One month before the big day! So, RSVP by June 14th (Rob's birthday) or we'll assume you aren't joining us.

Yes. There are currently rooms available at the Hampton Inn in Columbia. Our group code is: MWW

Due to the small size of the wedding party the rehearsal will be limited to those who will be playing a role in our ceremony and immediate family.

Some of Rob’s and I’s fondest memories as kids is attending weddings and getting to dance with other kids. We understand that for some people a child-free wedding works out best, but that isn’t us. So yes, if we know them, your invite is extended to the whole family!

July in Missouri is hot and humid. Our events will be indoors but expect the outside to be sunny and sweaty.

Semi-formal/cocktail attire. The main colors are navy blue and silver, with other lighter shades of blue and grey as well. Feel free to dress with that in mind.

Since you are coming to our wedding your presence is a gift in itself. If you do choose to browse our wedding registry any items on the list can be shipped directly to our home address. We will have a table at the wedding if you would like to bring a gift, and a card box too.

We will have two photographers and two videographers covering our special day and will happily share all photos and videos. We would love you to be fully present with us in the moment. So yes, we will be doing the "Unplugged" thing during our ceremony. That means you, too, Hoyt.

There is ample, free parking at both venues.

Help us get these vows started as scheduled. We recommend that you arrive a half hour before the start of the ceremony to make sure everyone is seated on time.

It's a Sunday, some of us have kids and work. The party "officially" ends at 8:00pm. But what's a Wilhelm party without an afterparty? Keep an ear out for more information about that.