Rayna & Ryan

July 27, 2024 • Lisle, IL

Rayna & Ryan

July 27, 2024 • Lisle, IL

Our Story

How We Met

The year was 2019. Rayna and Ryan were both single. Ryan was living in Downers Grove, an hour outside Chicago. Rayna lived in the city and had a strict filter set on all her dating apps to weed out anyone living in the suburbs.


One night, Ryan came into the city to get drinks with some friends, putting him within five miles of Rayna’s apartment in Roscoe Village. They both opened Bumble that night and swiped right on each other.


Their first date was scheduled for mid-December, but Rayna had to cancel because she was working late. When they rescheduled, she asked Ryan where he was coming from. Upon finding out where he lived, she legitimately almost canceled the date. Luckily, her roommates convinced her to give him a chance. You might know these girls as Rayna’s maids of honor!


Ryan asked Rayna to meet him at a board game bar called Guthrie’s Tavern in the city. She came straight from work, and he drove in from Downers Grove for the occasion. It was December 30th, right after the holidays, so they both ordered Christmas-themed drinks as they played Sorry! and talked about their lives.


Rayna mentioned her favorite board game was Scrabble, so Ryan went and got the board. Rather than playing a traditional game of Scrabble, he suggested they spell out a short story using letters they drew at random. Finding this suggestion cute and spontaneous, Rayna was instantly smitten.


Ryan asked Rayna to be his girlfriend a couple weeks later, but they still celebrate their dating anniversary on December 30th.


Though they’d only been together for two months when the Covid-19 lockdown went into effect, Rayna decided to work from Ryan’s place for what they thought would be a two-week staycation. Within a year, all of Rayna’s things were at Ryan’s condo, and the two of them still live there to this day.


We've been on many adventures, but none compare to the adventure we’re about to embark on together. We are grateful to all our friends and family who have supported us along the way, and we can’t wait to celebrate this milestone together!

One of the first pictures we took together!

March 07, 2020

One of the first pictures we took together!
Drive-in drag show during the pandemic.

August 08, 2020

Drive-in drag show during the pandemic.
We spent Ryan's birthday walking around Urbana-Champaign, where he showed off his college campus.

November 15, 2020

We spent Ryan's birthday walking around Urbana-Champaign, where he showed off his college campus.
Celebrating Rayna's birthday at Punch Bowl Social

June 30, 2021

Celebrating Rayna's birthday at Punch Bowl Social
Piggyback ride during a trip to The Finger Lakes with some of Rayna's college friends

August 28, 2021

Piggyback ride during a trip to The Finger Lakes with some of Rayna's college friends
At the wedding of Ryan and Maddie Kelch. Ryan is going to be best man at our wedding!

September 25, 2021

At the wedding of Ryan and Maddie Kelch. Ryan is going to be best man at our wedding!
Spent New Years in Minneapolis with some of Ryan's closest friends.

January 01, 2022

Spent New Years in Minneapolis with some of Ryan's closest friends.
Feeding sharks and stingrays in the Bahamas

October 19, 2022

Feeding sharks and stingrays in the Bahamas
After binging a few seasons of Hell's Kitchen during the pandemic, we had to visit the location in Vegas when we went this spring.

March 16, 2023

After binging a few seasons of Hell's Kitchen during the pandemic, we had to visit the location in Vegas when we went this spring.
After brunch at our favorite spot and a hike on our favorite trail, Ryan proposed at our favorite pond. You could say this is our favorite day :)

April 08, 2023

After brunch at our favorite spot and a hike on our favorite trail, Ryan proposed at our favorite pond. You could say this is our favorite day :)