This angelic being taught me how to love--patiently, kindly, and with honor. They say that parents may teach children about life, but Carmen taught me what life is truly about--the giving of oneself to another for their betterment. I could have no better honor than to have Carmen, the only human on this planet who knows what my heart sounds like from the inside, as my Maid of Honor.

We call each other sisters, though we're from different misters. We have had the blessing of raising our children together, and it's not random that Neelma's twins, Pavan and Shivam, look like they could be triplets with Carmen. A wonderful mother, I have the deepest of respect for this woman who has so selflessly loved her family. Neelma has helped me become a better mother and is so thrilled that I found Andrew and that we will become husband and wife--and I am thrilled to have her as my Matron of Honor.

It's not everyday that you see a flower girl this stinking adorable. In addition to being a master gymnast with a smile that melts your heart, Callie is in the first grade. She loves to swim and LOVES her brother Craig.

Falling in love and loving Andrew has been an amazing journey....but his family is certainly the icing on the cake. I really hit the lotto when it comes to "in-laws." I giggle remembering clearly how Sara suggested/told me soon after meeting her that "Andrew is a family man." And there you have it...haha. I love the woman that you are, Sara--a wife, mother, daughter, friend, cousin, teacher, and just overall so full of caring, kindness, and generosity. It is a privilege to have you as a Bridesmaid and Callie as our Flower Girl and Craig as the Ring Bearer.

So special….who she is and our relationship. Bran and I have been besties since we were 11 or 12 years old…and when I say that she’s remarkable, it’s very accurate. Her heart is so special and I was overjoyed when she gave birth to Janelle this past July, becoming a mother and being able to share her love. There’s so much to say about her …and I am overjoyed to have her as my bridesmaid (again). We’ve had amazing lives …and this next phase of being mothers and partners…is …wow…rooted in faith in Christ and the fruit of family that He has blessed us with.

I’ve never seen a brain surgeon look like this….and that is what I told Joan perhaps the first sentence upon meeting her. Over the years of knowing each other we have shared so many epic adventures and I thank God for bringing her into my life. Filled with love, the gift of listening, wise counsel and tremendous children, I am blessed to call Siobhan (Joan’s Gaelic name), my friend, my family.

Some people just ooze love.....and that's you, Sabrina. It is an honor to have you share this moment with us and be by my and Andrew's side. I love your kindness, sense of style, humor, dance moves, wisdom and energy. You have blessed our lives and we are grateful for the many memories together.

How fun is it to gain a sibling? Tons! I'm so excited to gain a sister. And, I am grateful to Amanda for being a great sister to Andrew (a.k.a. "Ya Ya") and teaching him what it is like to live with a woman and honor her. In addition to having great style, being a beauty, and super intelligent, she has a smile and light to her that brightens any room.

I met Gavi around 3:30 am at Fox News Studios in New York for the first time in 2013. And I felt loved by this beautiful spirit. God used her to to show me love and light during a very difficult time in my life. The stories I could tell, but can't.....sorry not sorry. We have had the blessing of traveling the world together...all I have to do is text her....meet me in London, meet me in Rome, meet me in Athens....and she does. Her family is my family and she is Carmen's TiTi. God sent her into my life to bless me.

Brad “Super Magical” Powers aka Virn, is a one of a kind character and longtime best friend. We played on sports teams, attended multiple schools together, and he even joined my childhood country club. The man who is the only one to ever get the physical upper hand against me, has always been by my side since ten years of age. I cannot thank him enough for everything he has done for me in my life and always being there for me. It was an honor standing by him as a groomsman when he said "I do" to Emily.

Hopefully “Easter” Eric will perform on his best man speech as well as I did on mine at his and Jacinda’s wedding. My best friend since the 6th grade when we would head bang to Green Day and Offspring. He is a great listener, who knows too much about me and can write a book of my all my stories better than I can. Our list of great memories is endless and very special to me. I am truly blessed to have such a ‘Rock’ solid friend for 30 plus years.

Craig is always on the move and loves dinosaurs! His favorite dinosaur is the T-Rex. He loves to do or try whatever his big sister Callie is doing!

Even though “McKookoo” is my Cousin by blood, we have been in the business of making faces at strangers ever since we can remember. After serving as the captain of Curry College's tennis team, he has been keeping things right out on the West Coast for the past 20 years. When I've visited him in Cali, we have enjoyed late night street meat eatings and LA Kings games together. Patrick is a man of many talents and will be debuting his skills with the traditional Calabrian zampogna at our wedding. Recently, he ordained our Aunt Gayle’s wedding. And I am excited to have my "Cuz" by my side at our wedding.

Patty “Big D” and I met when I was his childhood golf camp counselor back in the 90’s. He is one of the best wing men to have in Sea Isle City. We have done our fair share of living life to the fullest. A man that has always been there for me and will always do the right thing for whatever the situation calls for. I have enjoyed all of our golf trips, adventures, and our theater performances with Julie and Nina.

“The Bob Father” has been a childhood athletics best friend who was always the better player, except in golf. A great buddy who I have shared so many wonderful memories and life adventures. Bob was also a short term roommate, and I will be able to say “Hey Neighbor” to him for another year. Hoeman is definitely a guy you want on your team, and I am proud to have him part of my Groomsmen.

Ryan has never had a bad day in his life. “Moe” or “Harry” is a true friend and one who will have my back no matter what. I have had the privilege to be a Groomsman in his and Ericka’s wedding, and being Uncle Andrew to their three wonderful children. You will always find me waking up on Christmas morning at the Hughes household after a long night of playing Santa Claus. Help me out Ry.

Joseph Martin is the only Pirate who made this roster and rightfully so. It was love at first sight between us at ECU where we were always thick as thieves. A true southern gentlemen, Joseph and I have been though a lot together over the 20 plus years of our friendship including some memorable golf invitational runs. I can always count on Joseph for picking up my calls and being able to have a half hour life conversation with him.

"$cal Money" grew up in the connecting neighborhood to mine growing up. We have been friends since our Fleetwood Elementary School and Athletics days. I think of him as the little brother I never had. I had the honor of being a Groomsman for his and Megan’s wedding. A man who is quick to cut a promo on me, is always there when I need him. Rob can thank me for his successful, professional career.