Jackson-Feronti Family Dinner

Welcome Party

Botanica

Wedding Day

Guests Arrive

Ceremony

Cocktail Hour

Reception

Send Off

Haunted Head Saloon

The End Up

Our Wedding

Fresh off a move from San Francisco, Ian landed in Dallas with a new job and zero idea that Texas was about to change his life. Nikolena—born and raised in Fort Worth—had just made her own move to the “big city” for a fresh start. Both adjusting to life in a new place, their paths crossed during their second year in town. Their first date was at Leela’s Wine Bar in Dallas, where a single bottle of wine led to hours of conversation, discovering a shared birthday, and easy laughter. What was meant to be a quick drink turned into a full night, ending at a dive bar and stretching well past midnight. From that night on, something just clicked—and they’ve been inseparable ever since. And then, just as things got going, the world shut down. COVID forced everyone to slow down, but somehow, life sped up for them.&nbsp;From working remotely side-by-side in a tiny apartment to learning each other's quirks (and drink preferences) in lockdown, they found humor, comfort, and strength in each other. They became teammates in every sense—navigating the uncertainties of a pandemic hand-in-hand. They’ve cheered their way through countless baseball games (went to a Dodgers World Series and saw the Rangers win their first), celebrated Cowboys and 49ers rivalries, got way too into the Olympics, wandered the streets of Paris, survived Oktoberfest, finally got the families together in New Orleans, road tripped through the Grand Canyon, and fell in love with Fort Worth—(just not Dallas… life’s too short to be from Dallas). Through every city and every season, they’ve grown stronger, funnier, more in sync—and more ready than ever.&nbsp; Now, years later, they’re getting ready to take the next big step: getting married, moving to Chicago, and continuing their “together” adventure, side by side. They can’t wait to celebrate this next chapter with the people they love most.

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Wedding Party

✈️ Travel &amp; Logistics Where should I fly into?We recommend flying into San Diego International Airport (SAN). It’s the closest major airport to Oceanside and typically offers the most direct and affordable flight options. How do I get from the airport to Oceanside?There are several easy ways to travel from SAN to Oceanside: Uber/Lyft: The drive takes about 45–60 minutes, depending on traffic. Expect to pay around $70–$110 each way. Amtrak Pacific Surfliner: A scenic and relaxing option. Take a short Uber or taxi to Santa Fe Depot in downtown San Diego (about 10 minutes from the airport), then hop on the train to Oceanside Station (about 1 hour). From there, it’s a quick Uber to your hotel. Rental Car: If you’re planning to explore the area, renting a car is a great option. Oceanside and the surrounding areas are very driveable. There’s ample parking at the wedding venue, though most hotels do charge for overnight parking. Where is the wedding taking place?The ceremony and celebration will be held at Botanica, a stunning private garden venue located just outside of Oceanside. The venue is about a 15–20 minute drive from central Oceanside. Where should I stay?We recommend booking accommodations in Oceanside, ideally near the Mission Pacific Hotel, where the bride, groom, and family will be staying. Most pre-wedding and post-wedding activities will be centered around that area.Check the Travel tab for hotel recommendations and booking links. 🧳 What to Pack What’s the weather like in December?Southern California in December is mild and beautiful. Expect: Daytime highs: around 65–70°FEvenings: in the low 50s°F There’s always a small chance of rain, so keep an eye on the forecast as the date approaches. What should I wear?Wedding Attire: The celebration will take place outdoors in a lush garden setting. Think cocktail attire with a garden chic vibe—dress to impress, but skip the tuxedos, jeans, or polos. Great suits, statement dresses, and elevated evening wear encouraged! Layers: Evenings can get cool—a light jacket, wrap, or shawl is a smart addition. Footwear: The venue has grassy areas and garden paths. Please avoid stilettos—block heels, wedges, or dressy flats are ideal. ❓ FAQs When should I arrive?We recommend arriving by Thursday, December 11th to settle in and enjoy a welcome happy hour that evening before the wedding festivities begin. When do I need to RSVP by?Please send us your acceptances or regrets by October 12th, 2025. You can RSVP on this website by clicking the "RSVP" button located at the top of the page. What should I do if I cannot attend?You will be missed! If you can not make it to the wedding, please let us know as soon as possible and RSVP “not attending” so we can plan accordingly. Thank you! Can I bring a +1 to the Wedding?Unfortunately, due to space limitations with our venue, we cannot accommodate all of our guests to bring a guest of their own. Therefore, we regretfully ask our guests to please not bring a plus one, unless they are specifically named on the invitation. Thank you so much for understanding! Can I bring my kids?Unfortunately due to space limitations with our venue, we cannot accommodate all of our guests to bring their children. We kindly request that you make arrangements to leave your children at home unless otherwise specified on your invitation. We appreciate your understanding! Will the wedding be indoors or outdoors?The ceremony and cocktail hour will take place outdoors, while the dinner and dancing will take place indoors. Will there be an open bar?Yes! There will be a variety of alcoholic and non-alcoholic drinks available to you at no cost. Please consider bringing some cash to tip our bartenders, though! How should we get to and from the venue on the wedding day?Parking is available onsite if you choose to drive. If you plan to drink , please do so responsibly and do not drink and drive - rideshare is the safest and easiest option for everyone. We are not providing a shuttle to or from the venue, and we apologize for any inconvenience this may cause. We strongly recommend using Uber or another rideshare service for both arrival and departure. The reception ends at 10pm and the venue fully closes at 11pm. Because rides can be limited at that hour, please schedule your Uber in advance. If you're heading back to the hotel or joining us for post-wedding bar hopping, set your return ride to the Hyatt Mission Pacific (Oceanside, CA) - the main hotel where most guests will be staying and likely the easiest place to regroup.

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Stay at Mission Pacific Beach Resort, voted San Diego’s #1 Hotel by Condé Nast Traveler readers. Located steps from the beach in Oceanside, this vibrant resort features the MICHELIN Star restaurant Valle, a rooftop bar and pool, beachfront café High/Low, and the iconic Top Gun House, home of the famous HIGH-pie.

MISSION PACIFIC BEACH RESORT, part of JdV by Hyatt

The Seabird Ocean Resort &amp; Spa offers 4-star beachfront accommodations just a short walk from Oceanside City Beach. Enjoy ocean views, a rooftop pool and hot tub, full-service spa, fitness center, and on-site dining. Rooms feature private balconies, and select rooms offer sea views.

The Seabird Ocean Resort & Spa, Part of Destination Hotel by Hyatt

The Brick Hotel is a stylish, smoke-free boutique hotel in the heart of Oceanside, just steps from the pier and beach. Enjoy free parking nearby, a rooftop bar, on-site dining, and a cozy coffee shop. Rooms include air conditioning, free Wi-Fi, and modern amenities. Conveniently located near the California Surf Museum, Oceanside Pier, and LEGOLAND® California.

The Brick Hotel

SpringHill Suites by Marriott Oceanside Beach offers modern, spacious rooms just steps from the sand. Enjoy ocean breezes from the outdoor pool and hot tub, stay active in the fitness center, and relax in rooms equipped with free Wi-Fi, a mini-fridge, microwave, and coffee maker. A fresh, comfortable stay in the heart of Oceanside—perfect for a beach getaway.

SpringHill Suites by Marriott Oceanside Beach

Where to Stay

🌴 Things to Do Whether you're staying for the weekend or making a mini vacation out of it, there’s plenty to see, sip, and savor around Oceanside and San Diego. Here are a few of our favorites! 🏖️ Oceanside, CA Explore the CoastOceanside Pier – A classic SoCal landmark! Take a walk, watch the surfers, or grab a bite at the end of the pier.Harbor Village – Chill by the boats, rent a kayak, or enjoy fish tacos by the water.Strand Beach Walk – Scenic strolls + people-watching = perfect coastal vibes. Eats &amp; DrinksThe Plot – Elevated plant-based dining with a creative, sustainable menu.Hello Betty – Great rooftop spot for fish tacos, margaritas, and sunset views.Craft Coast Beer &amp; Tacos – Local brews + birria tacos. Enough said.Revolution Roasters – The go-to coffee spot for a solid pour-over and good vibes. Local FunOceanside Museum of Art – Small but mighty, with exhibits featuring local and regional artists.Thursday Night Sunset Market – If you’re in town early, this open-air market is full of food, crafts, and live music (every Thursday evening). ☀️ San Diego, CA (45–60 min south) Iconic SpotsBalboa Park – Art museums, botanical gardens, and trails galore.La Jolla Cove – Watch the sea lions lounge on the rocks or go kayaking along the cliffs.Old Town San Diego – History, margaritas, and handmade tortillas all in one place.San Diego Zoo – World famous and 100% worth the hype (especially if you're staying longer). Great BitesMorning Glory (Little Italy) – Instagrammable brunch with over-the-top pancakes.Las Cuatro Milpas (Barrio Logan) – No-frills, all-flavor Mexican comfort food.Ironside Fish &amp; Oyster (Little Italy) – Fresh oysters and stunning cocktails. Day Trip IdeasCoronado Island – Take the ferry or drive across the bridge for beach time and Hotel del Coronado charm.North Park &amp; South Park – Hip neighborhoods with amazing breweries, boutiques, and bites.

Nikolena & Ian

Nikolena & Ian

Where to Stay

MISSION PACIFIC BEACH RESORT, part of JdV by Hyatt

The Seabird Ocean Resort & Spa, Part of Destination Hotel by Hyatt

The Brick Hotel

SpringHill Suites by Marriott Oceanside Beach