissa went on to attend UNC Wilmington. Despite the miles between us and our busy college lives, we chose each other every day. Long distance wasn’t always easy, but it taught us patience, communication, and how to grow both independently and together.Through late-night calls, weekend visits, and constant encouragement—whether it was cheering from afar after a lacrosse game or supporting each other through life’s challenges—we made it work. Distance only strengthened our bond and deepened our love.Coming out on the other side of long distance stronger than ever, we knew this was forever. From a high school math class to college campuses miles apart, and now to this next chapter, we are so excited to continue our story—together.

Our Story

Photos

Dani Brandenburg

Kyle Passio

Allie Denton

Mary Buckler

Rachael Mello

Kylie Goodman

Nick Garver

Aidan McGinnis

Wesley Ward

Nick Carlisle

Mikey Lewallen

Isaac Reitz 

Jeff Nugent

Ethan Gyllenhall

Wedding Party

Q + A

                                      Semi-Formal

We’d love for you to dress semi-formal—something a little elevated but still comfortable and true to your style. Think dressy but not over-the-top: outfits you’d wear to a nice dinner or special celebration. Most importantly, wear something you feel confident and happy in—we can’t wait to celebrate with you!

Dress Code

Homewood Suites by Hilton Raleigh/Cary

Raleigh-Durham International Airport

Travel

Downtown Apex

Downtown Cary

Check out a few of our favorite local spots for a bite, a drink, or both:- Daniel's Restaurant &amp; Catering- Scratch Kitchen &amp; Taproom- TapStation

Need a caffeine fix? These are some of our favorite coffee spots around town:- Mission Market- Foxtail Coffee- Haraz Coffee Shop

Whether you’re in the mood for a local brew, a glass of wine, or just a place to unwind, here are a few spots we love:- Southern Peak Brewery- Bottle Theory- Oaklyn Springs Brewery

Things to Do

Registry

Melissa & Zach

Melissa & Zach

M&Z