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Monse & Ray

Saturday, October 17, 2026 • Twin Lakes, WI

Monse & Ray

Saturday, October 17, 2026 • Twin Lakes, WI

Dress Code

Our ceremony will be celebrated as a Holy Mass at St. John the Evangelist Catholic Church in Twin Lakes, WI. Holy Mass is a sacred and solemn occasion that calls for formal, modest attire. We kindly ask all guests to dress in a manner that honors the reverence of the liturgy.


Outfits that are revealing, casual, or otherwise attention-drawing are not appropriate. Think polished and put-together.

Ladies

• Cocktail dress or formal midi/maxi

• Dressy separates or formal pantsuit

• Knee-length or longer preferred

• Heels, wedges, or dressy flats


PLEASE AVOID

• Deep necklines

• High slits or short hemlines

• White, ivory, or champagne tones

• Casual wear


Gentlemen

• Dark suit with dress shirt and tie

• Sport coat and dress slacks

• Dress shoes required


PLEASE AVOID

• Tuxedos

• Jeans, khakis, or casual trousers

• Sneakers or athletic shoes

• Shorts or casual shirts


Dress Code Q+A

Semi-formal is always tricky. What do you really mean?

Please err on the side of more formal, not less.

LADIES

May I wear white, off-white, ivory, cream, or champagne?

For ladies: absolutely not. Those shades are reserved for Monse and Monse alone. Wearing them, even in a "close but not quite white" tone, is not appropriate for this event or any other wedding in which you are not the bride. If you're holding up a dress and asking yourself whether it might count as white, it counts. Please choose something else.

How long does my dress or skirt need to be?

Knee-length or longer, strongly preferred. A midi or maxi dress is always a great call. If it's above the knee, it should be just barely - not a mini. Think about how it looks when seated in a pew.

What about a slit in my dress?

A subtle slit at or below the knee is fine. High slits that ride up when walking or sitting are not appropriate for a church ceremony. If you're second-guessing it, trust that instinct.

Can I wear a pantsuit or dressy separates?

Absolutely. A formal pantsuit or polished dressy separates are a great option for ladies.

GENTLEMEN

Do I really need to wear a tie?

You will not be excluded from the event by foregoing a tie, but please wear one.

Can I wear a tuxedo?

We love the formal-leaning thinking, but no. Please do not wear a tuxedo.