Destination Wedding Formal Attire A dress, suit, all work for women to wear to a beach formal wedding. Opt for solid, lighter colors (avoiding black and white) and breathable fabrics. To up the elegance factor, consider sumptuous fabrics like lace and tulle, both of which are light and airy but have an upscale vibe. As for shoes, stilettos, chunky heels or formal wedge sandals. As for men, wear either a suit or a long-sleeved shirt and tie with a jacket and slacks. Opt for solid colors, like beige, light blue & cream. Additionally, be sure to select a look with a breathable fabric such as linen, khaki, or seersucker (you don't want to burn up under the summer sun). Dress shoes or a nice pair of shoes that compliment the slacks are required, while shorts and sandals are not permitted. ** Please avoid wearing any kind of blue or white.**