We met in college at Texas State University. I saw Paige a couple of times in online classes

helping when the profs had questions or technical difficulties on Zoom. She would help before I

had the opportunity to. We first met in person when she asked our class group chat to make a

study group. About 6-7 people showed up. I couldn’t see her face because everyone was

wearing masks, but I noticed she had pretty eyes. I wasn’t there to fraternize, though, I wanted

to get into this competitive nursing school, so I needed to study. Out of everyone there, Paige

and I were the only ones that wanted to study, while everyone else in the group talked amongst

themselves. I sat next to her, and we talked a little about the subject matter and spent the rest of

our time poured into our books. I liked the silent energy between us.

The next day, I asked the group chat if anyone wanted to study in the same area as before. Lo

and behold, Paige showed up. We sat on the same floor, at the same table, for 2 months before

I asked her out on a date.

I was taking an arts class that necessitated a trip (virtual or in-person) to an art museum, so I

asked her to accompany me to the Blanton Museum of Art in Austin. We shared our first kiss

outside the museum walking around the capital building.

What I loved about Paige during the early days of our relationship, was how focused and

dedicated she was to finishing her degree, her desire to settle down without settling, and her

lived experience of travelling in various places around the world. These things which

constructed who she was, among countless others, influenced her perspective on life and the

world.

Our four years together has been the best times that I have ever had. She is a fantastic

partner to have, and I am lucky to have snatched her up before she realized that she is out of

my league. It is my life’s goal to provide for her, support her in her ambitions, and to forever

honor her.